Written by By # Fabunmi_Emmanuel

A time will come where love won't be able to sustain your marriage, a time will come where fatigue will catch the love, but with understanding you will still be together even in tough periods. Love is overrated!

Saying, i quote ' # fabem, please help my relationship/marriage. My husband/wife doesn't do as before when we get married, I am scared he/she is now cheating on me. He/she did not love me again,' It may not be so.


Even ordinary relationships, fatigue do occur to relationships, but understanding and maturity will keep it going, now talking of marriage. People changes for some times and for some reasons may be pressure or stress but if both of you understand each other, you will pass through difficult periods together.


Love is good in marriage, but what marriage requires is more than love.
If you don't understand each other, love can turn to hatred. Our youth of nowadays should know that before they get married. Enough of complaining everyday on social network. Date someone who is matured and understanding.


At least, been matured and understanding can not be hidden, it will show the first day you meet. Consider that, then fall in love later. Don't fall in love and consider those things later.


We cause some many problems before choosing. What you suppose to do and notice yourself, you won't work on that. you think with Prayers, your Pastor/Alfa will see it all. Not possible! It is when issues arises, that is when they will now start complaining. It is good to pray and also good to be observant.

Tell me, a man saying he loves his woman yet he abused her and beat her. Is that love? A woman loves her man, yet she disrespected him anywhere anytime, yet she claim he loves him. Is that love?

If you date a man/woman who adapt to situation and understand as well, everything will go on smooth but doesn't mean both of you won't quarrel, but it will never pass 24hours and no third parties involved.
God help us all........!

#fabem

Estharfabian:
Love is actually underrated..

Really! Can you give me points?

Estharfabian:
Love is actually underrated..

I actually agree with you. It is not only underrated but over abused and misunderstood.

If the op is asked what he means by or understand love to be, we might find out he actually meant infatuation and attraction.