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Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by godwinasky: 2:05am On Apr 01, 2016 |
This post is so so funny, but real! My question is - why would a guy ask a lady out if he is not ready to spend at least for a date or two in order to familiarise with her? But know someone who doesn't like spending on ladies anymore cos of his experience with a gold digger dumped him after spending his hard-earned money,while still cheating on him. I. won't blame him. Also some people say they d rather spend among guys than on women, since relationships with women can be so unpredictable, and so so ephemeral. So it doesn't worth it! In any case,i think people have reasons for what they do or believe. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Smellymouth: 2:06am On Apr 01, 2016 |
KingRex1: Bwahahahaha..Omo, sleep use me nack ground oo I ve bin sleeping like :::::
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Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Smellymouth: 2:08am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Angelberry: Sorry bae, had a stressful day, didnt even know wen I slept off.. Trust u re good.. Ayam coming to cuddle you ryt now!!!! |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by diva90: 2:56am On Apr 01, 2016 |
ireneony: He's not stingy, he strikes me more of a broke/poor guy |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by bunmiano10: 3:20am On Apr 01, 2016 |
ireneony: that's too bad,haba |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by JayJustus(m): 4:31am On Apr 01, 2016 |
for F.ucks sake did you just mention splitting bills we are dating and I'm not your source of income... you should split bills... I hope some of you can get outside and see how other girls with proper brain do things like Wtf bruhhh...that's why you have what is called vex money...if a girl offers to pay it gives a sign that she's not just a F.ucking gold digger like y'll... later y'll be claiming independence and shyte and you can't even change car tyre... park one corner #TeamForeignGirls 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Octavius9653(m): 4:42am On Apr 01, 2016 |
No offense but some of the points in this post are the reason why I feel gender equality and ladies talk about feminism is all bullshit. You people want equal opportunities but would always pull the "it's the guy's responsibility and I am a lady" when it comes to taking responsibilities. I do not object to a gentleman taking a lady out but that social convention is just silly especially when ladies sees it as a guy's "official duty". On my first date with my girlfriend, I had to split the bills with her not because I don't want to pay but because she insisted that's the only reason she'd go on a second date with me...and trust me, her self esteem dwarfs the size of Jupiter. Agreed some guys are punkass parsimonious lot but Ladies should also know that a date isn't meant to be a one-way thing where the guy takes all the responsibility. #CommentingFarFromUranus 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by gretblue: 4:56am On Apr 01, 2016 |
This OP is a learner. |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by mariobalotelli09: 5:04am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Some times its good to be stingy as a guy cos u can never tell what may befall u. I give myself as an example. Many years ago. I took a lady out. I didn't have much on me but was pretty sure it was enough to give her a decent treat at a fastfood. When the lady sat down she started by ordering for power horse as appetizer. In my mind I was like this gal doesn't know I came with a budget oooo. As a mathematician I calculated I could still give her a good meal but I was now walking one a tight rope. After a while she said it's time to eat! I. Intelligently kept her sitted and walked to the counter and asked for a plate of fried rice with chicken. The cost was slightly above what I then had so I ordered for fried rice with beef. Now before all of you crucify me read what happened next. The lady fixed her gaze on the person dishing the food and had to ask me why didn't they put chicken. I replied her.. Cos beef is good for you 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by tdayof(m): 5:14am On Apr 01, 2016 |
JayJustus: |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Fxwarrior: 6:01am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Op you are not being fair in your writeup. When a guy takes a lady out, its not a guarantee for her to demand rice and chicken, most girls won't take themselves out and even if they do, they settle for meatpie(snacks) and softdrinks. Now why is it that when a guy takes them out, they demand for rice and chicken without considering the guys pocket. Its inconsiderate and insensitive to me. Let's call a spade a spade not a trowel. |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by erico2k2(m): 6:45am On Apr 01, 2016 |
AlienStar:MayB as precaution, ladies should take along some money with them on a first date and offer to pay or share if its really expensive, cos the essence of the meeting is to talk and know each other not to quench the hunger in you.Talking when eating can be rude i n some quarters, PS sharing the bills is called **Going Dutch** |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by melvin0004(m): 7:00am On Apr 01, 2016 |
[quote author=ireneony post=44288217]No.5 is so true This remind me of when a guy invited to an eatery. After ordering fried and chicken for me, he ordered take away meat pie for himself. I was eating the food gel gel gel. He was looking at me and couldn't contained his feelings. He said " how which I knew this restaurant is expensive, we wud have gone to a cheap restaurant" In my mind I was like why can't this guy just be quiet "nor be everything eye see mouth go talk" With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva It was time for us to leave, he stopped a bike. Abo0ki bike man to be precise. U need to come and see the way this guy was pricing ehh. He was like" you know I priced 80# instead of 150# so we are going to enter this bike together, when the bike get to your destination he will drop you at the junction and he will also take me home from there" Some guys are jst stingy. N.b: I never begged him to take me out. [/quote if u decide to pay for ur transport nko.... |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by KruggerINC(m): 7:02am On Apr 01, 2016 |
wristbangle: wristbangle how do you know all these things you're writing?have u been going out on dates with guys? |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by OneManLegion(m): 7:11am On Apr 01, 2016 |
prettythicksme: "...a broke ass niggas". Face book, them nor go gree; na so so nyash picture them go dey show for instagram. See the end result now "a broke ass niggas". |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by OneManLegion(m): 7:15am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Fxwarrior: Bros, your comment nor make sense. If a guy takes a girl out, he should spend whatever's necessary to make sure she's satisfied. After all, he took her out of his own volition. Btw, not all girls can't afford rice and chicken for themselves. I can't take a girl out and be praying she opts for soft drink and meat-pie. If my money nor reach to take woman out, I chill for house. Eez not a by force sturvs. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Nnemuka(f): 7:22am On Apr 01, 2016 |
butanep:ok, but i can help you get a job so you wont be too bitter about life. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Obiwiz(m): 7:38am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Guys, don't mingle with hungry and 'ambitionless' ladies, they're not good for ur future. When a lady is so keen on how much food(or other items) a man/guy who isn't her husband or relative buys her, then u can deduce where she's coming from and/or where she's headed. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by tickles2luv2016(m): 7:48am On Apr 01, 2016 |
wristbangle: What about ladies that take advantage of guys,they demand for what their father cant buy for them,imagine a lady asking a guy for school fees and money for project etc.are these responsibilities that of the guy or the lady's parents |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by OluwaTroy(m): 7:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
This is just BS. A date does not have to be in public and you don't have to eat an expensive meal. By the way, shey na international restaurant you want go? wristbangle: |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Mattew690(m): 7:53am On Apr 01, 2016 |
RIP stringy guys ########### |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by CHISOMPHILIP(m): 8:06am On Apr 01, 2016 |
With that vexation I ate everything including the bone of the chicken. He was swallowing his saliva lol...Nairaland babe's. .dats y if the guys get just one chances e go bang u lyk say tomorrow no dey |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Akynzodeighbour(m): 8:17am On Apr 01, 2016 |
What's the issue with being stingy? Some of this guy's don't have the money, Foreign girls would gladly split the bills, you don't even need to ask them, your post is just influenced by the Nigerian mentality 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 01, 2016 |
amokeme:u mean like this?
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Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by datigbogirl: 8:27am On Apr 01, 2016 |
wristbangle: So is it a crime to demand sex from a lady you'll like to have sex with after buying stuffs for her? The desire to sex her is there and he tries to fulfill it by making her happy only for the girl to blast him afterwards... Dats so unfair...it's difficult for a guy to just be friends with a girl he wants to have sex with....he'll better stop the spending if he knows he isn't gonna get a bite of the cookie. |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by corporate2016: 8:42am On Apr 01, 2016 |
;DLamentation of a broke dude.but some gold diggers no dey try @ll .....they b like give two plate of fried rice ,,Four Beefs,,six chickens,two plate fish pepper soup,two barbecue,two table water,two red wine, and seven take aways.m...lol ยป4wetin nw? because he took u on a date abi. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by KingRex1(m): 8:42am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Smellymouth:Lol wetin hapun. You drink? |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Nobody: 9:22am On Apr 01, 2016 |
datigbogirl:Listen to yourself! LovePeddler patroniser! |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by Nobody: 9:26am On Apr 01, 2016 |
OneManLegion:Help me tell them Oga. I'm sure most were threatened with a gun! |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by wristbangle: 10:01am On Apr 01, 2016 |
KruggerINC: Are u saying I am a gay? |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by nonny99(m): 10:03am On Apr 01, 2016 |
This f**ked up men, is it all about the guy spending and spending, what are you willing to do, on the first date as a lady, |
Re: Ladies, 8 Characteristics Of A Stingy Guy On First Date by wristbangle: 10:04am On Apr 01, 2016 |
tickles2luv2016: I detest ladies who seize the opportunity of relationship to finance their insatiable needs. Something their father or mother can't afford, they shouldn't mandate it on their boyfriend. Back to the article, I am talking about features of stingy guys on first date which happens a lot to some of my female friends and to be candid, I condemn such acts. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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