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Re: Is He A Cheater? by prittigrrr(f): 2:27pm On Jul 30, 2009 |
You do not need to "fight for your man." The man should be fighting to prove himself to you. Any man you have to fight another lady for is not worth having. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 2:30pm On Jul 30, 2009 |
Toysne; Bless you! Whitelexi; There are many details and words spoken that are not posted here. This is only the internet, I can't tell you everything- we would be here for the months it took. When i begin a new relatioship it does not take me months to sort out the other men, lol. Re the pics. When we took them he said "I know those our going on Facebook" I responded that they were all my friends wanted a face for the name. He was upset that I put "My Love" as the title & "My Baby & Me" as the caption. Also, I am a very respectful & loving person. I treat who I am with as I would want to be treated---As long as they are treating me with the respect I deserve. i would post the picture so you can see but you would all know him & that's wrong. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 12:04am On Jul 31, 2009 |
whitelexi: whitelexi:I can predict from a very far distance that you were abused by a woman who didn't know your worth. About the woman, I have said it before, she has no right whatsoever to call his contacts behind him --- that's spying. If she doesn't trust him, she'd tell it to his face than just cuss him. I personally don't like it when a woman's cussing. What gave her the moral justification to cuss? If he cussed her, what'd be her reaction? Can she honestly say she's never done wrong her whole life? I hate it when people try to be all holy when their closet is filled with carcass and skeletons. @Poster, you could have been patient; talk with him. In every relationship, communication solves every problem no matter how big they seem. Cussing a new boyfriend just showed you've got no respect for him. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by laudate: 10:38pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Girl, this guy is cheating on you big time! If his motives, intentions & actions were clean, pure & honest, or if he had nothing to hide, then he wouldn't take your pictures off his page on "facebook." He has a lot to hide, mostly from the other women in his life. Wake up & smell da coffee. Another woman has confessed that she has been dating him on & off. You have seen proof of his infidelity in the text messages on his phone. What else are you waiting for? He is just getting defensive & using reverse psychology on you, because he knows his lies are beginning to stick out like a sore thumb, and he hates being found out. He has multiple relationships running simultaneously, including the one he has with you. Personally, there is no point in staying with a person who cannot be faithful to you and who finds it more convenient to play you for a fool rather than be upfront about the issues in his life. But then, the choice is yours. No one has walked in your shoes, so it may be difficult for them to tell you exactly when its time to take them off 'cos its been aching so much. Forget all those excuses that whitelexi & The Seeker are trying to throw down. The guy is not doing you a favour by dating you. Love, honour, truth, fidelity & respect are still the right buidling blocks for any relationship. So girl, start as you mean to go on. Don't fake anything. Trust is not given, it is earned. And if a man cannot show himself to be worthy of your trust, let him go & meet other girls who will fall for his deceit. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
why old men and women are playing around on facebook makes me wonder. At 40 your life shld not be on facebook! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by hotteju(f): 10:57pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
davidylan: You would be surprised to know how seriously some people take Facebook To me Facebook has done more harm than good I can't begin to count how many relationships have crashed because of Facebook @poster Only you can advice yourself cos no matter what anyone says here you would still have to listen to your heart wish you the best!!! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by ikamefa(f): 11:01pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
@topic there was no love right from the get go! your man is/was a player i totally agree with everything @prtigrrrrrrrr said through out this thread in my opinion you were not to blame for anything that happened during this relationship as a woman you felt something and acted on it just be careful with your next man, now you know what to do all that rubbish about keeping tabs and ish please disregard |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 11:31pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
Well it's done. haven't spoke to him in 2 days. I've meet someone else already too. Maybe this one will be a good man. Nigerian again, I must like ya'll. Lol. Honestly I really appreciate how kind and happy the Nigerians I have meet are. Also, how God fearing and smart. I guess that is the positive I gained from this experience. The ability to see another culture and way of life. Thank everyone for the advice & support. Very appreciated. Much love & all God's blessings! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by roblance: 11:48pm On Jul 31, 2009 |
fold arms watching, |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by amosexy: 12:56am On Aug 01, 2009 |
prittigrrr: You are so right and i'm gonna hold on to this. hotteju:FB i'm done with it.It has really done more harms to me dan gud @poster Plz move on with your life. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by na2day2(m): 2:33am On Aug 01, 2009 |
TEXASGIRL: honestly, if i were u, i will slow down the relationship until i get a better commitment from him than what he has offered so far. it might be nothing it might be a whole lot but having a girl he once was involved with sending continuous text to him calls for a pause my dear. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 2:51am On Aug 01, 2009 |
TEXASGIRL:Wow! You met another man in 2 days already? You haven't even been able to sort the other relationship out -- at least amicably. Well, you must have them quite handy. If you could easily have men in a relationship as you want, now I'm wondering . . . . . Wow! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by na2day2(m): 3:00am On Aug 01, 2009 |
TheSeeker: it is never too late for u to join the line, i am sure she will consider u if this other one dont work out |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by ikamefa(f): 4:19am On Aug 01, 2009 |
na2day?: " " chei! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 4:49am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Lol, I told you I was attractive. See men are replacable just as women. I'll make sure never to curse in front of this one, just for ya'll. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by Kelvinj(m): 4:52am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Wow! Texasgirl anoda guy in some couple of ours aft breakup? Guez ur now ex waz a cheater & u were d tiger! |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by na2day2(m): 5:03am On Aug 01, 2009 |
TEXASGIRL: the leopard can not hide the spots on its skin |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 5:09am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Good thing I'm not a leopard. I told you I normally don't curse. I have nothing to hide anyway, thank you. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by na2day2(m): 5:14am On Aug 01, 2009 |
yw |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 5:24am On Aug 01, 2009 |
na2day?:LMAO!!! Really? What about you? Oh I remember we made a choice sometime ago that you'd get to heaven and reserve a space for me, if women were going to send men to hell; given that you can do that before me, I'd like us to follow suit with this one. Be on the line first, I'll be at your back. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by Kelvinj(m): 5:27am On Aug 01, 2009 |
C'mon, watz ar u guyz beefing 4? Or haz d advice turn 2 quarrelz as usual? |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 5:33am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Kelvinj:Beef between you? I don't think na2day, if that's who you mean, meant what he said as an insult. I see it more as a joke. Never had a quarrel with him anyways |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by roblance: 5:35am On Aug 01, 2009 |
texas gurl how far na , come block me in 5 days time now, bt to me u mite nt be attractive |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 5:59am On Aug 01, 2009 |
True, maybe not. But, you would be the exception. And, if this doesn't work there are plenty more out there. Of course, being single is so much fun too. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 6:10am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Posted a pic just for you, but can't get it to flip?? |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by baby4u2(f): 6:37am On Aug 01, 2009 |
From a pretty girl to a pretty girl, I think you are really pretty. Pls be careful this time. Dont think you did anything wrong as whitelex said or anyone else. Your instincts helped you get out of the mess sooner than later. Make sure you dont jump into anything without enough research, i know you're not that young anymore and might feel pressured. But be careful and make sure you are sure of whomever you are going out with next. In my opinion i might have suggested not a nigerian, but oh well. Goodluck to you. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by hollandis(f): 7:27am On Aug 01, 2009 |
@poster That FB pic post was a really nasty thing thing to do.His subsequent reaction his enough proof that he doesnt like you enough for a real relationship.perharps he's just using you as his sex gratificator ,money liaison ,his papers or whatever |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 7:30am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Why shouldn't I put up pics of the person I am dating if we are exclusive? He said when we were taking them they were going on FB, No pressure, I like being single. Don't plan on marrying anytime soon. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by C2H5OH(f): 7:32am On Aug 01, 2009 |
you a white lady |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by TEXASGIRL(f): 7:37am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Yes, very white, lol. Is that ok? I posted here because I felt some of our problems were cultural differences. Waned the insight and knowledge of people who understood his culture. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by C2H5OH(f): 7:40am On Aug 01, 2009 |
I'm not saying there's a problem with you being white. Far too many girls who had issues similar to yours have posted on this site, and your situation doesn't surprise me at all. Goodluck fighting through it. |
Re: Is He A Cheater? by C2H5OH(f): 7:42am On Aug 01, 2009 |
Dude's actions don't match his words. By the way he has acted thus far it doesn't seem like he is ready to be with you. Maybe he likes having you around as a Bleep buddy? |
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