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What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Dolypson04(m): 10:04am On Jan 22, 2016
Hello Nairalanders,
I was granting an interview some days ago when I was asked if I have ever been in love. I honestly told them "No". I had an ex and a girlfriend. The interviewer was shocked an queried if I am not in love with my girlfriend.
I sincerely love my babe but I don't think I am "in love" like those Nollywood movies.... Can't sleep without her, can't live without her. Maybe I don't know what being in love is.
Kindly help me out pls because I was told I have to be in love and not just love my would-be wife.
Thanks
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by donTbone(m): 10:06am On Jan 22, 2016
Being in love... You feel PEACE even when you quarell.
To love... You love your siblings, dont you?
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 10:35am On Jan 22, 2016
To Love... You're giving, there's no guarantee the feeling is mutual.. This is sth like a clause



To be in Love... The environment is soaked with the feeling and it's mutual..
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 10:36am On Jan 22, 2016
I Love my Parents...

I'm in Love with Michael Jackson.....embarassed

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Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by cruzita(f): 10:59am On Jan 22, 2016
I love wizkid but I'm in love with davido .isn't this example perfect?
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 22, 2016
Estharfabian:
I Love my Parents...


I'm in Love with Michael Jackson.....embarassed



Love who?
MJ doesn't even know you, besides the guy dun rotten. cheesy
This is what I call "KOLOLYSIS" tongue
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 22, 2016
U're simply unemotional.
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Dolypson04(m): 4:02pm On Jan 22, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:
U're simply unemotional.
Maybe you nick it man out of them all. How do I improve pls?
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 22, 2016
Dolypson04:

Maybe you nick it man out of them all. How do I improve pls?
Ok 1st of all, ur friendship with fellow guys like u is ok. U need to increase ur friendship and rapour with females and always make ur girl knw what u like most about her that makes u think of her. For some men its d smile, some singing(voice), some dance, some even say they like action girls(tough girls), some men like me like talkativeness and disturbance from girls(d pleasant and tender disturbance o, not d type that can give bp). Different men with their likes. When u tell her, she'll do it to make u pleased. Ask her what she likes too and do it for her(it doesn't make u a weakling, it makes u more of a man).

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Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Smellymouth: 5:47pm On Jan 22, 2016
You can love your mom, but it'd be weird to be "in love" with her.
"In love," as best as I can tell, is deep romantic love, as opposed to a strong caring for someone like the love you have for your mom or brother.

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Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Dolypson04(m): 6:02pm On Jan 22, 2016
RadicallyBlunt:

Ok 1st of all, ur friendship with fellow guys like u is ok. U need to increase ur friendship and rapour with females and always make ur girl knw what u like most about her that makes u think of her. For some men its d smile, some singing(voice), some dance, some even say they like action girls(tough girls), some men like me like talkativeness and disturbance from girls(d pleasant and tender disturbance o, not d type that can give bp). Different men with their likes. When u tell her, she'll do it to make u pleased. Ask her what she likes too and do it for her(it doesn't make u a weakling, it makes u more of a man).
Thanks man
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Silentmind(m): 6:18pm On Jan 22, 2016
The ability to love everyone is inherent in everyone. A man can love everyone he sees or meet. Even the holy book advised us to love our neighbours as ourselves.

But there is a sharp difference when it comes to being in love. To be in love takes you to a whole new level. You feel the person in your heart and the urge of being with the person increases with time. It is exactly what God ordained in man from the beginning. It is love God has for us. That's why he is always jealous. To be in love is from the spirit, it links the souls of the couple together and makes it difficult for them to separate.
Re: What Is The Difference Between "To Love" And "To Be In Love"? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jan 23, 2016
ERUDITEE:

Love who? MJ doesn't even know you, besides the guy dun rotten. cheesy This is what I call "KOLOLYSIS" tongue
LoLgrin


I don't care... I Still Love his Ass!grin

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