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Benefits Of Being Raised By A Strong Mother by amzee(m): 10:22am On Feb 26, 2016 |
A mother is most times seen as a deity; someone who is revered and respected. The role of a mother in a child’s life can never be adequately described. Not only do they bring children into this world, they also nurture them until they become independent individuals who are capable of making decisions by themselves. However, not all women are mothers. Not every woman is able to instill discipline and love into a child at the same time. Instead, we have women who confuse pampering with love. Showering a child with gifts and items of luxury doesn’t necessarily depict love, many were born without a silver spoon and their mothers were able to guide them on the right path with all the affections they could muster. Being raised by a strong mother means one is able to get all the basic training one ought to be equipped with in life. There would always be moments of denial, when mothers hold back from giving because they want to pass a strong message; that in life, we don’t always get what we desire. A strong mother would instill core values into a child; she would deposit positive traits into that child and remain a role model to such a child. There are so many benefits accrued to being raised by a strong mother. Some of them are: 1. Life Is Seen In A Different View Being raised by a strong mother makes one see life in a different view. You understand that your journey may not be smooth and you are ready to move on irrespective of the stumbling blocks you meet along the way. Raising a child isn’t an easy task, and way one or the other, your mother was able to scale through many hurdles of life. That way you learn the challenges don’t define you and your self-esteem is boosted. Thus, you learn to believe in yourself at all times. 2. Value Of Independence. Strong mothers most times are women who raise their children in the absence of a father figure. Their husbands could have passed on or may not have been a stay-home dad. Either way, they learn over time to shoulder heavy responsibilities. They make tremendous effort to fill the gap created in the absence of a man. People raised this way don’t depend on others. 3. Shades Of Emotion Growing up under the watchful eyes of a strong mother often makes one a wonderful character. People are able to exhibit various traits. They know when to change from the sweet compassionate people they are to people who are stern. The various shades of emotions they were raised with become a part of them. They could be strong, sensitive, soft and stern when the need arises. 4. Learn What Love Really Is Being raised by a strong mother makes one know the real value of love. People like that know what unconditional love is and they don’t mix it with infatuation. They also turn out to be people who are capable of loving without holding back; you cannot give what you don’t have. 5. Develop Virtues Like Patience And Faith Moments when one gets sick, the courage and faith of a strong mother could never be adequately estimated. Strong mothers have unwavering faith when it comes to certain issues. Same way, they are able to impact this quality into their children and make this unique virtue an essential part of them. People raised this way know the contextual meaning of perseverance when pursuing life goals. 6. Learn To Be Happy At All Times Strong mothers irrespective of the trials and travails they go through are happy people. They seek solace in their children and they try to be happy at all times. They understand that tough moments don’t define them and they look at life from the brighter side. This attitude is transferred to the children they raise; they also learn to find happiness in everything they do. They are solely responsible for their own happiness. 7. A Chance Of Being A Good Mother Being raised by a strong mother gives most ladies the opportunity of being good mothers too. They know the value of family life and do all they could to make sure their children grow the proper way and with the right doctrines. The men raised by strong mothers also become protective of their children and deposit beautiful traits in them.[b/] [b]Shoutouts to all Mothers all over the World and RIP to those who are gone. 1 Like |
Re: Benefits Of Being Raised By A Strong Mother by rule4ever(f): 10:36am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Mothers are the best. They understand your emotion and are always there for you. |
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