smartleo:

I'm sure if this lady is your sister,you won't give her this alternative

Strahovski1:


And are you comfortable with this authority? Marriage is suppose to be a democracy not a dictatorship

ipledge10:
even me?

pet4ril:
i think this woman has nothing doing..... Maybe full house wife things..... Heheheh this is just the beginning i assure her

hahaha... I hope this is gonna be her last thread based on this same issue this year.... because if it wasn't, we in family section might be forced to suspend her for boring us to death.....

smartleo:

I'm sure if this lady is your sister,you won't give her this alternative

Eluala:
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It is appropriate to either say "you are exempted", or "you are an exception". Please note the difference in usage between the two.

Thanks. Please no mischief intended, just being my sister's keeper so I expect only a 'thank you' and not an insult. Cheers.

kennysteve77:




Between ipledge10 the EXEMPTION and Michellla being THRUSTED, na only God know who pass English for secondary school...

domopps:


Read very well bae..........!



Cheeeeeers

delishpot:


Not true. There are thousands of homes where the wife dedicates time, money and other resources yet the men still treat them like shit. I know of 3 that the men beat and 1 got blinded in 1 eye before she decided to leave with her kids she dedicated 15 years to that marriage and did everything she could to make it work. She was dedicated and kind. I know her personally. I have seen bankers quit jobs because husband said so, I have seen business women close shop and move to other towns with their HUSBANDS because family co es 1st. [b[So not every wife is usless.[/b] And being a stay at home mom is not a curse too. No mother should be made to feel inadequate because when has chosen to stay home and care for her growing family.
I think the problem is not necessarily what money or furtune the woman has. It is the attitude of the man even before marriage that the women overlooked. They married him because they were worried about what people will say or because he has money.

therapistmrs:
Well ma,I'm not sure this is all the story but firstly you should get yourself something to do to keep you busy and earn you money to take care of your kids.
4.when you gain fanacial freedom , you can then divorce your husband because the man does not love you anymore and i'm sure you know that already.

Nkasiobi87:
Hi everyone, after what happened in my husband church on Sunday how he embarrassed me and his worker slapping me. I decided to consult his doctor friend to talk to him ,the only reason he gave the doctor is that the mistress saved his life when he wanted to kill him self because of a woman that died years ago in his church which left him confused then(I traveled with My last child when this incident happen) and the girl telling him not to kill him self is enough that the girl love him and that from that day he swear never to leave that girl nor let the girl feel bad in any situation.

He said that the girl is his life. so for me becoming pregnant is enough to make the girl feel bad so he now tries to defame me and make the girl happy.he suggested that the only solution that will bring peace to my family is me becoming friend with the said girl and serving her.and that I should beg the worker that I have forgiven him if I want him to accept me again.

Now the girl in question here is rude and proud. she insult me anyhow.she laughed at me now that am going through this with my hubby. today she saw me and started laughing that she must make me leave my home with my 5kids.

Now all am asking my self is how can I step so low to the extend of begging my husband mistress just for my husband to love me again. how can I befriend this witch of a girl. How can I worship this girl in my own house all to please my husband. A girl that saved my husband name with Baby m. Will that make me a peace seeker or a fool the more.will a reasonable woman do that?

Nkasiobi87:
Hi everyone, after what happened in my husband church on Sunday how he embarrassed me and his worker slapping me. I decided to consult his doctor friend to talk to him ,the only reason he gave the doctor is that the mistress saved his life when he wanted to kill him self because of a woman that died years ago in his church which left him confused then(I traveled with My last child when this incident happen) and the girl telling him not to kill him self is enough that the girl love him and that from that day he swear never to leave that girl nor let the girl feel bad in any situation.

He said that the girl is his life. so for me becoming pregnant is enough to make the girl feel bad so he now tries to defame me and make the girl happy.he suggested that the only solution that will bring peace to my family is me becoming friend with the said girl and serving her.and that I should beg the worker that I have forgiven him if I want him to accept me again.

Now the girl in question here is rude and proud. she insult me anyhow.she laughed at me now that am going through this with my hubby. today she saw me and started laughing that she must make me leave my home with my 5kids.

Now all am asking my self is how can I step so low to the extend of begging my husband mistress just for my husband to love me again. how can I befriend this witch of a girl. How can I worship this girl in my own house all to please my husband. A girl that saved my husband name with Baby m. Will that make me a peace seeker or a fool the mo
re.will a reasonable woman do that?

smartleo:

And because she has been suffering for long,DIVORCE is the solution to her problem?......please you guys should not push the woman into future troubles.

Nkasiobi87:
there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand.

Strahovski1:
I advice you divorce the man and move on.. What legacy are you leaving for your children? especially the boys?

Do not make anymore of yourself a fool. Just leave the man unless there is more to it because i dont understand

Michellla:
you missed the point.
we both know what we were doing with that grammatical error.Lol

canDy4eva:
yelx o, even u!

icecream2:
Hello madam, it is well with your soul. I don't normally comment but i have to because i am also a pastor's wife. My dear sis wisdom is profitable to direct. why did u decide to have 5 children plus anoda pregnancy for a man dat does not love u haven't u heard of family planning. Your husband is not a pastor don't ever call him dat again. who is his mentor and role model i hope u will not say Jesus because if u say dat u might receive a slap from him. I hope u are clean in this matter as in u don't have any fault or hidden secret that u believe in ur mind dat ur husband does not know but unfortunately for u he knows. So then if there is no secret pack ur things and that of ur children and look for where to stay. I will recommend separation for now and not divorce until d 2 of u get it right especially because of d children. Make sure u find a good means of providing for ur needs without relying on the man and pray for him. maa duro di igba ti o maa fi pa e sile o. Omo wa ko ni di omo olomo o. i cherish my life and children more dan any thing. no worker in our church dares dat stupid nonsense with me holy ghost fire will reconstruct his life and family like dat of gehazi. Pastor's wife need to carry fire. If the holyghost fire is in u no stupid girl will dare want to ruin ur marriage nor one stupid worker disrespect u. Go and settle this matter on ur kneels. The God of signs and wonders can still do it.

ZeeAfrica:


What you are saying is good, but are you aware that even top pastors do divorce and others do suffer abuse in marriages? Have you of the Pastor Chirs and Pastor Anita of Christ Embassy saga? I bet u most ppl looked up to them, but for various reasons half of their dignity is now spoilt

Strahovski1:


The kids is a good reason to divorce. .

Ok if you are in her shoes you would let your children grow up into seeing their father have have a mistress.. bully and maltreat their mother?

One has to be reasonable.. it has been happening for long even before she had 5 kids. . Yet she went on to have more kids.. and still complain then there is more to it that she is not telling us.