pls i need an advice on this issue, if you see a girl you wish to make as your future wife and she is now asthamatic patient, what would you do?

Poster
am not you,and even if i were to be in your shoes, i won't come here asking for what to do.
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Live with it or Dream on.

How did u knw she's asthmatic did she tell u? well if truely u love her u can marry her bt bware coz asthma is hereditary.

yeah Thanks for your reply. she told me, I knw it's hereditory that is why I decide to volume it but I wouldn't want that in my family but I still Love her pls I need more respond

Asthma is just a disease dat can be cured anytime its not as if its AIDS! Listen i didn't want to say this on NL but i'm kinda touched here, i'm asthmatic and my girl very supportive, she scolds me wen i don't take my drugs, that's caring! Stop askin annoyin question and follow ur heart young man.

@ poster asthma is a disease that people live with their whole lives not sure if there is a cure doubt it but as far as i know there are very good treatments as far as prevention and management for it. I wouldn't let a good woman get away because of something so trivial as asthma


besides put your self in her shoes would you want her to dump you if you had asthma?

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from yo post, i guessed yo girl was not born wit asthma. There is hope for all living. What if she was born wit it? Would u let dat affect yo love? Even aids get control. Word!

thanks to NL guyz that as make a contribution to this discussions & i must tell you guyz, u all responded so well, I'll think about every thing you said. thanks, NL is good forum discuss

poster move on jare bt be careful o

My younger brother used to be asmathic when he was much younger, but I guess he outgrew it as he no longer suffers from it, een when he goes to the extreme

making her a full house wife might help.

Also try and get her treated, I heard there was a place in Abakiliki they treat such a thing

Not that I think NL is the best place to look for a solution, but I think you should talk to some alternative medicine practitioners. There are some "natural" ways to manage even chronic asthma so that you and your spouse-to-be can have a normal life together.

asthma (pathology) A chronic respiratory disease, in which the airways unexpectedly and suddenly narrow, often in response to an allergen, cold air, exercise, or emotional stress. Symptoms include wheezing, shortness of breath, chest tightness, and coughing.

If I were in your shoes which I don't pray to be, I just walk away, although it hurts to loose the one you love, but you don't have a choice or do you want your future offspring to be Asthma patient?

Is just like the case of this blood group stuff AS getting married to an AS, that there is possibility of there offspring being SS, I won't want to take such risk if I was in your shoe

There is nothing wrong in marrying her just cos she is asthmatic.when did asthma become Aids.its not like a dreaded disease if u realy love her.