I have caught my husband about 3 times cheating on me and he always apologise that he has turned a new leave. Our marriage was 7 years last month although I have not been too happy because I don't trust him at all. Am still trying to build tiny trust then friday night he blew that off. He went to club and came home with his shirt stained with lipstick and brown powder and when I asked he said he was dancing with a lot of people and didn't know how it got there, later he said it must have been when he was dancing that it rubbed up on him. Although he has been apologising but I didn't accept. I can't take it anymore.
I am so so down. I don't know what to call this?

Please only matured comments.

Uuhhmm ave u threatened im once dat u will pack away from his aouz?? If nt den i suggest u shuld do so if he truly luvs u he will comply.......nd by d way if u tell im u wanna pack away nd he begs u bt he didn't stop den show im wat u mean.......b4 he cums back someday u shuld ave packed ur luggages @ d entrance of d house wen he cums tell im u are living,of course he will beg u bt tell im dat will b d last apology u will take afta dat u are goin to leave......just threaten im wit dat nd see ao it goes........Gud luck

Our husbands will always cheat on us. Forgive him and move on. You can't win the fight either ways we lose.

He was only dancing ooo... if you could actually dance or learn to have fun... or gone with him to the club and not forming busy you wouldn't be typing this...

Anyways... your husband loves you... that's all...

Jokers

@youngaz I have actually packed my load today, I op to take some time off from d wedding and work. I will call him to inform him Ltr in d day. I need sometime to clear my head.

@ rheether, I know that we can't win the fight that is y it hurts d more. Yeah I know he will come home and begging and I will accept because I don't have a choice. But for now I want to take a walk.

@ipopAlomo it was because of people like u that I said that I want matured response only. I never formed busy.

you must have noticed this attitude in him before you married him.

you didn't state whether you have kids or not. irrespective, stay in your marriage and work it out with him.

speak with his parents, pastor, suggest counselling for both of you.

anything to make it work.

in the meanwhile don't let him infect you with HIV o.