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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by JkShams(m): 7:41pm On Apr 14, 2016

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

. True talk.

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 14, 2016

Ghost447:
Identify the lies please.

Identify the truth please! undecided

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 14, 2016

JkShams:
. True talk.

God bless you! cheesy

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by halfricanadian(f): 7:47pm On Apr 14, 2016

Danfuster:

hell yea ... I could really use one . You legit joor

Yup i am

tank u so are u old papa youngie tongue

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Trendishine: 7:48pm On Apr 14, 2016

Galacious1:
I disagree.
If she's d 'one' dude is still gonna marry her sex or no sex.

dnt mind d mumu, wat does he know abt boyfrnd n grlfrnd , he doesnt even have one. everyone wanna create a thread.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 14, 2016

Very true op can u imagin my cousin's ex saying he dumped his ex because hes tired of too much sex later askin my cousin for sex my cousin dumped his sorry ass before makin her his next victim

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Apostleisaac1: 7:53pm On Apr 14, 2016

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

. Ladies give themself so cheaply...that's why they are being used & dump without marriage

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Danfuster(m): 7:55pm On Apr 14, 2016

halfricanadian:

Yup i am tank u so are u old papa youngie

old papa youngie ké... I be sweet 16 . Ómó eleje tutu

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Fmartin(m): 7:57pm On Apr 14, 2016

Ramanto:

have you made efforts to teach her?

no. Bt at least someone who pass through sec sch. Should b able to make even a bad sentence in English.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by halfricanadian(f): 7:57pm On Apr 14, 2016

Danfuster:

old papa youngie ké... I be sweet 16 . Ómó eleje tutu

Me sef b charming 17 tongue

Baba stop denying ur age d old generation no wan gree

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by slyrone(m): 7:59pm On Apr 14, 2016

LesbianBoy:
Click like if you think the OP is talking nonsense and ingredient

u just wan gather likes by force. that said but if truly na u dey ur profile. then u got a bright future behind you. what r u doing with all that! chai

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Analysiscorner: 8:01pm On Apr 14, 2016

Iamsynord:
Regular sex can never be a determinant for love or even marrying someone.

If regular sex really matters negatively,how come a man and a woman that keeps having sex at will and most times, stay together and wax stronger in love in a marriage of 30 years and even more ..

As long as u are sure that only u is doing it and she is not cheating, there is no reason not to marry her.

I beg to differ, please.
Regular sex is something associated with marriage in many Nigerian cultures, and even in the Christian faith. Now a man that should spend for his traditional marriage, coupled with white wedding is receiving all the benefits of marriage free of charge, the chances are that he would relax and the free sex would begin to look common to him.
In the long run he sees a lady prettier than the former, and goes for her. Variety is the spice of life. Had he paid some price forthe first, he would have thought twice before dumping her.

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by slyrone(m): 8:01pm On Apr 14, 2016

ireneony:
There are still boys that's y ..real men don't do such

Irene just one date plssssssss.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by madjune(m): 8:02pm On Apr 14, 2016

ChristStriker:

Very trur, please tell them.

Not true.

After the sex...the guy checks the character.
A guy mostly marries a person that gives him peace and stays true.

Sex is primary.

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Analysiscorner: 8:03pm On Apr 14, 2016

Fmartin:
no. Bt at least someone who pass through sec sch. Should b able to make even a bad sentence in English.

Please, what do you mean by a bad sentence in English?

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Analysiscorner: 8:05pm On Apr 14, 2016

rahymat:
Very true op can u imagin my cousin's ex saying he dumped his ex because hes tired of too much sex later askin my cousin for sex my cousin dumped his sorry ass before makin her his next victim

Explain, please

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Danfuster(m): 8:05pm On Apr 14, 2016

halfricanadian:

Me sef b charming 17

Baba stop denying ur age d old generation no wan gree

he be like say na you be the diva , Nne.. Come be my asampete

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Ramanto(m): 8:06pm On Apr 14, 2016

Fmartin:
no. Bt at least someone who pass through sec sch. Should b able to make even a bad sentence in English.

lol... seems you are talking about a typical village girl here..

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Halib(m): 8:08pm On Apr 14, 2016

for me....am gng for whom I fvckfor me....am gng for whom I fvckfor me....am gng for whom I fvck

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Halib(m): 8:10pm On Apr 14, 2016

[color=#770077]for me....am gng for whom I Bleep

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Fmartin(m): 8:11pm On Apr 14, 2016

Ramanto:

lol... seems you are talking about a typical village girl here..

yea.... One thing i can't let go of her is because, at 21, she WAS still intact.

Though d first guy who rape her (so she claimed) could nt break d hymen.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by 0ubenji(m): 8:11pm On Apr 14, 2016

Hmmm

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Fmartin(m): 8:12pm On Apr 14, 2016

Analysiscorner:

Please, what do you mean by a bad sentence in English?

eg. I does not like the way your talk. grin

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Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Analysiscorner: 8:13pm On Apr 14, 2016

Corleone7:

Sex is everywhere now and any man can get it anywhere. That a lady denies him sex is not enough to make a sensible man think of marrying her. It's true that men could go extra miles to have sex with a new lady but men are gifted in one thing - they can separate SEX from LOVE. Ladies need to concentrate more on what makes them indispensable other than sex... Stop misinterpreting a man's urge. Urge for sex isn't urge for marriage

U have said it all baba .[color=#000099][/color]

The op talked about regular sex from a girlfriend figure. If the man is not interested in any marriage, he should spell it out from the beginning. Many girlfriends that give regular sex to their unmarried boyfriends, do so with eventual marriage at the back of their minds.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by halfricanadian(f): 8:13pm On Apr 14, 2016

Danfuster:

he be like say na you be the diva , Nne.. Come be my asampete

Papa im taken taked tooked tongue

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by godwinasky: 8:14pm On Apr 14, 2016

Fmartin:
Op i dnt tink so.

As fr me, am contemplating abt her illitracy level. If nt, i woul lov to marry her.

Haba Oga!!! If she is a good girl why don't u just touche her up and add value to her life, especially if she is teachable. She should be grateful for that later!

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Fmartin(m): 8:16pm On Apr 14, 2016

godwinasky:

Haba Oga!!! If she is a good girl why don't u just touche her up and add value to her life, especially if she is teachable. She should be grateful for that later!

thanks brother.

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by Danfuster(m): 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2016

halfricanadian:

Papa im taken taked tooked

Abeg... Haven't you heard of "overtaken" "overtake" and "overtook" grin

. You go hear ween cheesy

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by toprealman: 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2016

Galacious1:
I disagree. If she's d 'one' dude is still gonna marry her sex or no sex.

Gbam!

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by toprealman: 8:18pm On Apr 14, 2016

Galacious1:
I disagree. If she's d 'one' dude is still gonna marry her sex or no sex.

Gbam!

Re: Why Most Guys Don't Marry Their Girlfriends... by ourchoice(m): 8:26pm On Apr 14, 2016

Op, with all due respect, all you typed are nonsense!!!

Below are some of the major reasons guys don't marry their girlfriends:

1. Financial delay - when it takes ages for a guy to meet up with his financial needs, his girlfriend will become older and can't wait anymore...at this point, he has no option than to free her to go for a younger girl while working hard to make it financially.

2. When a lady lacks respect - 99% or more of men hate a disrespectful lady!

3. If the girlfriend is so materialistic and demanding!

4. If the girlfriend is idle, unemployed, not employable and doesn't have a skill, only waiting for the guy to marry her and solve all her needs and that of her family; many guys will not marry a girl like this on clear eyes

5. If the girl rejects his faith/religion

6. Tribe

7. If the girl lack manners, don't do domestic chores, complains a lot and nag always - no reasonable man with his head straight will marry such a girl

8. Financial lack - many guys can't marry a girl that has no job, not from a financially buoyant/okay family, don't have a business or skill....so no matter how good the girl maybe, many guys today won't marry her even after dating her for ages, sadly cry

So ladies, try and work to have a means of earning money and be financially productive no matter how small...many guys now don't want to marry an unemployed or broke lady

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