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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 2:55pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Good, do u agree that the person is bad, he is a bad individual from your answer. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 2:58pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif: I think that it was useful at some point in history to control humans since people had no possibilities to control unwanted pregnancies and there would have been plenty of fatherless children if society hadn't come up with such means as marriage to control it. However, today we have many more options than people had back in the day and we should make use of them to our advantage. If one can love/lust on a person who isn't their partner then they have the capacity to show this affection to more than a person. It's hard to embrace and accept this fact but nonetheless facts are sacrosanct and can't be manipulated. It is not hard for me to accept it. Love and lust are beautiful things and adults should be enabled to enjoy them without causing harm to themselves and others. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by cherryice(f): 2:59pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif:answer daretodiffer's quote ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
bjcole: Where exactly did you read that I said that the person is a bad individual? It beats me how people will even misread a one-sentence contribution. Sorry! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 3:05pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
tearoses:Correct, even though I blame both parties in cases of infidelity, I still blame the men more, like the Op said, men find it so difficult to forgive and they in turn do it, I think the only that is qualified to raise eyebrow in case of his wife cheating is a man that will not cheat himself. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 3:05pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Good, do u agree that the person is bad, he is a bad individual from your answer. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by McSquishi(f): 3:05pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: #goals lol. But seriously, I'm working toward this. It's admirable that you've reached that level! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 3:12pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
cherryice: Well, the reason why I might not forgive a cheating spouse is coz I'd think she cheated coz she want to get at me and serve me a doze of my own medication. Not coz she had no control of herself and it happened unintentionally. I'd always think it was intent to hurt me too. Though this is not true as she too might have been betrayed by her human instincts and traits. But then what's the point of conserving a relationship/marriage where both party can have multiple coítal relations with others. There's no point really if two 'mad' people come together as a couple if everyone cheat at the other. Marriage doesn't make sense if that's the case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I don't think that is really the issue here. I am likewise the same however I welcome both negatives and positives, they are part of what makes me human. The issue is why would a Nigerian man find out difficult to forgive his cheating wife. If it is true that sex does not equate to love, then a man who believes that his action is not a betrayal of his love for his spouse, must also be smart enough to know that his wife's cheating would have no impact on her love for him. Women have also been cheating from time immemorial and they still do. Women that do not cheat do so because of other factors which they give considerable importance to. It does not mean that they do not desire or appreciate other men. There are several cheating married women out there who would give up everything they have for their families. So you know, the BS about powerful men and infidelity as also been proven to be true for powerful women. This is the 21st century. It is either we (men and women)/accept that fornication or polygamy(in most cases) is not ideal or men STFU and let women do their thing. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif:Thanks cherryrice And to you Ronald, ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 3:21pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I quoted you from what you wrote, you said like everyone else exhibits bad and good character, in as much as there is bad habit in your nature which you are decisively dealing with, you are a bad individual. I m writing on the basis of what God created us to be. If you are a lair, cheater, fraudster, talkative, robber, rapist etc and you don't deal with it, you are a bad individual. Any habit you portray that is contrary to the word of God makes you a BAD person. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
McSquishi: Enjoy the journey. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: I have not argued on behalf of or against any gender, have I? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
bjcole: Keep your religion to yourself please when you are talking to me because I don't share your religious views. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: No, you did not but your tone is in favour of men. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 3:42pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Epic. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 3:45pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer:Cheating is not good for anybody, be it a man or woman, but men are a bit different from women, women are so emotional, and can be so attached to the cheating partner, can anybody be ever proud of cheating. Cheating is not a Nigerian thing and unforgiving mind is not either, so let's no tribalise it. Admiring and desiring another person when you are married are two different things. This whole thing is just a plan from the pit of hell to destroy human race. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 3:45pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Please I can't forgive a cheating spouse but I expect to be forgiven. If she doesn't want to forgive even after making entries to pacify my mistakes then she have a choice to initiate divorce. It's within her right to do so and no one is forcing her. Kapish? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif: What if it wasn't done out of spite ![]() Electric spark and all ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by byvan03: 4:00pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
tearoses: It's the lie that hurts the most not the actual physical contact itself. The fact that you have trusted the person, given your best to the relationship and yet taken for a fool. Oh yes!! People underestimate the pain, the reason I still believe that whatever your partner responds with because of your cheating is well deserved, I can never feel sorry for such a person. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by KanwuliaJara: 4:04pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Because they are LOCAL and DENSE! Toto na empire to them o! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: It is? It is not supposed to be. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by byvan03: 4:06pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
bjcole: Surely nothing to be proud of, it's actually a disgrace to oneself but people got to cope somehow. I can't judge the extreme reactions of some people cheated on because I can't predict what I will do in such situation. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by crackhaus: 4:14pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Mindfulness:[size=50pt]Bullshiit[/size] But please, don't stop... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:25pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
DeMekus: Why? Their biology changes, or they merely conform to social pressure? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by MsGlobalwonder(f): 4:30pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 4:33pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
daretodiffer: If all pointers indicate it wasn't done out of spite and retribution then of course there would be room for reconciliation. I'm not that rigid and understand some action can be done without control. But then again, it will linger in my heart for a long time, so long very much of a time for the thoughts to disappear which might affect our relationship that it may be better we split. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
McSquishi:I wouldn't term it blaming so much as outlining the reality of what is. I think that's quite the extreme analogy. It's neither fair nor balanced. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Wayo! Don't worry you won't know ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
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