This is an ex of mine. After breaking up for 4 months, he told me he miss me blah blah blah, after considering going back to him I met with him and his fone rang twice and it was a lady, I don't know what she said but I cud make it up from what he was replying that he can't come out right now and he would see her tomorrow that maybe she wanted to see him. After that i decided not to go back to him even though I love him so much. But we kept in touch, tonight he came to see me,  called me & tell me his downstairs and  I went down, I didn't even finish 10min in his car his fone rang again and it was a lady again, from what he was saying i assumed she was asking where he was coz he was like I'm just checking something online(he was with me hey) and at the end of their conversation he was like "nice one baby thnx for calling". After i heard that i just repeated what he said last and then stormed out of his car and bang the door.

This is the guy I risk everything for including my career and now I don't know why he keeps on coming back if there are these ladies in his life, I mean the name I saw on fone screen when this one called is the same as the last one.

I don't even know why this is hurting so much coz i thought I was getting over him.

sexybabes:

This is an ex of mine. After breaking up for 4 months, he told me he miss me blah blah blah, after considering going back to him I met with him and his fone rang twice and it was a lady, I don't know what she said but I cud make it up from what he was replying that he can't come out right now and he would see her tomorrow that maybe she wanted to see him. After that i decided not to go back to him even though I love him so much. But we kept in touch, tonight he came to see me, called me & tell me his downstairs and I went down, I didn't even finish 10min in his car his fone rang again and it was a lady again, from what he was saying i assumed she was asking where he was coz he was like I'm just checking something online(he was with me hey) and at the end of their conversation he was like "nice one baby thnx for calling". After i heard that i just repeated what he said last and then stormed out of his car and bang the door.

This is the guy I risk everything for including my career and now I don't know why he keeps on coming back if there are these ladies in his life, I mean the name I saw on fone screen when this one called is the same as the last one.

I don't even know why this is hurting so much coz i thought I was getting over him.

From my own point of view, i think he is just using u for sex. I tell you what yeah, the guy is got different gurls. I do not know him but from what you said he definately has different gurls. You said this guy is ur ex right? ok fine, trust me this guy only need sex and after a short period he will find excuse to break it up again. Be wise sha.

skfa1:

From my own point of view, i think he is just using u for sex. I tell you what yeah, the guy is got different gurls. I do not know him but from what you said he definately has different gurls. You said this guy is ur ex right? ok fine, trust me this guy only need sex and after a short period he will find excuse to break it up again. Be wise sha.

Am not sleeping with him well not anymore.

sexybabes:

This is an ex of mine. After breaking up for 4 months, he told me he miss me blah blah blah, after considering going back to him I met with him and his fone rang twice and it was a lady, I don't know what she said but I cud make it up from what he was replying that he can't come out right now and he would see her tomorrow that maybe she wanted to see him. After that i decided not to go back to him even though I love him so much. But we kept in touch, tonight he came to see me,  called me & tell me his downstairs and  I went down, I didn't even finish 10min in his car his fone rang again and it was a lady again, from what he was saying i assumed she was asking where he was coz he was like I'm just checking something online(he was with me hey) and at the end of their conversation he was like "nice one baby thnx for calling". After i heard that i just repeated what he said last and then stormed out of his car and bang the door.

This is the guy I risk everything for including my career and now I don't know why he keeps on coming back if there are these ladies in his life, I mean the name I saw on fone screen when this one called is the same as the last one.

I don't even know why this is hurting so much coz i thought I was getting over him. 

why shuld u go and eat yur vomit, well u did eat yur vomit so u got wat u deserved , its nt ideal to eat yur vomit now , even a dog wunt dare do such, gurl wise up

sexybabes:

This is an ex of mine. After breaking up for 4 months, he told me he miss me blah blah blah, after considering going back to him I met with him and his fone rang twice and it was a lady, I don't know what she said but I cud make it up from what he was replying that he can't come out right now and he would see her tomorrow that maybe she wanted to see him. After that i decided not to go back to him even though I love him so much. But we kept in touch, tonight he came to see me,  called me & tell me his downstairs and  I went down, I didn't even finish 10min in his car his fone rang again and it was a lady again, from what he was saying i assumed she was asking where he was coz he was like I'm just checking something online(he was with me hey) and at the end of their conversation he was like "nice one baby thnx for calling". After i heard that i just repeated what he said last and then stormed out of his car and bang the door.

This is the guy I risk everything for including my career and now I don't know why he keeps on coming back if there are these ladies in his life, I mean the name I saw on fone screen when this one called is the same as the last one.

I don't even know why this is hurting so much coz i thought I was getting over him.  

The warning signs are there gal, he might have been good to you in the past, but trust me the relationship is now "bitter" and the only one who is going to get hurt and left with the mess is you. My advice, muster all the courage and grace you can and end it with him, with time this will end up being the best decision of your life. On the other hand keep going back to him and like all men we sometimes think we can eat our cake and have it, without any concern for the "victim"
peace

sexybabes:

Am not sleeping with him well not anymore.

u're not sleeping with him, sure . . . But he's using u for something u urself might not know: It could be money, emotional support or as a side kick  . . .

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Methinks d guy's still coming back cos he thinks U're still susceptible 2 his charms, n if U guys ren't ving sex at d moment u soon will if U're not careful.If u dn't wanna sign back in2 heartbreak hotel I suggest U tell d guy off n delete him COMPLETELY,word.

ravenzord:

Methinks d guy's still coming back cos he thinks U're still susceptible 2 his charms, n if U guys ren't ving sex at d moment u soon will if U're not careful.If u dn't wanna sign back in2 heartbreak hotel I suggest U tell d guy off n delete him COMPLETELY,word.

Am planning to do that believe me. What I don't understand is why he keeps on bothering me. When I start 2 forget him, there he is again.

sexybabes:

Am planning to do that believe me. What I don't understand is why he keeps on bothering me. When I start 2 forget him, there he is again.

he keeps coming back because he liked what he had with you and you cant seem to get over him, thats why when he calls you jump. He sees that and is playing the game, i.e. play with your emotions long enough and he'd get sex with you, while keeping the new girl

topic dismmised no more comment she knows wat to do, but she herself still loves him well thread owner better dnt go mad with dat guy oo, if u like yur health

roblance:

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what's confusing about my statement? . . .

@ Poster, don't bring your past into your future. He doesn't want you back and from the looks of things doesn't respect you at all. Please stop trying to figure out his twisted mind and just move forward with your life. Embrace the pain cause it will fade with time. If he ever calls you again, tell him thanks for calling but you'll pass on the get together, even if he's downstairs. Shut that door for good!

sometimes, women just get themselves into difficult situation. It very simple to break. you said both of you broke for 4months and now he is back. What was the coz of the breakup if i may ask?

Find yourself another guy!

chidipupay:

sometimes, women just get themselves into difficult situation. It very simple to break. you said both of you broke for 4months and now he is back. What was the coz of the breakup if i may ask?

I found out he was cheating on me. We were in a long dis r/s and he decided 2 move to my city 2 be close 2 me and when he was here apparantely he left a lot a angry women behind and they started stalking me on my fone so i broke it off with him. Ofcoz he denied it and he still do.

hackingisfun:

Find yourself another guy!

That's not a bad idea @ all. Just that now I'm not ready for any r/s.

ezinne1212:

@ Poster, don't bring your past into your future. He doesn't want you back and from the looks of things doesn't respect you at all. Please[b] stop trying to figure out his twisted mind and just move forward with your life.[/b] Embrace the pain cause it will fade with time. If he ever calls you again, tell him thanks for calling but you'll pass on the get together, even if he's downstairs. Shut that door for good!

His mind is twisted alright, now he wants me 2 apologise for banging his car door, Lol! Saying that he calls everybody "baby" even my friends he calls them "baby" and that doesnt mean his going out with them.
MEN, I give up on them.Lol!!!

why not take some time off?
just be on ur own and create ur own fun

@poster, maybe u're insecure, y not check urself first? I have a friend hu ends his calls wit i love u to almost anybody! It always made me laugh especially if d caller isn't so close to him, i've warned him but its already a habit, MAYBE ur EX is like dat, callin a gal BABY doesn't really mean anything, i call my younger Sister baby too, n u say he has a lotta girls around him its normal for some guys, Eg ME! Maybe u've neva trusted him cos of this, I'm not defendin him but from ur explanation u still love him but u didn't give a chance,

Da_archer:

@poster, maybe u're insecure, y not check urself first? I have a friend hu ends his calls wit i love u to almost anybody! It always made me laugh especially if d caller isn't so close to him, i've warned him but its already a habit, MAYBE ur EX is like dat, callin a gal BABY doesn't really mean anything, i call my younger Sister baby too, n u say he has a lotta girls around him its normal for some guys, Eg ME! Maybe u've neva trusted him cos of this, I'm not defendin him but from ur explanation u still love him but u didn't give a chance,

Ya he is like that, calls every gal baby even his sisters, my sister too and even my friends, his friends galfriends, etc. That i know but from what happened before maybe I can't seem to trust him again. The guy cheated on me before.

i think this babe like him and she looking for a reason to hate him. so you guys should give her one.

rita u da real deal

segzi cres:

i think this babe like him and she looking for a reason to hate him. so you guys should give her one.

Why dont u give me one?

4get abt hm. Hes a player.

Poster, u dnt know what u want. You are a little bit frustrated. Get your mind right, and im sure you'll know whats best for you to do.

Go find a new guy. That guy is not serious with you again. Okay?

eyonigger:

Poster, u dnt know what u want. You are a little bit frustrated. Get your mind right, and im sure you'll know whats best for you to do.

Little bit confused maybe but frustrated, NO!

sexybabes:

Little bit confused maybe but frustrated, NO!

Confusion leads to frustration dear. Do you know u might be unconsciously frustrated? I am telling u. Go and check ur PB.

All this advice. i tire ooohhh.

If a man keeps coming back it means jst 1 thing. He culdnt fiond what u guyz had b4 with any1 else.

4get those telling u dat all he want is **x. if he is a player as u said then its not hard for him 2 com across gals 2 lay.

and bliv me playaz dnt think any gal is worth coming back 2 xcept she's got somtin xtra which they couldnt get any where els. if he keeps coming back it means he like u enuf to wana b with you and if u realize u did have what makes him comin back then girl, u can make the RULES.

Dnt throw what u guys have away just like that. u keep runnin out to c him, so u lov him still. work on him.

eyonigger:

Confusion leads to frustration dear. Do you know u might be unconsciously frustrated? I am telling u. Go and check ur PB.

Im not there yet trust me.