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Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 9:10pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
mostyg: That's just sophism and can't be proven. I just stated possible reasons backed by science. If you have any plausible evidence to support God created the universe bring forth so we can argue for or against it. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 9:17pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif:I am not too good in arguing. Will you believe in God's existence if you see convincing evidences? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by ronald4lif(m): 9:28pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
mostyg: Certainly will. I'm for believing anything that can be backed with evidence. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mostyg(m): 9:44pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
ronald4lif:The summary of big-bang theor yis that the universe and its content were once a unit before an explosion that made them parted ways. Lets consider what God told his messenger some 1400 years ago. Quran 21 vs 30.." Have not those who disbelieve known that the heavens and the earth were joined together as one united piece, then we parted them" Does this not explain the big-bang theory? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by KanwuliaJara: 9:54pm On Jan 17, 2016 |
Because they are LOCAL and DENSE! Toto na empire to them o! ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by cococandy(f): 1:28am On Jan 18, 2016 |
mostyg:this I agree with |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 1:56am On Jan 18, 2016 |
EnlightenedSoul: You and mindfulness I love you guys. I agree with this truth. This one man one woman issue could be discussed mutually and if you still love the man then girl take your number and Sidon. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 3:08am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: People being disposal is another branch from abandonment issues... That is counter action and that's not healthy either. It's better than surrender but it's still not the answer. There are abandonment issues when you run from intimacy. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by mekybabe1: 4:55am On Jan 18, 2016 |
True talk dear. Richy4: |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 6:55am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: I love you too! ![]() ![]() I will respond to your post later as I am about to leave the house and I would love to dedicate an appropriate amount of time to what you have shared with me. I feel honored. Have a lovely day! ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 9:28am On Jan 18, 2016 |
ronald4lif: This your theory was written by who, was the person there to witness it, I m not just basing my findings on religion or science alone, I m telling you about common sense here, everything you read on the internet was written by people, all the books you read in schools were written by people. My common sense tells me God exist and I m a living witness to it. God speaks to me and confirms it, I have seen to many miracles in my life to know God exists. Go and study about human ear alone, look at the construction, pay more attention to it and come tell me what you think could be responsible for its formation. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by lezz(m): 9:53am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Your sermons are a veiled acquiescence to unhinged social conduct, a call to surrender to the impulsive and bestial disposition of men which God has given enough intelligence to discountenance. You seem to merge all human emotions into a common term of love. Your emboldened call for the resignation of man's very core --love-- to any emotional impression, however fleeting it may be , is quite worrisome, especially to women. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 10:08am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: You don't need to agree with me, that you believe that cheating is part of life does not make it right, that you also believe that you, someone else or the man you got married to, cannot but cheats is still your business, you are free to believe whatever you want, as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. Cheating is one of the bad habits that one acquired over time till it becomes almost an involuntary, it can actually becomes a lifestyle, it is sinful and Satan uses it to afflict people and cause them to suffer eternal regrets and condemnation. @mindful, if you want to know about God's principles, let me know, I can put you through, some of the things you quoted up are based on the word of God, and you don't want to share religious belief. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 10:26am On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz:Her sermons are actually impracticable and so unrealistic, except you have been a victim of several depression or cheats in relationship that now makes you think you can develop thick skin to repel such. All humans are not the same and can't be the same. She was just assuming a super woman which her write up could not butress |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 10:26am On Jan 18, 2016 |
McSquishi: Understood, and I get your meaning, but as you pointed out, some actions have more gray areas, whilst others are black and white. There're reasons for that. I wasn't trying unburden the cheater of personal responsibility or wrongdoing - that isn't in contention here (at least, not on my part) - rather, what I've been trying to say is, the cheater's act of transgression isn't always all there is to consider. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: That's neat. Are you really that zen? ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by lezz(m): 10:52am On Jan 18, 2016 |
bjcole:My fears exactly. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: What's love got to do, got to do with it? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by TV01(m): 12:04pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
BjCole, I stand to applaud your efforts here. I've also found McSquishi' post very good, even if not as many. And also a worthy mention for Lezz, late-on, but very insightful entries. It behoves to challenge moral bankruptcy, no matter how "logically sweetened" or otherwise dressed up. Like BJ said "the fool has said in his heart there is no God"...and without God, what objective morality can there actually be? Hence attempts to reduce men and their motivation to those of brute beasts. Very well done. Please keep it up. TV 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by bjcole(m): 3:50pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
TV01:Thanks Bros, your moniker rings a bell, you are an old contributor here I guess, what else can we contribute here than to help people build good homes and let people know that these things are possible if you can condition your mind towards it. This month made me 9yrs in marriage, we have had cases where some couples would not want to withstand. My wife and I had been through a lot but we resolve that all things work together for good for those that love God. There was a period of ignorance in my life that I felt like I was tired of my wife, thank God that it was not too late for me, after working on my self, I discovered that my wife does not even have any problem, now we live happily and we are working towards a perfect home. Why will you cheat on your spouse if you have not lost your mind, the person you claimed you loved before, all of a sudden you don't love her or him again, then you didn't love in the first place. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
EnlightenedSoul: Everything and nothing, depending on where you stand in your emotional development. ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
bjcole: Where did you read that cheating is right? Cheating is one of the bad habits that one acquired over time till it becomes almost an involuntary, it can actually becomes a lifestyle, it is sinful and Satan uses it to afflict people and cause them to suffer eternal regrets and condemnation. ![]() ![]() ![]() @mindful, if you want to know about God's principles, let me know, I can put you through, some of the things you quoted up are based on the word of God, and you don't want to share religious belief. I have unmediated access to God's word so you are not needed. ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
lezz: What are you worried about? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
EnlightenedSoul:But a second-hand emotion. Who need a heart huh lol *Listening to Tina Turner now* thanks ![]() |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Is it possible to be too positive, you mean? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
EnlightenedSoul: Yes. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nubian113: ![]() I actually don't think it's a secondhand emotion or agree with the rest of the song, really lol. That line is the pretty accurate on it's own, tho, IMO. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: That's relative to the person's POV. It's normal to see the negative in negatives and the positive in positives, but I know some people are more capable than others in seeing the silver-lining/bright side. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by lezz(m): 8:00pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness:You require folks to give into their impulses which you have called "natural inclination" rather than exercise restrain which is a mark of superior being as against that of premial existence. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by UIA04(f): 11:48pm On Jan 18, 2016 |
McSquishi:You have already said it rightly earlier jare I don't understand where that guy is going to with his rgument |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Find It Difficult To Forgive A Cheating Wife? by Nobody: 6:15am On Jan 19, 2016 |
lezz: Where did you read it? And since when has an impulse become a natural inclination? |
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