On a first date...... A stingy guy would look at your cheap synthetic hair do and say he likes ladies with low cut..... They are cuter..... Lubbish!!!!!

This is what I call "sheep mentality"... you are defending a point of view that puts you at a clear disadvantage.

It is obvious you are under 25 years... it seems you don't know that the more you over-spend on a first date the more she puts you in the "maga" category and would make you chase her unnecessarily...

Well, do what suits you.

wristbangle:
I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

The fact that it comes from a guy makes this piece awkward.

chibwike:
Ok wrisbangle i now realised that you are not just only confused, buh you are also very confused. Few days ago you opened a thread stating the advantages of being stingy to the ladies...
https://www.nairaland.com/2801526/8-advantages-being-stingy-ladies

And now this again.

To the ladies, if a guy truly loves you..he wont be stingy to you..

And if you truly love him...you will know his capabilites and appreciate whatever he brings to the table.

If this is found wanting..then we'd just be having a relationship between a stingy guy and of course a gold digger.

Abi oo ogah at d top if d gal love u she will speak 4 u in d present of her frnds if u r not around . And 4 d bad gal who are lukin 4 d stingy an clasic guy cos u are clasic babe dnt ask. Na poverty the push una. If u ar realy classic check america babe they spend on guy not guy spend on them . They ask guy out. What they want is love and affection. Sex is jst an addition. 4 d guy dat lukin 4 sex is not their fault cos of jst 4 d 1st out u spend my whole saving why they wil not think nagative.

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

But you wicked sha...

You deserve every degree of insults and rudeness for posting this piece of shit. Did take time to access the guys account balance before baptizing him stingy. I recommend mental evaluation.

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

Dis is not abt d guy bein stingy, dis is abt u bein insensitive. Hving noticed d guy is short on cash, why didn't u offer to assist? Later wen we say most women bring notin for d table out side vaginum n s3x pple say we ar speakin latin.

Most times all I do is read comments but seeing this wayward post, it's high time I say something.

Most naija ladies have taken dates to be an Avenue to feast. Going on a first time date is a chance where the guy and the gurl try to gain acquaintances (know each other more), its in his choice to offer anything, maybe coffee, ice cream or chin-chin sef just to make sure the lady is not gonna get bored or at least enjoy the chit chat.

It's very annoying and out of the traditional way for ladies to be expecting chicken lap or full chicken option on a first date........most of them watch American movies o. White guys ask a gurl out by saying 'let's go have a drink or coffee or stuffs.

Ordering expensive food is just an act of trying to impress the gurl which is a 'fail' in first date rule. (Never go out of your way to impress a lady), but our naija ladies take it as a norm.

Before you think I'm a broke guy.....don't forget your not the one feeding me. Just stating the obvious!

amokeme:
Lol, the economy is hard! You won't blame them na...

No. 7 tho, hanhan, free food and free transport again

Favoured is the man who wins your heart.

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micca:
Abi oo ogah at d top if d gal love u she will speak 4 u in d present of her frnds if u r not around . And 4 d bad gal who are lukin 4 d stingy an clasic guy cos u are clasic babe dnt ask. Na poverty the push una. If u ar realy classic check america babe they spend on guy not guy spend on them . They ask guy out. What they want is love and affection. Sex is jst an addition. 4 d guy dat lukin 4 sex is not their fault cos of jst 4 d 1st out u spend my whole saving why they wil not think nagative.

You could nt have said it any better.

Buh why you call me oga at the top

This write up though. It is a terrible mindset to always feel that since it is a date,the guy must foot the bills. How will the lady genuinely access the guy if she is carried away by his ability to spend on her or what he can use money to get? Where I live, when a lady goes out on a date with a guy,Everyone pays for his food and drinks. You can't impress any serious lady with the food you buy for her or the eatery you take her to. A serious lady will rather pay;so your submission is faulty.

Na condition make boys b lyk dat. Na condition make cray fish bend ; [b][/b][/size][size=8pt]

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

What if he just didn't have - which was most likely the case?

A stingy guy will order a plate of rice with two spoons. Trust me am talking from experience.

Nnemuka:
reminds me of one guy living in my close.
each time he sees me, he will be like, "you dont like going out, i for take you go chop nkwobi".

he keeps saying that countless time lke i begged him to take me out.
one faithful day the eediot saw me coming home and he stopped me.
he asked if i have food at home that he was hungry, i quickly replied yes i have but "you dont like vegetable soup, i for bring am come give u" and i turned and left him. since that day he stopped talking to me.

So what's your point? How does it relate to the topic? Some girls just like showing themselves...

Go and sleep if you have nothing to say...

OP I think you need to write a write up on characteristics of generous guys..... Let start from there.

AfroKnight:


Favoured is the man who wins your heart.

AMEN! Thank you

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

don't lie. He didn't order any thing. U ordered the meal.

wetin concern me abeg [quot author=wristbangle post=44288199]I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours [/quote]

oketoyinboshola:
OP I think you need to write a write up on characteristics of generous guys..... Let start from there.

Such article cannot grace FP

Meanwhile I am reading comments and I couldn't but laugh out loud here

creamylicious:
On a first date...... A stingy guy would look at your cheap synthetic hair do and say he likes ladies with low cut..... They are cuter..... Lubbish!!!!!

The fact a guy says he likes you on low cut doesn't make him stingy.

Most of your ladies that shout about a guy being stingy are lazy. you don't know how they work for money but know how to spend it very well.

A girl that has not work 20k in her life will be demanding 10k to fix her hair in that oludo brain.

Is a must that a first date should be an eatry or a restaurant? It seem some nigerian girls are now becoming ebinna and longer-throat. Take them out on a date where FOOD, CHOCOLATE, ICE-CREAM is not involved and they would tell you the date is boring and not fun enough. But it would have been more live and full of fun if they have the opportunity of tasting virtually all the foods in the eatry and order for take-away.

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

your eyes sha

wristbangle:
I find it very shameful and ridiculous when I see guys complaining that they can't spend on a lady whom they barely know on first date because they are yet to tumble beneath the sheets and that she may eventually reject their love proposal.

Even when they choose to spend on a lady, their reluctance will be so glaring just like someone being forced at gun point to drop his money and this is the reason why some ladies have resorted to attach terms and conditions before a guy can take them on a date.

So ladies if you notice the following characteristics in a guy on first date, just know that he is the stingy type.

1. He orders cheap foods for you

Some guys are so stingy to the extent that before they can order bottle water or sausage roll for a lady, they will think over and over again. Even when they are about to order such meals, they will whisper at the lady's ear that "don't you think it's better for us to buy these stuffs outside?". Can't you see that it's too expensive here? Funny enough, it's their type that will blow trumpet loud on how they spend immense money on a lady at exotic restaurants.

2. He will demand sex in exchange for his money spent

I consider this act as a big disgrace and any guy guilty of this act deserves some lashes of cane. Simply because you bought N200 suya for a lady during your first date, that doesn't give you a free entry to her kitty cat. I mean you spend such a ridiculously meagre amount and you expect a lady to surrender her body cheaply? Bros, you need Jesus in your life.

3. He chooses local restaurant for date

Sometimes I wonder how on earth a reasonable guy will take a lady to an untidy restaurant whose foods has been contaminated with flies. Just because a plate of rice goes for N100 with the inclusion of a big rotten meat, he will start feeling on top of the world that he has satisfied the lady. Anyway with the crop of ladies nowadays, I don't think they can tolerate this bullshit from any guy.

4. Sharing of Bills

It is only a stingy guy that will request that bills be split on a first date. This is an act of stinginess coupled with low self esteem. To be very candid, no lady in her right sense of reasoning will ever date such a man unless she has no choice.

5. He complains bitterly if you request for quite expensive meals

Some guys can never cease to amaze me because by the time the lady they take out on a first date request for rice and chicken, they will start looking in discomfort just like the way GEJ was looking when he lost to Buhari. The prefer the lady orders for just a bottle of coke and meat pie but when she orders for a plate of rice, discomfort will be registered on his face

6. He won't order for any meal

One of the characteristic of stingy guys on a first date is that, they will pretend to have no appetite when the lady is eating, but will be salivating inside of them. Who's deceiving who?. All they do is to engage her into meaningless discussion hoping to land her in bed.

7. Eagerness to leave you in order to avoid paying your T-Fare

This reminds of the story a female friend of mine shared about how a guy abandoned her at a bus terminus simply because he stylishly wants to dodge paying her transport fare back home even when she affirmed that he is not under her obligation to pay. Some guys think they can play smart by doing this but honestly speaking, It doesn't speak well for a gentleman.

8. He tells you his house or no where else

Another characteristic of a stingy dude is that he will always be bent on a lady coming to his house or she should forget about it. This is because he doesn't want to lose a kobo.

Ladies and gentlemen, you can also add yours

This is bogus
1. Its not a matter of being stingy. Why would u buy something for n120 in a place when you can get it for n60 sonewhere else. Dont be wasteful.
And also, only buy things you can afford
2. Demanding sex cos of money doesnt mean a guy is stingy. It means hes perverted any guy can do this. Whether he is stingy or not
3. Dont bite off more than you can chew. Why do somewhere you cant afford. And my colleagues and I actually prefer to eat at a local resturant. It doesnt mean we are stingy or broke. Its just preference.
4. And they will start screaming gender equality. So in a relationship,its d guy that has to bear all financial responsibility. You are indirectly saying it is stupid to allow a lady pay for a meal during a first date. Even if she offers.
Sharing the bill isnt bad especially if u r close friends
5. Why will you be happy when a lady orders for more than what someone of her status shud. Girls will be forming Behind and order food as if u r a NGO
...complain if she orders too much
6. It is not by force to eat. He can have stomach upset or something else sha
7. That wuld just make d guy a fool. He shudnt dodge. He should tell d girl hes not paying for her t fare shikena. What kind if girl will go on a date with no money?
8. The guy might not b trying to save money. He might be trying to................
_________
In short, this thread ls a lie

foxvilles:
Most times all I do is read comments but seeing this wayward post, it's high time I say something.

Most naija ladies have taken dates to be an Avenue to feast. Going on a first time date is a chance where the guy and the gurl try to gain acquaintances (know each other more), its in his choice to offer anything, maybe coffee, ice cream or chin-chin sef just to make sure the lady is not gonna get bored or at least enjoy the chit chat.

It's very annoying and out of the traditional way for ladies to be expecting chicken lap or full chicken option on a first date........most of them watch American movies o. White guys ask a gurl out by saying 'let's go have a drink or coffee or stuffs.

Ordering expensive food is just an act of trying to impress the gurl which is a 'fail' in first date rule. (Never go out of your way to impress a lady), but our naija ladies take it as a norm.

Before you think I'm a broke guy.....don't forget your not the one feeding me. Just stating the obvious!

You actually spoke in a matured and experienced way. You must be really above 25.

Most ladies see dating/ outing as a period to feast and that is a backward mentality.

Ogamgil:
A stingy guy will order a plate of rice with two spoons. Trust me am talking from experience.

So you forget the saying, there is love in sharing.

9, Hw did this make the FP?

ireneony:
No.5 is so true

This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery.
After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel.
He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant"
In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk"

With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva

It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there"


Some guys are jst stingy.
N.b: I never begged him to take me out.

Chai! You can fabricate lies eeh.

can I see one character of a generous girl in a first date atleast

Fr33born:


Chai! You can fabricate lies eeh.

the funny thing was the guy name was akpos ..he is urohbo. This happened in aau.
Those guys there stingy ga

mtchew!!!! if you spend too much, you're a mugu, if you don't spend, you're stingy.. this life ehn