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7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by ettaetta(m): 1:24pm On Apr 10, 2016
Back in the days, to love someone meant to love them unconditionally. But this kind of love is hard to spot these days.
Unconditional love is the purest form of love. It involves loving someone, accepting them the way they are wholeheartedly, and sticking together despite issues, making compromises and solving issues along the way. It’s about loving someone without any conditions. This was the kind of love we’d see often in the past. But unfortunately, it’s been hard to spot these days. Here’s why:

1. Unwillingness to make compromises
The strength of a relationship lies in making compromises, because otherwise there’d be endless fights and arguments that would only stop at a break up. Prioritizing your needs over your partner’s is not the right thing to do in a relationship. Instead, the focus needs to lie on how to work things out together.

2. Strong attachment to materialistic things
People these days care more about their materialistic possessions than their partners.

3. A strong desire for casual hookups
Sex drives the majority of interactions between men and women after they turn 21. The popular dating apps of today understand this desire and are, hence, all the rage. Sleeping around with different individuals might provide for a rich sexual life, but will soon leave you feeling more empty, loveless and lonely.

4. They avoid taking responsibilities
With love and relationships come responsibilities and commitment. These days, however, people avoid taking responsibility. Unconditional love is not about playing the blame game; it’s about being mature enough to take complete responsibility for one’s own words and actions.

5. People are more egocentric these days
Individuals are quite egocentric in this day and age. They prefer putting their needs ahead of others. Even though everyone has an ego, focussing just on one’s personal needs and desires overtakes their ability to feel love and empathy for another.

6. They need everything to be perfect
The current generation is so obsessed with perfection that they just can’t deal with flaws in their partners. Everyone is in search for the perfect individual — one who is flawless and who can fulfil all their wishes and needs. Such a perfect individual doesn’t exist.

7. They have high expectations
For a relationship to work successfully, the partners need to put in a lot of sustained effort together. They need to learn to manage their expectations and realise if they’re being unrealistic about it. High expectations of another is typically the root cause of pain and disappointment.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by Dandeson1(m): 1:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
. who true luv don epp?? Na true luv kill person for titanic




Look for true money( billionaire money)... And you will experience the kind of luv that heavens would be jealous of..., that's the shiit
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by cruzita(f): 1:28pm On Apr 10, 2016
its a pity how true love just disappeared.Everybody wants to rule and overshadow others,nobody is willing to make sacrifices for love again.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by McCarlito(m): 1:29pm On Apr 10, 2016
The seven reasons are:
1: Sugar-daddies refuse to leg go of our future wives
2: No fuel
3: Increment in Bride-Price and hike
4: Increased desire and much want Of Human hairs
5: Ladies are not Loyal anymore
6: Social media toaster refuse to allow are girls concentrate on just one partner
7: Girls nowadays prefer to chop both Money and different Turkey
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Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by halfricanadian(f): 1:37pm On Apr 10, 2016
Its cos love is nt real ow do u want to find the true something of what doesnt exist.

only jesus christ is d true love can u b cruxified die nd resurrect again?

No no
So stop all dis decieving tool
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by Bluezy13(m): 1:39pm On Apr 10, 2016
Hmmm...











And then
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by ettaetta(m): 1:48pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Its cos love is nt real ow do u want to find the true something of what doesnt exist.

only jesus christ is d true love can u b cruxified die nd resurrect again?

No no
So stop all dis decieving tool
you are contradicting your self
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by MoneypassGod(m): 1:52pm On Apr 10, 2016
Hi everyone! Nepa just brought light. Le me go finish d movie i was watching. Brb
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by Lasveg(m): 1:58pm On Apr 10, 2016
halfricanadian:
Its cos love is nt real ow do u want to find the true something of what doesnt exist.

only jesus christ is d true love can u b cruxified die nd resurrect again?

No no
So stop all dis decieving tool
dat guy dat broke ur heart, can i hav his name? Let me help u deal wif him.
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by firstking01(m): 2:15pm On Apr 10, 2016
True love does still exist my brothers and sisters...the thing is, most times because of our "picky" attitude and our high "taste" for our partner blindfolds us that we miss out on the right person whenever the come...




Halfricanadian, how many times will i warn you to let go of your pastundecided....some people came into your life to fulfill part of the obligation God has destined you to pass through inother to get to where He wants you to go...stop being pesimistic on love...
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by yomi007k(m): 2:26pm On Apr 10, 2016
Nonsense.



Who true love don help?
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by zeetyzin(m): 2:42pm On Apr 10, 2016
Lol...I still maintain my belief, tru love exists...
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 2:47pm On Apr 10, 2016
what's love got to do, got to do with it

what's love but a second hand emooootion

what's love got to do, got to do with it

who needs a heart when a heart can be broooken angry
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by Nobody: 3:12pm On Apr 10, 2016
Chai, half.ricanadian, dat guy no try 4 u oo
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by ettaetta(m): 3:15pm On Apr 10, 2016
Lasveg:
dat guy dat broke ur heart, can i hav his name? Let me help u deal wif him.
lol she really sounds bitter
Re: 7 Reasons Why True Love Is Hard To Find by Pharoahhhhhh: 5:40pm On Apr 10, 2016
angry ]Hmmm, sadly true love has gone out of existence.

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