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Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Uchebobo: 8:33pm On Jul 22, 2009
Male always justify that they are right to have more than one wife, mistress or concubine as the name suggest. As for the female counterpart when seen with multiple of men is crucified and condemned. A woman once said “our marriage is built on complete trust for each other” but later find out when the husband dies that it was great love and trust. Is every male faithful in marriage? Recount a story to support your assertions.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Igwe9(m): 10:24pm On Jul 22, 2009
Uchebobo:

Male always justify that they are right to have more than one wife, mistress or concubine as the name suggest. As for the female counterpart when seen with multiple of men is crucified and condemned. A woman once said “our marriage is built on complete trust for each other” but later find out when the husband dies that it was great love and trust. Is every male faithful in marriage? Recount a story to support your assertions.
Remove the word every, maybe your post may seem realistic.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by deeteeneey(f): 11:41am On Jul 23, 2009
Not every, only 3%.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 23, 2009

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Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by samparian(m): 1:02pm On Jul 23, 2009
chaircover:

Completely wrong

There are many “normal” men out there who remain faithful to their wives till they die.

Being unfaithful is a choice a man or woman makes and is not forced on anyone; same as you will choose to drink or smoke etc.


For once i agree with you
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by GEW: 1:44pm On Jul 23, 2009
chaircover:

Completely wrong

There are many “normal” men out there who remain faithful to their wives till they die.

Being unfaithful is a choice a man or woman makes and is not forced on anyone; same as you will choose to drink or smoke etc.

you are so right
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Chrisbenogor(m): 1:29pm On Jul 25, 2009
And why did this make the front page?
I am seriously questioning the criteria with which posts are put on the front page angry angry angry angry
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by hassymo5(m): 1:45pm On Jul 25, 2009
Faithfulness depend on individual, but some time one of the spouse make the other to b unfaithful by what they do, eg one not able to satisfy or being troublesome to the other. But truely women are more faithful than men no matter what
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Amigoz(f): 1:50pm On Jul 25, 2009
My Dad was faithful in His marriage.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by remoranger(m): 3:47pm On Jul 25, 2009
rare. extremely rare. even the good ones slip at least once in a while sad
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Danzoe(m): 5:10pm On Jul 25, 2009
Well,it is not all men that are unfaithful,there're still some that are faithful irrespective of the believe in Africa that men hav the right to marry as many wives as they want.Men's unfaithful is all about mindset and addiction.U know, when one build-up a mindset of justification on infidelity and start acting on it 4rm his youth,he will be addicted 2 it n it will definitely become hard 2 exit even after marriage.Mindset/addiction is also the reason why a real born again christian guy will neva chit on his wife b/cos his mind keeps telling him that it is against God. Right 4rm his youth he will continue 2 live in that way thereby getting addicted 2 it as a way of life.So whateva one hears often, gets rooted in his/her mind n certainly b/comes his/her character.There4 guys,start training ur selves frm ur youth n u will see de simplicity& posibility of faithfulness in marriage.U will also become smart and know that all crab holes are the same.Thanks
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by donsteady(m): 6:45pm On Jul 25, 2009
cheating or no cheating, is all choice, i cheat most of the time not because i enjoy doing it, there are lot of reason behind it. lot of men are faithful, even more than the unfaithful ones, i have more than 7friends out of 15 that will never cheat on there wife, let me ask, do you have a friend, uncle, brother, cousin etc that can never cheat, with that you can be able to figure out the percentage of men enjoy cheating.

@There are many “normal” men out there who remain faithful to their wives till they die. what did you mean by NORMAL MEN? did you mean that any man that marry more than one wife or cheat is not normal, please take it ease. we are all normal we just cheat for reasons
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by MrWaters: 7:41pm On Jul 25, 2009
A Man has Got to be a Man. Where a woman got 1 a man is entitle to several. Like in Bible:- did u ever read wher a woman has 2 husband? No and never!! Men ar polygamus in Nature

Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by rubi(f): 9:16pm On Jul 25, 2009
Always speak/vow for yourself don't say he/she cannot do this or that so that you will not say had I known
Trust God and monitor people
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by mccloud224(m): 1:17am On Jul 26, 2009
So long as my woman doesn't give me reason to cheat, why should i?Although there are more than many men who have the most loyal and loving and still cheat becoz "they can".I don't envy that.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by sley4life(m): 2:18am On Jul 26, 2009
not all
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by midou93(f): 7:26am On Jul 26, 2009
Not all men are faithful in their marriage !no matter how beautiful their wves are,many men choose to have mistresses!
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:06am On Jul 26, 2009
I wonder why we are all crazy about this post, Are all women too faithful
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Nobody: 11:56am On Jul 26, 2009
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Donvilo(m): 2:05pm On Jul 26, 2009
The world we live in consists of two kinds of people; The good & the bad. Everybody has his or her choice to make. Whether u're a man or a woman. That's why one chooses to cheat on their spouses 4 one particular reason(or even no reason @ all.) or not. But, the rite thing to do is to do good to mankind since God has done so. So, it's left for the man in particular to make the rite choice! wink
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Donvilo(m): 2:05pm On Jul 26, 2009
The world we live in consists of two kinds of people; The good & the bad. Everybody has his or her choice to make. Whether u're a man or a woman. That's why one chooses to cheat on their spouses 4 one particular reason(or even no reason @ all.) or not. But, the rite thing to do is to do good to mankind since God has done so. So, it's left for the man in particular to make the rite choice! wink
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by spoilt(f): 3:34pm On Jul 26, 2009
Many men are faithful. More than you think. Many who are not cheating even cook up fabricated playa stories to impress their friends to avoid being 'yabbed'. grin
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by tehila09: 3:53pm On Jul 26, 2009
like 70% of men are not faithful in their marriage but among the remaining 30% that are faithful will be my man(by faith)
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by cutemoses(m): 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2009
I'm sad you made the front page, this post is really not a classic. But anyway, Not every male is faithful and not every female is faithful in marriage. There are married sugar mummies and married sugar daddies. End of discussion.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by WildOne(f): 6:42pm On Jul 26, 2009
@ topic
And do all bears crap in the woods? I just can't figure how Seun allows some of these topics on the homepage.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by ima1(f): 8:06pm On Jul 26, 2009
mccloud224:

So long as my woman doesn't give me reason to cheat, why should i?Although there are more than many men who have the most loyal and loving and still cheat becoz "they can".I don't envy that.

i think its bullshit when men come up with reasons like "my wife gave me a reason to cheat" its total bullshit, did she take ur d*ck and stick it in another woman or did she make u think like an idiot, only idiots cheat on their women and then blame it on their women. such a man is a piece of shit and a low life.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by tessyyy1: 8:22pm On Jul 26, 2009
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Well,it is not all men that are unfaithful,there're still some that are faithful irrespective of the believe in Africa that men hav the right to marry as many wives as they want.Men's unfaithful is all about mindset and addiction.U know, when one build-up a mindset of justification on infidelity and start acting on it 4rm his youth,he will be addicted 2 it n it will definitely become hard 2 exit even after marriage.Mindset/addiction is also the reason why a real born again christian guy will neva chit on his wife b/cos his mind keeps telling him that it is against God. Right 4rm his youth  he will continue 2 live in that way thereby getting addicted 2 it as a way of life.So whateva one hears often, gets rooted in his/her mind n certainly b/comes his/her character.There4 guys,start training ur selves frm ur youth n u will see de simplicity& posibility of faithfulness in marriage.U will also become smart and know that all crab holes are the same.Thanks
i trust my man anyday anytime becos we fear God. smileyits just a decision one has to make n with God, all things are possible[color=#990000][/color] smiley smiley smiley smiley
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Phony200(m): 8:30pm On Jul 26, 2009
Error of generalisation. Can every bird fly? Can every girl dance? Can every woman conceive?
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by raphy(m): 8:41pm On Jul 26, 2009
wazup!
i agree with you even my dad wasnt faithful till he dead in 1997
we were not living with him either only my mom brought us up.
i will be faithfull 2 my wife 2 be i promise i am cool as ice wink
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by Eaglebabe: 9:06pm On Jul 26, 2009
Just a hand full of them.I have a friend dating three defferent married men and they love(claim to),adore and obey her.So who is talking of faithfulness here now.I bow for the babe.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by C2H5OH(f): 9:13pm On Jul 26, 2009
Dating three different married men. you no sabi talk to your friend? where is the joy in fokasing ppl's marital lives.
Re: Every Male Is Faithful In Marriage? by otukpo(f): 9:29am On Jul 27, 2009
There are very normal men who can never cheat on their wives, even though they may not be more than 3%. Most men are unfaithful to their wives and a greater number of them dont really enjoy it but cant stop doing it. They believe is normal.

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