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What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by dahdah: 2:35pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
When you’re in a relationship, it may be important to
you that your family gets along with your partner. And
that makes total sense! It’s awesome when our partners
can be involved in multiple areas of our lives and hang
out with the other people we care about.
But what if that’s not the case? What if your parents
or other family members disapprove of your partner?
This can be really tough. It might make you feel terrible
or torn between your family and your partner.
You might want to react defensively and maybe angrily
toward your family if they tell you they don’t approve of
your partner. You might even want to ignore what they
say and just shut them out or keep your relationship a
secret from them.
I Still can't explain my feelings , when its becoming
clear day by day that the Parents of the girl I love so
much seems not to be in support of Our relationship, I
keep realizing you cannot change what people really think
about you. That feeling you have when you're been
rejected is the same feeling in me right now, I thought it
will change but still the same.
Would keeping the relationship a secret from family
members makes it feel good in the long run? It might
seem like the easiest solution, but I remember: all
healthy relationships are built on trust, respect and
communication, and that includes the relationship with
the families.
Can anything be done when the only difference is the
tribe? I thought Love is above everything. Is it now
that I will let go of a 4years r/p?
I strongly believe it will be difficult for a girl to turn
deaf ears to her parents advice and even if she turns deaf
ear, How advice able is it for me to marry Someone
that her parents is not in support of Our relationship ?
That's risky ! If the future is considered.
I just want to hear from fellow nairalanders , I want
you guys to just give me meaningful advice
Royalroy PLEASE HEELP MOVE IT
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Re: What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by tripplephi: 2:39pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
dahdah: This is a simple case of PRAYER and WISDOM. In some cases rejection is direction... In most cases it is delay.... So to deal with both simple engage your partner in prayers before meeting their parents or getting too deep in the relationship 1 Like |
Re: What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by dahdah: 2:56pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
tripplephi: Thanks Sir |
Re: What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
Hmm, there's almost nothing you can do in this kind of situation oh, unless you take it by force any means somehow. |
Re: What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by dahdah: 8:27pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
Valeree: By Force, I don't think that's the best |
Re: What To Be Done When Your Partners' Parent Is Nt In Support Of Your Relationship by Nobody: 6:25am On Feb 13, 2016 |
I don't mean that kind of force you think... by force maybe trying hard to make them see reasons why it should be than just giving up. |
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