A mother should love all the kids equally, cos i am sure the pain she suffered on them are all same.

My mum loves my elder sister most cos her husband is VERY RICH

kritikul:

My mum loves my elder sister most cos her husband is VERY RICH

I bet you feel bad about that and that is making u to wanna make sure u marry a richer man too.
I think mothers should stay off such behaviour, cos money aint it all.

id say my eldest bro. true description of the perfect child.

me on the other hand. . .am not what you would call perfect, i got my demons.

kritikul:

My mum loves my elder sister most cos her husband is VERY RICH

osasp:

id say my eldest bro. true description of the perfect child.

me on the other hand. . .am not what you would call perfect, i got my demons.

perfect ke
what are u then

origina9ja:


perfect ke
what are u then

e tire me how man go dey perfect-o

NOo man is perfect (), God is perfection,, i think mothers can't deny the first pain of child bearing, no wonder they most times can't do without their first child even when d (first born)is most times regarded as spoilt child.

origina9ja:


perfect ke
what are u then

Nezan:

e tire me how man go dey perfect-o

i mean hes like the ideal child (listen and do whatever you say, bring home prises from skl, get a decent job) something any parent would wish 4.

me cos am the oldest. momsy no dey sleep ooh when am angry at her

first 2 last

am the last and my moms life revolves around me.to her am still her baby boy.

papaejima:

am the last and my moms life revolves around me.to her am still her baby boy.

And you will always be her baby boy.

our last born is mom's pet

Well. in my family iam because i am the last born. but i left her for Lagos at my early life, distance really affected our her favorite, because of this she settled for my immediate elder brother because he was closer to her and she can easily ask him for one or two things. at a point i was jealous . lol. so to me i think the last born because it is the gate close.

It me, I'm her only boy, but she loves a last child too.

bandely:

It me, I'm her only boy, but she loves a last child too.

I will like to know how someone could tell if they are the favorite.

first son becomes mums favorite
first daughter becomes dads favorite vice versa it's natural

rubi:

first son becomes mums favorite
first daughter becomes dads favorite vice versa it's natural

That means no one loves the last kids? Cheii

It all depends on one thing or the other.At the early stage when the family starts to have children,it alws the first born.After she has stopped child bearing,the attention is shifted to the last born(Now she disturbs even the first born for the survival of the last child).When the children are all grown up to face challenges in their individual life,whosoever[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000] that brings in money is the favourite.

Bashbaba:

It all depends on one thing or the other.At the early stage when the family starts to have children,it alws the first born.After she has stopped child bearing,the attention is shifted to the last born(Now she disturbs even the first born for the survival of the last child).When the children are all grown up to face challenges in their individual life,whosoever[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000] that brings in money is the favourite.

I love your definition

mum expects u 2 take care of d younger ones even when u need attention

korexes:

mum expects u 2 take care of d younger ones even when u need attention

some parents do that alot but I hate it. Most times the person gets drained

rubi:

some parents do that alot but I hate it. Most times the person gets drained

True but i realizes such kids ends up being very reliable in the future, turns out to be the best husband or wife to someone.

korexes:

mum expects u 2 take care of d younger ones even when u need attention

I am very careful with this with my children.

My son is expected, like i was, to monitor the younger children, give them advice on rules and procedures and help guide them out of trouble.

Because this weight can be hard on his shoulders I am careful to reward him and give him a break just to relax. Or extra time outside when the rest have to be inside.

With the extra responsibility comes extra freedom.

my brother cos he is the only boy i think

WHY IS THIS EVEN A DEBATE!!?? A MOTHER SHOULD NEVER HAVE FAVS. SHE SHOULD LOVE ALL HER CHILDREN EQUALLY AND IF SHE DOESN'T SHAME ON HER. A mother's job is to love ALL her kids. if she loves one more than another she is not fulfilling this job. she is only doing half of it.

rs123:

WHY IS THIS EVEN A DEBATE!!?? A MOTHER SHOULD NEVER HAVE FAVS. SHE SHOULD LOVE ALL HER CHILDREN EQUALLY AND IF SHE DOESN'T SHAME ON HER. A mother's job is to love ALL her kids. if she loves one more than another she is not fulfilling this job. she is only doing half of it.

shame on her because she is HUMAN?

SMH.

shesi:

my brother used to be my mom's favorite until he got married 

now that enviable position lies with me. lol,  i can do no wrong. lol

it turns out marrying a woman your mother doesn't like can erase years of accumulated affection. 

bitch plz

me!!!! me!!!!!!!!!! me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
***I'm an only child, gets borin sometimes, sha***

am my mum's favourite, am the first

this whole issue is savage and wrong, Its sad that people perpetuate this wayward tradition,