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I Will Never Call This Girl Again, I Have Deleted Her Digits.... / Deleted Topic! / deleted (2) (3) (4)
Deleted. by Eberay(f): 9:58pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
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Re: Deleted. by Seun(m): 10:21pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
Why did you marry him knowing the kind of man he is? I'm so sorry about this. |
Re: Deleted. by LuvAfrican(f): 10:33pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
I'm sorry about your situation I know the pain of being lied to and cheated on, Just as the other poster replied, why marry in the first place?? obviously he is still in love with his ex because he is considering her feelings b4 urs, (he is just telling her what she want to hear) Maybe he is just doing the same to you, Apart from that you guys are married so you have a few choices, #1 you can go to her as a women and ask her if there is something B/T them, or…#2 you can seek the advice of his elders just as you mentioned, however there should be standards set, if he wanted her he should have stayed w/her, however he married you, and therefore….you should respectfully demand respect as his wife, I really hopes this helps…, good luck!!! And god bless. |
Re: Deleted. by kellorah: 11:04pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
You married him hoping he would change?! [One of the STUPID mistakes some women make] I don't think he will ever change; esp as the whole thing has gone on for too long. (BTW, how come he didn't marry his ex? Why did he decide to marry u? Was he forced into the marriage? ) Speak to his family. . . . or just divorce his sorry ass! Don't put up with it anylonger, hoping he will change in the future. Good luck. |
Re: Deleted. by Nobody: 11:18pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
@poster thats what happen when 2 people who barely know each other get married, they discover the REAL person thereafter and wonder why they didnt saw it coming. (no matter how long you guys dated, you didnt know the person you married) you already knew before marriage that he was no good and went on marrying him anyway. your husband has already stated that he will NOT cut off links with that girl so i suggest you accept the situation AND the fact that he is two timing you for the sake of your marriage or leave him . . . . . . . . but reporting him to his family etc is not going to improve anything, it might actually make the relationship worst. |
Re: Deleted. by TOPE20001(f): 11:21pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
Eberay: Yikes That is messed up man Is there any guy out there that is still faithful and honest? I doubt it highly |
Re: Deleted. by posakosa(m): 11:23pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
@ OP did they force you to get married ? did they put a gun thru your head ? |
Re: Deleted. by posakosa(m): 11:24pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
Sorry but his best friend's toto sweet pass ur own, u berra start fasting and praying, Just make sure u dont' have children anytime soon, just in case something happens, I don't think he will change even if you get pregnant ook. |
Re: Deleted. by TOPE20001(f): 11:26pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
posakosa: lol, stop addind petrol to fire some men r just bleeping assholes jare chase anything in skirts
true, i agree |
Re: Deleted. by chei: 11:31pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
yes. all men are shameless pigs that are not to be trusted. |
Re: Deleted. by chei: 11:32pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
yes. all men are shameless pigs that are not to be trusted. |
Re: Deleted. by posakosa(m): 11:33pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: Can I call you topsy ? But i think someone said this already, often times women think that marriage or pregnancy will someone change a man, but many a times this is NOT the case, She needs to be patient, if she wants to stay married, she rushed in, now she needs to exercise the patience she did not exercise initially, she doesn't want to rush in and rush out, Im more than certain she was pressured into marriage. |
Re: Deleted. by posakosa(m): 11:34pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
chei: Pls this is not a male bashing thread. Women too need to shine their eyes. |
Re: Deleted. by TOPE20001(f): 11:38pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
posakosa: Yes ke
I actually have a friend who is in this predicament . . . .altho she claims the pregnancy was planned but i dont buy it all . . . . .if ur marriage is already strained, having a child will only make it worse
True that |
Re: Deleted. by Gabry(f): 11:51pm On Aug 27, 2009 |
Seun: Poster, there you go. Exactly like what Seun says. . . My bf needs someone to assist him in his work and he got this girl to help him but its like instead of business, she gets personal with him and he told her off that she is fired cause he does not like this kinda personal things. And than soon his ex wanted to work with him and he was like NO WAYYY! He told me that these kinda girls are dangerous to even hang out with and the next thing you know, you are in deep shit because of them |
Re: Deleted. by TheSeeker(m): 12:06am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Someone fed you with the wrong impression that when he's married, he'll be yours and won't flirt around. A grave mistake right there, Mrs. |
Re: Deleted. by TOPE20001(f): 12:09am On Aug 28, 2009 |
TheSeeker: Gbam but even the ex is nasty hoe, some women sef he left u to marry some1 else n u still shagging him, how low is that. ahn ahn |
Re: Deleted. by kellorah: 12:12am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Who knows, the ex herself might be a married woman! Some people are just disgusting!! And errr, Eberay, I hope he hasn't infected u with some nasty shiiii. You might wanna check urself. Start using condoms if u haven't already, of just don't sleep with him anymore. (How can u, anyway? Knowing he's still shagging his ex? Ew Ew Ew Ew Ew!!!!) |
Re: Deleted. by TOPE20001(f): 12:13am On Aug 28, 2009 |
kellorah: i concur |
Re: Deleted. by TheSeeker(m): 12:15am On Aug 28, 2009 |
TOPE2000!:The guy's got a very sweet, long and penetrative kokomycin |
Re: Deleted. by kellorah: 12:18am On Aug 28, 2009 |
It doesn't have to be about his di ck tho. I mean, the ex could just be jealous that the dude married this chick instead of her, and just wants to be horrible to his wife. For all we know, the dude could be the shittiest f^ck EVER. |
Re: Deleted. by daduke2k(m): 12:31am On Aug 28, 2009 |
U knew b4 u agreed 2 mary him dat he was a self-servicer huh? U are in deep shit hon, but hey find a guy and equal d balance |
Re: Deleted. by TheSeeker(m): 12:36am On Aug 28, 2009 |
kellorah:Yes, that's a point right there. It baffles me though the way some women use their heads. I was reading up a post on a thread earlier today and this girl was saying her ex boyfriend was stupid because he didn't know she slept severally with his closest friend. I laughed uncontrollably because between her and her ex boyfriend, who's the stupidest? The level at which some women make use of their brain is demeaning; they think like pigs. |
Re: Deleted. by CrudeOil2(m): 12:46am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Hey, stop being too emotional over this issue. Divorce him and start a new chapter. okay? |
Re: Deleted. by CrudeOil2(m): 12:46am On Aug 28, 2009 |
and all men don't lie. |
Re: Deleted. by Eberay(f): 12:52am On Aug 28, 2009 |
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Re: Deleted. by daduke2k(m): 12:55am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Wot are u insinuating? |
Re: Deleted. by posakosa(m): 12:56am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Eberay: He loves you and you love him now why are you here complaining, and pls do not blame the girl, her toto must be sweet because you know about it and u aint doing nothing and i know your husband is NOT 5 years old, He's made a conscious decision to enjoy both of you, at least u're the first wife. |
Re: Deleted. by kellorah: 1:05am On Aug 28, 2009 |
Ur statement "and I know he loves me too" doesn't sound too convincing. He loves u, yet he still goes back to his ex? ? ? Is that what love is?! Please use ur brains. . . .leave ur heart for now [cos I know the heart never lies, or so people have said]. Get him to stop, or leave him. However, if u let him carry on like this he'll b the happy one. . . .while u'll b the one always crying about it. Use ur head. |
Re: Deleted. by daduke2k(m): 1:12am On Aug 28, 2009 |
If u want 2 cry go on,bt if it doesnt help 2 make him 2 stp ,take my advice cheat urself |
Re: Deleted. by bbngozi(f): 5:03am On Aug 28, 2009 |
daduke2k: remember that two wrong does not make it right, just because he's cheating doesn't mean she have too cheat too. some people have dignity!! well there's no need for me to repeat what ppl already said, it was a bad mistake when you saw it coming!! tell him that he needs to chill or u will leave him, simple and short . but u have to stand by your words i understand that u love ur husband, but how long will u continue to endure his ignorance! i myself had to end a relationship with a man i loved dearly, i cried for like the whole day, but is something i needed to do in other to live a long and a happy live, it won't be easy, but u have to make ur choice and fast, the longer you wait , the harder it would be! |
Re: Deleted. by AIRMARSHA: 8:14am On Aug 28, 2009 |
half bread is better than none just make sure he don't infect u |
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