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just a plan B dear incase you fuckup.

If problem persist after 3weeks,u can make me your planB. .but seriously that planB might just be a side chick I think u ave nothing to worry about.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

Plan B make you ef tell am you get plan c

The moment I found out she had a plan B I was out tha door
Plan B simply means cheating and I aint down with that
After all the care and love you still had to get a backup quarterback
..... Naaah I had to let the ho go. She can have her plan B all to herself

Well said Op

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

Let me.ask.the *If some.approach you for marriage * statement you made is plan B itself.,so Y the drama?

No he is not cheating nau. He is just doing press up with her

Kick him out before he kicks you out Meanwhile the poster below me is high on expired weed

SUPERPACK:
drink two cups of cold water every morning.

Recipe to lose weight?

you have your plan A by telling him, now he has a plan B, by replying you.Now you just fulfilled your plan C by revealing your secrets on nairaland. So get ready for plan D, cos you don't know who is reading this,.

is ur bf cheating? babe are u sleeping? a guy can open his mouth to tell u that, and u are stil calling him ur bf! he has a girlf, and who knows if u are not his plan b in the other relationship. if u want proof, employ cheaters to catch him. case closed abeg.

he's telling u dat is optional Cox u woman can disappoint and he may suspect foul play as well.

Bbsharon:



Am trying to understand your point. Do you mean after two months my boyfriend will change towards me? or?

Isit cvold wateer ll mk the plan B comes bk to A...............hissssass
See I love the question u throw to ur booo
Try to hear more from him
Asak him if someone come to marry u if he ll allow d person to marry you nd go
Or telhim u re pregrannt if he said he don't want then make a move

Your older friend told you the truth. Men always have a plan B because the Bible said "he that findeth a wife..."

How do u find? You find something out of so many. Also, there's always someone to compare you with, that's why you see men saying I prefer Ada to Tola.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

I dont know y if is an issue of a guy it will always make headlines many pple are rendering their view and advice, some blame ur guy, some even advice that he already has a side chick but they are all similar cos they are all asking the wrong question but main question is do u hv a plan B or is he ur syd guy?? All guys are as guilty as their girlfriends secrets

Matured contributions..
Girls are like nuclare reactor.. They dont even know how damaging they can be, and they are very expesive to maintan with high competitions on who own the best... Now plan b is very necessary in this case becouse..it might eplode one day and it will be termed MISTAKE it happens so fast
The guy is been honest, the question is funny but that is what ldies like to do.. Complicate thing...
My advise.. Talk to him face it now than later.. This thing can hurt like borning tanker... Resolve issues now ohh.. Some one must love the other more...
Take up my kunu, put straw, waiting for positive bashing

He might and might not

Plan B is okay now

Most persons have up to Plan Z ... I'm just kidding though

Bbsharon:


Honestly I won't. I love him so much,I guess he is confused too or maybe we are just dealing with trust issue.

Exactly...He thinks you would if someone else comes. You need to talk to him (a heart to heart one) and assure him that "its together forever". Tell him you don't wanna lose him at all.. If he truly loves you and is ready to settle down with you, He would tell you his plans for you I.e plans to marry you...

The truth is that men fall in love than women do. The experience of ladies running off into marriage has caused us to embrace Plan B, Plan C and Plan D. In fact until a man marries he must have Plan BCDE

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

But you brought up the topic of WHAT IF SOMEONE ELSE APPROACH YOU FOR MARRIAGE.... and he did not cry. cos we all know that before a man talks to a girl about marriage they must have been wining and dining for some weeks (cheating if you already hava boyfriend abi ?)

so why is his own giving you heartbreak ?

or you think that your boyfriend doesn't have feelings too ?

you just realized that you are age mates and you start thinking of PLAN B which is IF SOMEONE ELSE APPROACH YOU FOR MARRIAGE but you dont want him to have a plan B.

Na ONLY YOU WAKA COME with plan abi ?[size=14pt]

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If you really love each other, you should be planning on how your age wont be a barrier to your getting married.

What are the reasons you cant be together nd find solutions to them rather than talking of a plan B.

You already have trust issues and you may not get things right from now on.

So you actually brought my bro's case with you to a faceless forum for advice,huh? He must hear of this

Jamb question 15

if by biology we are all animals, why do I have this feeling that women are the most selfish animals in the world?
IF truly he loves you, did you ever thought of the emotional shock that your statement could cause him, why do girls always think that they are d only people that deserve to be emotionally protected?
you had expected him to tell you that he will commit suicide abi, you jam the wrong guy.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

that's not what he meant (having another boo). Probably his 'Plan B' is a substitute for Postinor 2/4. So keep calm!

SUPERPACK:

Two months and u will see "Chanji"

laugh wan kill me die.. I even munched this part, SUPERPACK you no well, the poor girl is even more confused when it's obvious that you are being humorous, abeg leave her alone.. Clown.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

The same way nairaland girls will advice fellow girls not to keep all their eges in on basket.


It is always right to have 2nd alternative.

It does not necessary mean that he is cheating on u, u know a plan B will always come in handy.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

My sister almost everyone has a plan B, your BF is being honest with you. he need your trust!