Pls nairalander,i dated this girl for 7yrs,and we had a smooth relationship and we also promise eachother marriage,i was accepted by all her family.She said she got pregnat for me early this year,altghough,that is not the first time.and i persuaded her to abort it ,but she told me that she aborted it.but her mom called me and said her daugther did not abort it,and she said i should be ready to take responsibility.which i never object,instead i accepted.but this girl told me she aborted my pregnancy.
We had misunderstanding during this period to an extent my family,her parent interven then but she did not want hear them.I later stop calling her for like 3month and she did not also call me.at the begining of the third month,she sent a wedding invitation to my friend phone.The sad story was that,she is pregnant.she cliam she got pregnant for me in end feburary and abortion,we try to settle dispute in march,she got married in june.

If you all promised one another marriage, why all the abortions? Use protection if you dont want kids.

Well it might have not been your baby.