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Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 10:44am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: bardella1: vooyour: You guys are the reason we're having serious problems and challenges in our dear country. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by 100Cents: 10:44am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by bigt2(m): 10:46am On Mar 11, 2016 |
DoTheNeedful:At least someone is operating on my frequency. Following you for this reason ![]() I hate cheaters. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kunle75(m): 10:47am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Na wa for you girls of now a days oooooooooo imagine you even knew the side chicks already and her age too......... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by 100Cents: 10:48am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: Are you not selfish by asking him that question ? He gave you a good answer that he wont miss you much if you elope ? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 10:49am On Mar 11, 2016 |
freecocoa: Like bae called me and we were loving up... Sometimes ladies can just be funny, asking a funny question and not expecting a funny response! |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by princefaculty(m): 10:50am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Your question to him in the first place goes to show how insecured u feel in the relationship and needs no explanation for one to tell that you are either seeing someone else being ur plan B or nursing how to carry out the plan. Being a guy who's got ego u wouldn't expect him to say "oh no if someone marries you I will look for another, or I will go kill myself". He sure will want to let you know he's already secured in his games and that was why he told you he's having plan B. That doesn't mean he's not cheating on u and u know it, bcoz if he has told u about a lady he's seeing it means you are aware of one his escapades and yet feel at home with it...maybe waiting until something comes up and you realise she's his choices lady then eye fit clear. If it were to be a Nigerian movie it will be tagged "Is this Love?" You will be shocked when given the privilege of using the third eye to see that you are his plan B and not the other way. uhhmmmm. Anyways he may be your first love and so u want to hold on tight as u are still young but I know sooner than later u will come to the true realization and will then take a bold step |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by caphone: 10:51am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Why would you bring up the issue of "what if" for me ooo I think you shouldn't have said that to him that way he wouldn't think of saying that to confuse you. Confusing+confusion=confucious |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Dolypson04(m): 10:52am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon:Let me ask you OP. Normally a car uses four tyres. Why do FRSC insist we carry an extra tyre? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by MicroIce(m): 10:53am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed: being wise in yur statement is called OVERSMART.... Op wants to run past her shadow.. She no know say her by sef get torchlight |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by freecocoa(f): 10:54am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kaboninc:It's not all ladies though. ![]() |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 10:58am On Mar 11, 2016 |
naijathings: Her question and he having a plan B are not equivalent |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 10:58am On Mar 11, 2016 |
freecocoa: Maybe you're speaking for yourself.... ![]() ![]() ![]() Well, with time, I'll get to find out... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 10:59am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed: Hmmmmm You see that crap you wrote there? Yes, I said its crap! Can't people just come out clean and state whatever its on their mind? Why instigate a response and put the other party in a difficult position? Is that how you relate with your boyfriend? Na only you love TLC? How would you feel if you were asked such a question? Come to think of it....don't you think the OP's boyfriend is aware of the fact that as a young woman, "ANYTHING" can happen? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by anigbajumo(m): 10:59am On Mar 11, 2016 |
vooyour: And u failed to ask her why she asked that question?? If u reason deeply u will knw that the content of the question is that she is cheating on that guy........... |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by DonaTee(f): 11:00am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: So u knw d "plan B" girl? im not gud at sharing.....I would av started taking a gradual walk ![]() Not all relationships lead to marriage. Purity Pays....giv ur life to christ, close ur Duplex. Its never late to decide to b pure n holy. Ur God given man will come. Not men who wil taste ur apple n drop it for plan B like dey av tasted so many oda apples |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:01am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed:....for the guy to have "Plan B", he may not be referring to having a girlfriend. We must be watchful of dirty and idle convos... |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:01am On Mar 11, 2016 |
MicroIce: IMO, she didn't state it the right way. But I only get in relationships where I can express my thoughts as they are and that's Y I reason with her. Guy should get more mature and see through her insecurity |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 11:03am On Mar 11, 2016 |
DonaTee: Whats Dis One Saying Sef... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by bukatyne(f): 11:04am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon: You are birds of a feather ![]() Do men just see women and jump on them for proposal? Won't you both have an understanding before he proposes to you? You have a plan B; he has a plan B. At least, you both are plan As of each other. Happy planning. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 11:04am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Omotolu: Thank you! Most times, I just smile when I find myself in such situations... Ladies can really push you! |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by freecocoa(f): 11:04am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Bbsharon:Lmao ![]() So you believe it's okay to have a side chick? So now there's competitor and side chick, biko what is the difference between both? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by kaboninc(m): 11:06am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed: What maturity? Don't women want to or aspire or intend to be mature? That's not an insecurity on the party of the OP.... Its an insecurity on the part of the boyfriend. What's her motive for asking such a dumb question? Trying to find out if he can "survive" without her? 1 Like |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Dontecho: 11:07am On Mar 11, 2016 |
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Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by freecocoa(f): 11:07am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kaboninc:Not just for myself, for others too. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Omotolu: That's a possibility. But he already told her who the plan B girl is. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 11, 2016 |
freecocoa: So if he already knows of that possibility, why is it wrong to bring the conversation up? That's not making him plan B. That's like, we have this age issue, and it might affect us in the long run, what are we going to do about it? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by freecocoa(f): 11:14am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed:Does the possibility of someone asking her hand in marriage mean they have to break up? Did she not know they were age mates before they started dating? Bringing up the conversation is not the issue, the way it is phrased is the issue. Get with the program. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:15am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kaboninc: That is where you get it wrong. You probably see this as some kind of competition. It is not about which of the partner can hurt each other more. and she claims to love him. So she is not at all trying to see if he can survive without her. He is the one who felt the need to appear as if he can do qithout her. I believe in relationships, the first thing is to try not to hurt the other person even when it appears like they are hurting. In the long run, you may just have misunderstood their intention. The girl likes him and is worried that the age difference might be a reason they wont end up together and so she asked about it. They should have simply discussed the possibility. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:16am On Mar 11, 2016 |
freecocoa:Then u didn't need to quote me in the first place. I already mentioned that phrasing it in that way was the problem. |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by Nobody: 11:18am On Mar 11, 2016 |
kaboninc: Why did You sound like you are pained with this post? Are you on here for a fighting match? |
Re: My boyfriend Says He Has "PLAN B" Is he cheating? by freecocoa(f): 11:19am On Mar 11, 2016 |
lolaed:I did need to quote you because you said "she is just a wise girl" that I disagree with, hence the quote. |
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