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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by bezimo(m): 1:45am On Apr 19, 2016
It seems someone stole this thread from me who first created it, no thanks to the biased moderators.
Nevertheless its interesting to see more people responding to this issue.

That guy must not take her back.She should go live with her friends who misguided her.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by itstpia8: 1:49am On Apr 19, 2016
bezimo:
It seems someone stole this thread from me who first created it, no thanks to the biased moderators.
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Interesting.

I guess your thread title wasnt catchy like this one and they needed the headline.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by amokeme(f): 1:56am On Apr 19, 2016
"My uncle's place is not good for her health" really?
If she wasn't dating him, where were they going to get shelter before? Ok, he got a girl pregnant, (even if it was true) will smashing his screen "unpregnant" the other lady Such things are painful and hurting no doubt, but please we should learn to sort these things out better.
If I were in her shoes and I hear something like that, ill ask him 1st.he definitely cannot deny such.and if I can't cope with the truth, just leave his life. Simple. Nature will deal with him for you.
Now she doesn't have anywhere to go and obviously doesn't have a job, since she didn't have the wisdom to work, what happened to saving some of the money he gives to her? They will not think of that.
Now, I'm sure if he doesn't accept her, finding another "care taker" will be the next resort. And we all wonder why guys treat women as trash.

My advise to HER is, she should forget the guy (she has already done him enough harm) move on, get a JOB and stop harassing the guy with calls and messages. Imagine asking the mum to beg him angry I can never put my mum through such humiliation sad

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by preggi(m): 1:57am On Apr 19, 2016
I feel and know your pains. Please kindly forgive but move on and find love elsewhere. I once had such experience. She will always regret her actions without you even saying a word or demanding for repair of the damaged car and others.
Break ups are painful but you will heal with time and then open your heart to love and to be loved by another.

Going back to that lady means sudden and a premature death. A word is enough for the...

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by amokeme(f): 1:59am On Apr 19, 2016
bezimo:
It seems someone stole this thread from me who first created it, no thanks to the biased moderators.
Nevertheless its interesting to see more people responding to this issue.

That guy must not take her back.She should go live with her friends who misguided her.
welcome to NL wink

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ForesightLTD: 2:06am On Apr 19, 2016
The story is touching. Lol. The babe is so confused so much so she expresses it on her sms to him. Like somebody mentioned here she's just but 'an empty vessel that doesn't have anything inside'. Silence should have been the best option than overacting in that manner, but in my own opinion I'd rather she be given another chance and then manage her very well considering that her character could easily be read. The devil u know is better than the angel u dont know. So my bro, you've punished her enough, do give her another chance i know she will be the woman you have prayed for. Wish you all the best.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by TheSunSon: 2:15am On Apr 19, 2016
rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.
You think that works for everyman? Try that one with my type na wedding invitation you go receive. Women like this will actually poison him and regret later,if you support this then you likely such a woman.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Mayflowa(m): 3:09am On Apr 19, 2016
Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best

You are right. Anger is a destroyer. She is violent. Once married, she would fight everyone off the husband.

She has no money yet she is living a millionaire's life. Haba! Some girls are really lucky and senseless. If not for anything, be hurt and appreciate him for his care. Every gal has got that stuff o and willing to give.

If I were the man, I would have offer her money to start biz and left her. I once hv a gildfriend I still miss till now, if I offend her, she rather sob than throw any insult at me. I can virtually go Scot free from any nonsense. I began to respect her and love her with all of my being. I loved her for her weakness. I made sure she is never hurt.

I see her husband display her always on all social media and wear t shirt inscribed with " I love my wife". You can't help it. You must fall for her weakness. What a sweet thing

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by egopersonified(f): 3:40am On Apr 19, 2016
Please why is lekki in capital letters? Why is this guy asking if he should take her back when he is an ATM? How much does this side mirror cost that they be smashing like N60 bulb? Guy are you ready to die young because of love? Why over react?

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by samsam2019: 3:57am On Apr 19, 2016
rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.
you and dat winsh lady will wait forever
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by yash33: 4:19am On Apr 19, 2016
My Guy! The same way man get habit: Whether na alcohol,cigar or woman; na d same way woman get character habit. If you wan die quick, take am back. So you mean say ma so she love you reach, just because she hear small rumour she want poison you, Can you imagine wetin she go do if she catch you on top.

But if you love her, then you will be able to go through this experience over and over and over and over again.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by distilledwalex(m): 4:22am On Apr 19, 2016
123CarZ:
Hmmm dis one is strong
Eleyi gidigan
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by distilledwalex(m): 4:33am On Apr 19, 2016
Trust should be the basis of every relationship. If you don't trust your partner then the relationship is like a phone without signal
. You can only play games. I wouldn't even think of taking her back if I am the guy. Fine all women are jealousy .. but not on some baseless rumour. I guess her friend has succeded in her mission.. It's certain the so called friend really wanted to ruin her..

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by victorazy(m): 4:35am On Apr 19, 2016
rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

You funny die grin

Person raigned those curses on me and even threatened to poison me, broke my Gwagon s-mirror and you think I will care? I should be thanking God for delivering me from Karashika grin

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by princemikky001: 4:50am On Apr 19, 2016
herbie27:
There was a clear reason 4 her action so he shld forgive her if he loves her.

She may have input her time and resources to make the relationship work and she loves the guy.... looking at her apology, so on receiving the info that he impregnated some1 else reacting the way she did is inevitable.

Bt wat if he actually impregnated the girl
My dear am not sure u red d text well all she's after is the lekki hux i must tell u

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by tk4rd: 4:50am On Apr 19, 2016
He should report her to the commisioner of police
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Analysiscorner: 4:54am On Apr 19, 2016
HARDDON:



Itz over a month now swittat n he ain't giving no hoot bout her razz arzzz

Even If he wants to take her back, she brings nothing to d table but a lil smelly......... coupled with d threat, breaking of things with no regards n worse of all listening to jealous fake friends that r now lobbying to have him

She is a big liability n d guy just shot off a huge draining pipe. Imagine he rented an apartment for her in lekki Where she leaves with her mum. Obvoiusly he wud hv been caring for d mum too n keeping d gurl's high taste satisfied, these r d things she is more concerned with... her pseudo fame.


Block her from ur life for life Gee!
Warn d security Both @ home n d office that d very day they let her in, they lose their jobs.
U r worth more gee than this cheap riffraff of a crab u tried to wrap with paper to hide her ugly but wud rather she is let out! She can't even spell ! Wora whip!

Different folks manage anger in different ways. Before taking his final decision, the bobo should reflect on what value she has added to his life all these while they were dating.
But for the lady react like that without investigation shows lack of trust on her part.
If eventually the bobo refuses to accept her back, then she has played into the hands of those mischief makers, who might after all be full of deadly ambitions to snatch the bobo from her.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Analysiscorner: 4:56am On Apr 19, 2016
distilledwalex:
Trust should be the basis of every relationship. If you don't trust your partner then the relationship is like a phone without signal
. You can only play games. I wouldn't even think of taking her back if I am the guy. Fine all women are jealousy .. but not on some baseless rumour. I guess her friend has succeded in her mission.. It's certain the so called friend really wanted to ruin her..
Exactly, my dear.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by cold(m): 5:02am On Apr 19, 2016
Phizzlephizz:
She said "I prayed in church for you yesterday for God to TORCH your mind". me I will not forgive her, cause she didn't use the right words when she was angry, now that she's still apologising she's still not using the right words. I no go forgive lailai
Lol..she's actually praying to god to set him alight. That's even a more cogent reason not to take her back.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Honchuks(m): 5:17am On Apr 19, 2016
FORGIVE her, look straight into her eyes and tell her. "GO and sin no more" Chikena! Say GO! and let her go indeed. Gossip and Temper is a bad combination in a woman.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by jabojafa(m): 5:30am On Apr 19, 2016
Dojupyo:
Its best to keep shut when angry.. I understand she might have felt bad, but she said too much.. If the guy has a forgiving heart and truly loves her, he can still take her back.. Most people who say things like this ain't harmful, they are just empty vessels but then if anything happens to the person, they would be held responsible even if they are innocent..

Morale of the story, You can get angry but Silence is the best
she waznt only jst saying harmful things she also became violent up to the extent of distroying the side mirror of a G-wagon. She isnt yet his wife jst a mere girl and hav done all these things. This big red flag not to proceed with this relatnshp any more. For the sake of ur life mbok leave this girl so that u nor go die young.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Nobody: 5:36am On Apr 19, 2016
freshpzy1:
Nice to be here...............hope I will be aving anice time wit ma fellow nairalander

Good to know that even in the village people use the internet
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by franugo(m): 5:39am On Apr 19, 2016
rubsaphy:
MY ADVICE IS FOR THE LADY.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GET HIS ATTENTION. STOP CALLING, PRETEND YOU'RE MOVING ON. WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IN A MONTH HE'LL TRY TO REACH OUT, THEN YOU'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE A CIVILIZED CONVERSATION.

what a childish plan...u actually think this'll work
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by omakay(m): 5:53am On Apr 19, 2016
I think she is being remorse not because of the relationship itself but because of the loss of benefits that came with the relationship i.e the house in Lekki, other benefits.

She greatly stressed it as she compiled her apology note.

#WHENPEOPLELOVEFORTHEWRONGREASONS

#WHENYOULOVEAGUYCOSHEISRICH
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by xxiv(m): 5:58am On Apr 19, 2016
it's very obvious that she wants him for his money and what his money can buy. eg that posh LEKKI apartment (notice how she capitalized LEKKI, it's because she has been oppressing people sortey her autocomplete knows to capitalize that). Notice also how she's more worried about her moving out and being put to shame than she is about the welfare of the guy.

She's just a razz gold digger who couldn't sit on her hands long enough. Imagine feeding, housing and clothing a girl and her MOTHER only for her to do flower pot target practice with your head. Wait till she has a male child for him, she'll one day poison him for inheritance. Once beaten, twice shy.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by mummydirect(f): 6:00am On Apr 19, 2016
ogorwyne:
Violence is neva the answer. If I were a guy in this situation, the babe should say her goodbyes o. This kinda woman, if u ever hurt her in marriage she will maim you, and later start regretting. They don't think straight in anger o.
Helloooooo, it isn't easy handling unfaithfulness in any relationship you know. Yes, she said all that in anger and of course over say things but nonetheless, the girl went too far. In as much as u guys are still dating, no need to fume, I would rather keep mute on hearing that my bf (not husband oooo) impregnated some one, carry out a silent investigation and if found to be true, save as much as i can get from the bobo, try another relationship that would be unknown to him and when I am done saving enough, I will tell him to his face and quit the relationship instead of fuming and killing one self over a guy who obviously isn't worth ones headache, just be mature and quit peacefully, that will leave the guy sober and fearful for the rest of his life. Ladies be wise! My humble take though.

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Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by simplygreat(m): 6:00am On Apr 19, 2016
Mehn in this case eeehhh. Seiously it would be the wisest decision to just allow d gal go. She cant handle issues at all. She may end up killing the man if she hears something next time. The wisest decision 4 d man is to run
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by kachnov(m): 6:00am On Apr 19, 2016
Nope joor
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Ahasuerus2(m): 6:02am On Apr 19, 2016
Forgive what?
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by Ahasuerus2(m): 6:02am On Apr 19, 2016
Even when God said forgive it's not like this.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ofonike: 6:04am On Apr 19, 2016
Bros, plz dont take her back. Did u see d generational abuse she gave to ur family? Just imagine any of your family members read what she said about them, no body from ur place go follow u go marru am. Plz run for your life, there's no guarantee that this won't happen again. Think of when u don marry am finish, ur middle name go become sorry. RUN.
Re: Should He Forgive Her After She Threatened To Poison Him? by ofonike: 6:05am On Apr 19, 2016
omakay:
I think she is being remorse not because of the relationship itself but because of the loss of benefits that came with the relationship i.e the house in Lekki, other benefits.

She greatly stressed it as we compiled her apology note.

#WHENPEOPLELOVEFORTHEWRONGREASONS

#WHENYOULOVEAGUYCOSHEISRICH

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