@outstrip

    Thanks for your insight and I respect your opinion. ( he wanted a kid) , Futher more I wont make excuses, I had a few miss judgments in my youth but by god's grace I’m am kept by the blood, I’m happy, healthy,  my kids are healthy and we don’t lack anything. (So many young women w/kids no/kids are so worst off), it is so easy for folks to pre judge you by your pass situation,  However, the right thing to do is judge by how you choose to continue your journey, IM proud of my family, sure I could have taken the easy way out and aborted my son,  women do it here everyday, however I chose to give life and I have no regrets, as for my marriage I didn’t expect it to end but I was a young girl (17 when we met) (19 when we married) and I didn’t make the best decision….life goes on