delightz:
Hey bro.
This isn't a case of between the devil and the deep blue sea. you dont have to choose from either of them. There are thousands of things you can do that are far more rewording and profitable than those choices. Get engaged with the right mindset and neither of those thoughts will come to your mind. Its a stage of your life where you have to hustle. Not to be thinkin of fiance whatever or porn stuffs. Read the bible and get busy positively.
....cheers.

dis one naw be forming MR RIGHT!! Donnt u fuk?? Is body firewood??

missuniverse:
1.masturbation is an aberration

2.masturbation is war against God

3.masturbation disrupt procreation

4.masturbation is waste of sperm

perhaps fornication comprise 2,3,and 4 as the case may be, however;
masturbation is morally,socially and culturally not accepted

agree with me that some dudes get. filled with pride after making out wit some ladies,and tends to boast about it,
which guy boast to his friend after masturbating?

do you know that fornication is legal in some places?


masturbation is non ethical, its inappropriate nd highly disrespectful to oneself and others

masturbation is OBJECTIVELY wrong
fornication is not

Is masturbation illegal anywhere and where is that?

lanrywatt:
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better

depends, by road do you mean on a path jugging and getting hit by a bike or by a crane dropping in a road construction area, does said person have to be in or on a "automobile" a trye could fly off a vehicle and kill a hunter in the bush, or a plane could crash on the road and it could be a road side auto plane collision. Possibilities are endless, I guess I just mentioned 1. If we all see the world in just white and black that may be a big issue. Emphasis on maybe.

donshady:


None is advisable. but I'll still prefer fornication to masturbation because

1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body

2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems

3. Masturbation is one of the main cause for erectile dysfunction.

4. Masturbation addicts you even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace.

5. Masturbation creates drowsiness; you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired.

6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul.

7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically; it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own.

8. Getting red hot while masturbating will give a bad name in that environment and it is an indecent activity.

9. Masturbation cannot be done simply, it needs to see, touch, indulge or, at last to think of a sexual practice/ sex organ of the opposite sex. This is more harmful that the image in your memory that you see could not be erased easily. This will lead you to a noxious problem that you cannot see any girl/ lady/ women without a single thought i.e., sex.

10. Masturbation creates an urge to do indefinitely; it doesn’t see the place, people and culture. It makes you digging worse sexual problems if chance knocks the door.

11. Masturbation leads you to illegal contacts because the urge increases day by day and finally will lead to the search of a source for sexual pleasure.

12. Masturbation is the main reason for speedy sperm release during sexual intercourse. It will create dissatisfaction to you and to your wife.

13. Over masturbation reduces your sperm count. Couples who desire to get pregnant should not masturbate.

14. SThe seminal fluid that gets released on masturbation contains proteins that are needed for many metabolic activities and cell formations. Proteins are the building blocks of our body; ejaculation often will create you to be lean and distracts your metabolism of muscle building.

15. Ethically masturbation is wrong; you think of X/Y and do sex of your own. This hinders your values and respect for others. You may be are good in all other regards but will end up in a great problem if not concerned to stop this habit.

16. Masturbation wastes your time and makes you useless.

17. The pleasure of masturbation never lasts for a long time.

18. Masturbation creates more problems as you lose your memory and thought-provoking ability.

19. Masturbation is not the end of your desire; you may be fooled by your own practice. It will never give you a solution or a satisfaction but seems that it gives.

20. It is not needed in any way to your sexual life that it has to be practiced without fail.

21. Guys who masturbate will lose interest in sex with their wife very soon. They can’t feel pleasurable for a long time.

22. Masturbation induces homosexuals in schools, colleges and hostels. Many times the latter creates sexually transmitted diseases like VD, syphilis, AIDS etc.,

I'll like to know the source of this finding. I'm intrigued to know how you came about this. Kindly share please...

Obiwiz:

Bro, I want to learn to play the piano. I need good piano lessons.

Let me teach you how it feels like

dayosweetness:

what kills slowly?..you talk like a masturbator

I have a friend who laments bitterly... he often isolates himself most of the time, looks unhealthy... So one day I sat him down and we talked. He explained everything to me about how masturbates 4-5times a day.. He said he never think he's gonna quit that habit... I told him its all about determination and I invited him over to my house where we spent most time together for about 2months, we engaged in different activities so he had no time to masturbate and he started recovering. For that period he started seeing changes in him. I told him he can't stay with me forever and I counselled him to avoid anything that will bring about masturbating. ESP porn cos he's a porn addict. I do call and check up on him once a while to see if he's doing good. He said he's a free man now. #peace

bright007:


So how does adultery equals formication ?

They are relatively the same.

There is no side effect in masturbation neither was it found in any holy book

God gave council on much to do with sexual things, and He made it very clear which things were sinful or forbidden:

1. Adultery
2. Fornication
3. Sodomy
4. Women grabbing a man's testicles during a fight
5. Having sex with an animal

I quote "Not once is masturbation mentioned...not once in the entire scriptures! Some may claim the reason for this is because there was not a word for “masturbation” in the Hebrew or Greek. However, there was no word for “bestiality” back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with animals (Leviticus 18:23, Deuteronomy 27:21). There was no word for "homosexuality" back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with those of the same sex (Leviticus 18:22; 20:13). There was no word for "incest" back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with those who are near kin to us (Leviticus 18:6-18).
Likewise, God could have easily said that man must not have sexual relations with himself, or something similar, but God never even hinted at any such act being sinful. If masturbation is a sin, there must be somewhere in scripture where it says that having sex with oneself is a sin, because all sins are mentioned in scripture. If something is a sin against God, He will tell us it is a sin against Him in His Word, and won't leave any sin out"

Maturbation from this point of view is better than fornication

joseph1832:
I'll like to know the source of this finding. I'm intrigued to know how you came about this. Kindly share please...

This is not my first time discussing this topic... Both on foreign and local websites.. Visit scholarly answers...

http://scholarlyanswers..com.ng/2013/01/22-harmful-effects-of-masturbation-in.html?m=1

holyokoto:
There is no side effect in masturbation neither was it found in any holy book

No side effects Read blogs and articles to see how people lament.

donshady:


This is not my first time discussing this topic... Both on foreign and local websites.. Visit scholarly answers...

http://scholarlyanswers..com.ng/2013/01/22-harmful-effects-of-masturbation-in.html?m=1

This is not a reliable source. Just a blog that can written by just anybody.

Give me a medical source to support all your claims

AKBlivReborn:
God gave council on much to do with sexual things, and He made it very clear which things were sinful or forbidden:

1. Adultery
2. Fornication
3. Sodomy
4. Women grabbing a man's testicles during a fight
5. Having sex with an animal

I quote "Not once is masturbation mentioned...not once in the entire scriptures! Some may claim the reason for this is because there was not a word for “masturbation” in the Hebrew or Greek. However, there was no word for “bestiality” back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with animals (Leviticus 18:23, Deuteronomy 27:21). There was no word for "homosexuality" back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with those of the same sex (Leviticus 18:22; 20:13). There was no word for "incest" back then either, but God made it clear that we are not to have sex with those who are near kin to us (Leviticus 18:6-18).
Likewise, God could have easily said that man must not have sexual relations with himself, or something similar, but God never even hinted at any such act being sinful. If masturbation is a sin, there must be somewhere in scripture where it says that having sex with oneself is a sin, because all sins are mentioned in scripture. If something is a sin against God, He will tell us it is a sin against Him in His Word, and won't leave any sin out"

Maturbation from this point of view is better than fornication

I not here to argue if masturbation is a sin or not...
I'm about the addiction, the effects and many more.

agbajesaid:
thanks bro. Good advice, but i hope your wife was your FIRST sex partner.

and that is watsup.

lanrywatt:
Answer me first before I talk, Dieing by road and Dieing by plane crash which is better

ALL DIE NA DIE

justwise:

Is masturbation illegal anywhere and where is that?

It's not illegal. I don't think anyone will advice you to masturbate.

Aviero:
Don't tag it fornication. Just call it sex.

Sex, protected sex, is healthier than masturbation.

There are lots of good health benefits that comes with sex, but masturbating makes you feel somewhat empty. After you cum, you come to your senses and then you feel awkward.

Sex is different tho

u talking from experience.

justwise:

This is not a reliable source. Just a blog that can written by just anybody.
Give me a medical source to support all your claims

Bro. medical source hardly support masturbation except on some occasions. every effect listed is experienced by those who masturbate.... ASK THEM.

donshady:


This is not my first time discussing this topic... Both on foreign and local websites.. Visit scholarly answers...

http://scholarlyanswers..com.ng/2013/01/22-harmful-effects-of-masturbation-in.html?m=1

Cool. However, I find it curious that the blog you use didn't make its source 'clickable' so people can read the original research conducted by this people.

So I believe most of what the blog posted about the effects of masturbation are full of fallacies.

May God see you through!

WHO HERE CAN STAND UP AMIDST PEOPLE AND SAY HE/SHE MASTURBATES? BUT SOMEWHAT YOU CAN TELL PEOPLE YOU HAVE SEX OR HAD SEX WITH THE OPPOSITE.

donshady:


Bro. medical source hardly support masturbation except on some occasions.
every effect listed is experienced by those who masturbate.... ASK THEM.

Who are they? Did you asked all masturbators before writing that pieces?

[quote author=joseph1832 post=44301607]Cool. However, I find it curious that the blog you use didn't make its source 'clickable' so people can read the original research conducted by this people.

So I believe most of what the blog posted about the effects of masturbation are full of fallacies.[/quote

Ask the regular mastubators if the don't experience it....

donshady:
WHO HERE CAN STAND UP AMIDST PEOPLE AND SAY HE/SHE MASTURBATES? BUT SOMEWHAT YOU CAN TELL PEOPLE YOU HAVE SEX OR HAD SEX WITH THE OPPOSITE.

Why not? You are reading from one here.

justwise:
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Who are they? Did you asked all masturbators before writing that pieces?

We have those that masturbate among us... let them speak for themselves.

donshady:


I not here to argue if masturbation is a sin or not...
I'm about the addiction, the effects and many more.

NEWS FLASH! You had your opinion now I have mine. Who is arguing with you? Did I quote your post? Moreover you aren't the Original Poster.

And what about the effects, what scientific proof have you got. What psychological effects have been documented. If you have them please share these sources (I'm not referring to the .co.uk article)

donshady:

No side effects Read blogs and articles to see how people lament.

They are only attaching those side effects because it looks like sexual immoralities to discourage people. Even when having sex with your wife you naturally get weak . There is absolutely no health implication in Masturbation. Is a natural phenomena that is if everyone will admit they once in their life practice it

agbajesaid:
you are right bro, but in Islam, drinking and gossiping is sinful

and gambling

Masturbation makes or manhood get smaller... Low self esteem... hatred...and guilt.

Sex make feel like a REAL MAN, high self esteem and boldness.

AKBlivReborn:


NEWS FLASH! You had your opinion now I have mine. Who is arguing with you? Did I quote your post? Moreover you aren't the Original Poster.

And what about the effects, what scientific proof have you got. What psychological effects have been documented. If you have them please share these sources (I'm not referring to the .co.uk article)

We don't need to fight over this.
Even though scientific proof is made known, IGNORANCE will still have its place..

ifenes:


That's not true. Poor nutrition and lack of physical exercise courses that respectively. Sweating,Urinating, are in the same category as masturbation. The spermcells fill up regardless of how often they are discharged.

Over-ejaculation depletes the brain's acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin neurotransmitters, resulting in a sympathetic nervous system reaction. When the body experiences an over-conversion of dopamine to norepinephrine-epinephrine, the sympathetic nervous system overburdens the liver, kidney, cardiovascular and endocrine functions. Think of it as a gas tank. Your body can only convert so much dopamine to norepinephrine-epinephrine to fuel your sex and power your sympathetic nervous system. When overburden, the body cannot provide the energy necessary to keep the liver, kidney and endocrine functions properly working.

Endlessplus08:
Masturbation makes or manhood get smaller... Low self esteem... hatred...and guilt.

Sex make feel like a REAL MAN, high self esteem and boldness.

Yes and spread STDs and die of it too