FOR COUPLES AND THOSE ABOUT TO GET MARRIED
FOR OUR MEN:
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in
the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at
times. The truth is, every woman wants to be
treated like a 2yrs old girl at times, that's why
women behave childish or silly at times.
You may have an argument with your wife and
the next thing is that you will see her putting her
bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is
asking for a divorce, she is just being childish,
she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the
eyes and say "I am sorry for the argument".
That's women for you. Every brother needs to
study in the university of women before getting
married, read books about them, learn what the
Bible says about them and you will hardly have a
problem with them.
Though there may still be some challenges,
because you're both from different background
and your imperfections are bound to stand.
So, read books about marriage, an ideal home,
child upbringing, importance of marriage and the
likes. Don't just jump into marriage with an empty
head about matrimony, you will have problems.
How many men can tolerate their wives nagging
let alone shouting? It's said that, you should be
quiet when your spouse is angry, when one
person is fire, the other person should be water.
Brothers, when your wife steps on your feet
intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes
turn red, just smile at her, if she did it
intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she
did it mistakenly, its not her fault. So why shout
at her over every small mistake?
As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be
petty. Some men are feminist; Do "hide and seek"
with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the
garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing
you.
Assist her in the house chores, pound yam, fetch
water, don't make her look like your maid. Bathe
together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her
if it's available, cook together, teach her how to
cook if she doesn't know how to cook. Cooking is
not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a
feminine duty.
Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her,
scare her at times, call her from work/ school,
text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put
it under her pillow or in her purse or in her
bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her
cupboard. Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper
her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's
beautiful and that you're happy to have her as
your partner.
All these are part of being romantic...When a
woman tells you that you are not romantic. It
means you are not doing all these things, its not
the romance in the bedroom she is talking about.
That's why, you brothers have to study "women's
language" it's a 10 year course.

FOR LADIES:
It is part of your duty to be romantic too. Your
shyness shouldn't get to your marital life and that
doesn't mean you should be shy to express your
love to your husband.
Send sweet text messages to your husband at
work, sometimes even if you are in the room
discussing with your husband, still be chatting
with him on social media (Facebook, Whatsapp,
Viber, Imo, bbm etc) even though he is right in
front of you, it's fun and romantic! Discuss how
lovely he is on your facebook timeline, this will
trip him a lot.
You should be chatting with your husband, not
other men on social media networks.
Buy flowers for him. When eating, give him the
biggest meat. At times, bake cake for him to
surprise him. Ladies, use your soft voice to sing
for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle, twinkle
lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up
above my world so high, like a diamond in my
heart).
Sing poems for him, no shyness is allowed. Don't
just be welcoming your husband with an angry
face because there is no money in the house, God
is our provider. Don't welcome your husband with
your body smelling maggi, don't only play with
your husband when he receives his salary.
Welcome him with a warm hug always, and when
he is going to work, pray to God to keep him safe
and for him to be successful. Support him, advise
him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him, it's not
easy to be a man, when you see his faith waxing
cold, encourage him, don't threaten him that you
will seek for divorce, don't compare him with
other men, buy him gifts, wash his clothes, sing
for him, praise him in a way that he wouldn't
think of an alternative, be the best cook, wash his
car if u have the time, dress him up, pamper him
when he is sick.
Wake him with a peck and don't complain about
his snoring habit.
Let kiss be the messenger between you. Read
books on intimacy, don't learn it from what you
see in movies..
Most of what you see there are not real. Call
your husband pet names. Though you can also
call him by his name even if he is 30yrs older
than you, as far as he is comfortable with it.
Remember that, God said, men are the protectors
and maintainers of women. So respect him and
honour him even if he is younger than you.
Marriage isn't a bed of roses but a bed of
sacrifice. It's said that, there is nothing better for
two people who love each other than marriage.
To fall in love is a disease and its cure is to
marry the person one is in love with. Love is
when you take away the feeling, the passion and
the romance and you find out you still care for
that person.

Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in
the sitting room, make her feel like a baby
lol what of men wey marry orobo?

Nice tips.
Just do a lil bit of proper paragraphing to make your post a bit more readable OP.

It takes time, diligence with selfcenteredness to write an interesting, necessary and important piece as this.
Thanks OP. This will help alot of us here...

ettaetta:
Carry your wife to the bed when she sleeps off in
the sitting room, make her feel like a baby
lol what of men wey marry orobo?

roll her like drum or you call your friends to assist you

princy80:
roll her like drum or you call your friends to assist you

lol

ettaetta:
lol

u don engage dah ur orobo girlfriend?