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ok by petsolo15(m): 9:51pm On Jun 07, 2016
ok
Re: ok by RexKexMilann: 9:55pm On Jun 07, 2016
You can stop all those. You are still neck deep in it because you want it that way.

Until you are ready to stop, enjoy yourself!
Re: ok by BiafraBushBoy(m): 9:59pm On Jun 07, 2016
Millions of guys are like that too...
Don't stay alone, and always sleep early...
Best way to avoid temptation is to flee..
Re: ok by favourboy1(m): 10:01pm On Jun 07, 2016
go to sambisa forest in time it will stop there undecided

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Re: ok by ronald4lif(m): 10:08pm On Jun 07, 2016
Do you have a girlfriend? Its the relationship sexual?
Re: ok by jide219(m): 10:10pm On Jun 07, 2016
I strongly advise against boredom, it's the truth because am a living witness
Re: ok by ifex370(m): 10:35pm On Jun 07, 2016
Read your bible
Re: ok by Cutehector(m): 10:40pm On Jun 07, 2016
People who masturbate lack female friends offline.
Re: ok by GoldenJAT(m): 10:41pm On Jun 07, 2016
u av admitted u av a problem, which is a step in d right direction..... now have this positive mindset that u surely overcome this habit... with God and self conviction... u come out victorious.
Re: ok by SweetSureboy(m): 10:42pm On Jun 07, 2016
Only Jesus can help you. Disregard any human efforts that anyone would recommend. Only Jesus can save one from EVERY sinful act. So call upon Him and let Him take charge of your life henceforth. 'If the son of man shall set you free, ye shall be free indeed'

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Re: ok by raziboi(m): 1:35am On Jun 08, 2016
petsolo15:
for the past six years, I have been masturbating and visiting brothels regularly
I have tried several times to stop but I cant. most times I always contemplate suicide after the act. I am really devastated cos I don't think I can continue living like this any more. this addiction has drained my resources, health and even my social and love life.
how do I stop these addictions? no insults pls,!


determination....
always b busy
hang out with people
pray to God
learn to control your self



thank you!!!
Re: ok by Daniel2289(m): 1:44am On Jun 08, 2016
My brother u are not alone, nd u can't stop dis alone. Becos masturbation is a spiritual thing. I wish u never start it. But Since u have decided to stop it, I advice u to see ur spiritual father, so dat he told u wat to do, or he will organize a deliverance 4 u. GOODLUCK.
Re: ok by ihimiray(m): 1:55am On Jun 08, 2016
Nigger get yourself a girlfriend....if u crave so much for sexual pleasure, or better still occupy ur mind with something more productive and delete all those porn video on ur fone..
Re: ok by Dejideji1(m): 9:20am On Jun 08, 2016
Op, you didn't state your age but i believe you must be in your early twenties. Masturbation is not uncommon among men within that age range. It's as a result of high levels of testosterone produced within those periods. But As you grow older the production will decline. A significant reduction will occur when men reach 40 and above

Considering your situation, something has to be done urgently because it has become a compulsive behavior for you. And this is not good for your health. Like others have said, it will require your determination and this is where the issue of "will power" Comes in. I know it's not going to be easy. But it's possible.

A lot of men have weak will power in avoiding sexually related matters. But if you determine sincerely and pray to God about it you will be free from the boundage. To build your will power, do the following :

1. avoid any pornographic material

2. Avoid being lonely most of the time, go out to visit friends and mix with people.

3. Exercise regularly to channel your energy into other useful things

4. Engage your self in a healthy relationship with the opposite sex. (this may sound contradictory since you are trying to avoid them hence prevent lustful thoughts that will trigger urges. But the fact is that you can't do without seeing them, they are all around us unless you want to lock your self up)

5. Always ensure that you keep your self busy. If you can't find something doing, play games, if you are not a game fan, get a book and read.

6.Finally, pray to God to crown your efforts.
Believe me it will work and you will be free

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