, Living for others in an intense emotional attachment , living a life of total devotedness for others,life that is sacrificial,benevonent.ie when you have the quality of not putting yourself first but being willing to give your time,property, money,effort,power etc ( being unselfish
) just for others in an esteem manner,even living your life for a friend!!! like our lord Jesus did, just imagine the love! your mum has for you,dissatifying herself just to satisfy you.When selfishness is out love reins.Unfortunately all human have natural tendency to be selfish including I.