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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:45pm On Jun 14, 2016
Temptee101:
You must be related to Lair Mohammad or suffering his syndrome

You are retarded...just because you date girls that leech and drain your meager earnings you think every girl is like that. My parents raised me to be independent and contented with whatever I have. I am gainfully employed and dont need a boyfriend to pay for my needs when I'm not married to him.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ferome: 10:46pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.The truth is that u can not make a girl happy by given her all her need bcas true happiness come from God.if God has given her happiness then tell her to ask fot it.there is always someone that is more richer than u so don't go bankrupt for any girl
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ofexpryz(m): 10:46pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
and u tink taking her bak wholly is spending all his money on her?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by omohjesu(m): 10:48pm On Jun 14, 2016
Buh who all dis don epp nau? undecided sad undecided

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ferome: 10:48pm On Jun 14, 2016
The truth is that u can not make a girl happy by given her all her need bcas true happiness come from God.if God hasn't given her happiness then tell her to ask fot it.there is always someone that is more richer than u so don't go bankrupt for any girl
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.[/quote]
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by babyfaceafrica: 10:52pm On Jun 14, 2016
The mistake Op made was taking her back......
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Noela12(f): 10:52pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
u may love ur babe with all ur heart but u have to love her with ur senses as well. ur girl is money conscious and such person cannot stay with u if d going gets bad.. reduce d way u spend on her even when u have billions of naira,spend on her necessarily and wisely.. check d level of love she has for u by not spending on her for 2months.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Vikky014(f): 10:53pm On Jun 14, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
grin still trying to figure how this is news undecided
As in eh...dumb threads evry where. hahahahaha
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Ourboss: 10:54pm On Jun 14, 2016
2014, 2015 & now 2016 ....... still calling her gf. Maybe she is getting frustrated. Change her identity pls.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by willibounce1(m): 10:55pm On Jun 14, 2016
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alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

She has told you the plain truth. She is managing you. If you ever go broke, she'll dump u like a piece of shii..t.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by tomzman: 10:55pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
Guy, are you sure you are not under a spell or something? Abi ki laa ti pe iru eleyii eyin ara NL You better seek deliverance, man up, forget her mum and send that gold digger out of your life ASAP before she destroys your family and destiny.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by akinsmyk(m): 10:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

we're the same on this. Like you stole my story. Mine is just a bit complex.

Can't count the no of times she had broken up coz of quarrels yet came back begging all times.

She say lotta tinz too which made me scared of ma future with her. She's got anger problems, I don't wanna masked with emotions. This is a lady I spend on even more than ma family members.

When we quarrels, she says there is no big deal in what I'v done and that she'll pay me back all I'v done in multiple folds. Its always hurting and funny when sh3 says this though she make up later that she said all that coz of anger.

No matter how angry I am, I watch what I say but she call me different unprintable names. Says she wished she had a gun and might shoot me for pissing her off.

The day she said that, I had began to doubt ma marriage to her. I love ma life

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ohluoba01(m): 10:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
Men u are dem right..... cool cool cool
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 10:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
[quote author=aprilwise post=46578623][/quote]
Exactly dear! For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
peerless0012:


Geez! You are still an AFC. You need to learn how to deal with women generally.. If you like give her half of your father's properties, she will still give you headaches..

There are simple rules and techniques you are not aware of... I tell you today the day you realize that is the day you are set free..

You need to contact Ilegend and HARDDON as soon as possible.. Those guys will change your story in few minutes.

Dealing with women is not my problem, in fact those guys you mentioned are learners when I was still in the game. I was a player before I called it quits and decided to get serious. I know she's a bad girl too but we both decided to get serious. She's not a bad person judging by her character. I let my guards down because it's a different ball game entirely. We have been together for 6 months now and we have sex twice almost every day. Her only problem is the hole she drilled in my bank account.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by NICSEGS: 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
True talk my Brother.
bakynes:
You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by chelseababy(f): 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
The op is forming boss because the girl came to apologise,For those of you judging d gal,hw sure are you that d op didnt say worse. Do not judge a person until u av hrd frm both parties.I rest my case.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ominiriches2016(m): 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
Girls with their wahala. Sometimes, I dey ask myself watin Satan put for our body were person no go fit control am. Abi na prick, or na to feel among the mature and adult folk. With all these their silly behavior, that's why me I not dey keep a girl. When I see u, I nak u akpako well well so that if the thing hungry u again, you go remember were u get the last one. I thank my creator for big and long cucumber cock. Guy, u beta learn hw to nak dat girl akpako wella. She no go said that gibberish again. Thank me later. Or visit my blog.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by hardbody: 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
sukkot:
bros long time. leave small change for ya boys make we manage am

Unto managing things na

Nothing do you.

We are still here and we are still managing

You have been off the radar for a while or I have not been looking for you at the right places

Stay outta trouble

Peace
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 14, 2016
Funny though...


Babe was managing Boo the way ''Mancity'' managed ''Balotelli''...


Sorry brother, buh she meant those words otherwise she wont have used it if she knew the implications...


I wont accuse all the ladies though, buh 89% of em aint satisfied with yo input in their lives.. They believe Men thrown their way at a particular point in their lives are supposed to take care of their ery need otherwise, they give him the red card..
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Codes151(m): 11:00pm On Jun 14, 2016
I once sent my bf this! I was angry just cuz I went to his gmail n saw a girls number on his frequent contacts! We been dating since 2012. I was angry! We are still going strong. Forgive n forget. I did this cus I was angry and jealous.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 14, 2016
UIA04:

You must be joking your dad is a billionaire

Sister, I poured my heart out to you. I don't know you and you don't know me , why should I lie? I just have a soft heart and don't want to hurt her tho she can't hurt me because I have been hurt too many times before. I'm used to it. I jokingly told her about her love for money and she got angry knowing well that it's the truth.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by sukkot: 11:01pm On Jun 14, 2016
hardbody:


Unto managing things na

Nothing do you.

We are still here and we are still managing

You have been off the radar for a while or I have not been looking for you at the right places

Stay outta trouble

Peace
my brother I have been everywhere. Good to see you again. I trust all is going well wink
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by lieutenantHaven: 11:01pm On Jun 14, 2016
[quote author=eiBADAn post=46563066]

Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I mus[color=#990000][/color]t say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to d

U re a fool broda..I am so sorry to say this. And sooner or later you wil find out why
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by sukkot: 11:02pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Sister, I poured my heart out to you. I don't know you and you don't know me , why should I lie? I just have a soft heart and don't want to hurt her tho she can't hurt me because I have been hurt too many times before. I'm used to it. I jokingly told her about her love for money and she got angry knowing well that it's the truth.
arakunrin yi, you need to be cleansed with koboko and holy ghost fire. make dem koboko the mugu out of your body
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 11:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
ofexpryz:
and u tink taking her bak wholly is spending all his money on her?
Nope! But being the way they use to be before. Relationships are not always rosy, there are good and bad times and that includes having misunderstanding too. And if it can't be the way it were before, then what's the point? You both can path ways rather than managing each other.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Anijay1212(m): 11:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.
Dear God let this dude be joking or else if i catch him i will beat the evil spirit terrorising him out of him.Thanks.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by UIA04(f): 11:04pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Sister, I poured my heart out to you. I don't know you and you don't know me , why should I lie? I just have a soft heart and don't want to hurt her tho she can't hurt me because I have been hurt too many times before. I'm used to it. I jokingly told her about her love for money and she got angry knowing well that it's the truth.

Are you a lawyer?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by loshybab(m): 11:06pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
You are a typical example of what a warri guy wud call 'ofrupepe'

U jst legbere soteh d babe don colonize ur lifecycle......

U dey shame me say we be d same specie (men)

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by karryn(f): 11:06pm On Jun 14, 2016
ISSorite, iyaf heaR u
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by tolux247(m): 11:08pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

She is just after ur father wealth... dont try apply for Visa for her.. its d best time to let her go..
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by slevin: 11:08pm On Jun 14, 2016
@eibadan, addiction to a bitch can fvck with your mind, health, scary enough even your money.. you have a disease, chronic bitch dependecy syndrome. but the good news is that there is a trial drug, although human trials wont commence till next month. we've only had 75 % success rate on chimps... hang in there

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