I have caught my husband at 3 times cheating on me and he always apologise that he has turned a new leave. Our marriage was 7 years last month although I have not been too happy because I don't trust him at all. Am still trying to build tiny trust then yesterday night he blew that off. He went to club and came home with his shirt stained with lipstick and brown powder and when I asked he said he was dancing with a lot of people and didn't know how it got there?
I am so so down. I don't know what to call this?

why is your husband always cheating on you? find out pls...

are u no longer attractive? do u now do mgbeke things?...

cos I don't understand why a man who was so inlove with you about 7_8years ago will just change over night and start fuccking other women...

^^^He didn't just change overnight.He has always been that way.

Op,I don't know what your courtship was like and why you chose to marry him but I can say this guy didn't just become like this after marriage.A Guy who clubs?

You should sit him down and have a deep talk with him about this and see if he is remorseful and is willing to change.I don't think you can try to force him to change however.
You have to ask yourself if this is really what you want and if you will continue this way.

thorpido:
^^^He didn't just change overnight.He has always been that way.

Op,I don't know what your courtship was like and why you chose to marry him but I can say this guy didn't just become like this after marriage.A Guy who clubs?

You should sit him down and have a deep talk with him about this and see if he is remorseful and is willing to change.I don't think you can try to force him to change however.
You have to ask yourself if this is really what you want and if you will continue this way.

Not necessarily so. People pick up habits along the way due to different reasons, including clubbing and womanising. Yes!!!

E.g Have you heard of women who got married as virgins and went haywire after the first 'do'? I still read an anonymous confession this night - babe got married as a vigin not too long ago, now has 7 boyfriends at a go to support her family so she claims.

Kimoni:


Not necessarily so. People pick up habits along the way due to different reasons, including clubbing and womanising. Yes!!!

E.g Have you heard of women who got married as virgins and went haywire after the first 'do'? I still read an anonymous confession this night - babe got married as a vigin not too long ago, now has 7 boyfriends at a go to support her family so she claims.

It's true but rarely so.If there's a change of environment or an acquisition of new friends,he may change.A guy who has always been a committed guy in relationships and never clubs won't just start after marriage.Very rare.

The virgin part,once the 'forbidden fruit' is tasted,there will always be a desire to taste more.You won't find a virgin with 7 boyfriends.The one who will keep many boyfriends has to be the one who has lost the virginity.
You can only tell how much of a flirt a lady(or guy) would be after she's lost the virginity.

If you are just looking for a name to call his actions, you can call it waywardness and irresponsibility, remember to protect yourself if you still like to be in his company.

strangeworld:
I have caught my husband at 3 times cheating on me and he always apologise that he has turned a new leave. Our marriage was 7 years last month although I have not been too happy because I don't trust him at all. Am still trying to build tiny trust then yesterday night he blew that off. He went to club and came home with his shirt stained with lipstick and brown powder and when I asked he said he was dancing with a lot of people and didn't know how it got there?
I am so so down. I don't know what to call this?

You have put your well-being in the hands of someone who doesn't care how you feel. It's time to change it.

marriage isnt an exam but people keep cheating back to the topic....leave his sorry ass asap!

DLondonboiy:
why is your husband always cheating on you? find out pls...

are u no longer attractive? do u now do mgbeke things?...

cos I don't understand why a man who was so inlove with you about 7_8years ago will just change over night and start fuccking other women...

So its her fault he's cheating?


Iru nko nko

Please protect yourself when it's time fie intimac y.
Stand your ground on getting STI tests done if not na you go suffer am.

Since he is doing it repeatedly, you need to inform an elderly figure in the family, so if anything happens in the future no one wld point fingers at you, calling you a heartless wife when they didn't suffer with you.

Praying for him only would only work if he is willing to you.

I no get advice, I wrote that out of a family experience.