NevetsIbot:
I have no problem with the wait till marriage... Buh for the ''sex is a priviledge for the husband''.... That's where I disagree with.


Sex, both inside and outside marriage is a privilege for both genders.... the girl wan say she no get orgasm ni or that she didnt enjoy it Turns out that the way women are wired, the enjoy sex more... So if at all we're to call sex a privilege fot one gender... It will be a privilege for women....

Oh! we had a misunderstanding.

I meant sex is the privilege of a married man not a boyfriend.
I know it's a pleasure enjoyed by both.
I think it could be enjoyed by some women more but I think it's individual specific,gender notwithstanding.

KingCheezyPuff:
Oh! we had a misunderstanding.

I meant sex is the privilege of a married man not a boyfriend.
I know it's a pleasure enjoyed by both.
I think it could be enjoyed by some women more but I think it's individual specific,gender notwithstanding.

NevetsIbot:
whatever jor... These typa topics bore me.

.Then stop fighting me on em!

...hey,I think I know you from a time back
You that guy I use my pick up lines on?

KingCheezyPuff:
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.Then stop fighting me on em!

...hey,I think I know you from a time back
You that guy I use my pick up lines on?

NevetsIbot:
hahahaha.... pick up lines on me! My former moniker was Tombravo tho.... I believe I used pick up lines for you instead.... Then you took me out to dinner. Remember

...*No. I really used pickup lines on a guy on NL.
I was playing of course ...but it worked!

Aviero:
Guys who say all a lady has to offer is just seexx are just stupiid, they've been attracting only their type all along.

Presently, i don't think i can survive without my girlfriend. She does almost everything for me, and has somewhat made life easier for me. And she's Nigerian.

Venzal:
Hello, I found a lot of fault with what you've written, even though I get the whole gist you are trying to pass out.

However, I am very concerned with this part of your post which I have 'quoted'. FYI, guys didn't just jump to the conclusion that all a girl has to offer is sex. It is what they've experienced that begot such notions.

These days you'd be hard pressed it to find a girl who can engage in meaningful conversation on a wide variety of topics. All most of 'em know about is Telemundo. They can tell you the name of every Korean actor. They can tell you the year those actors were born, they can even tell you who the great grand fathers of those actors are.

They know every shawarma spot in the neighborhood. They know the latest clothes, shoes, bags and all sorts of materialistic things. And they are ready to offer their bodies for sex so they can acquire these things and show off to their equally slow-witted friends. This is a typical 21st century lady. And the truth is all they have to offer is sex!

So stop saying some guys are shallow minded in calling a spade a spade.

NB: I am open to corrections and criticisms.

Laveda:

Lol yeah..
Purified.

KingCheezyPuff:
...*No. I really used pickup lines on a guy on NL.
I was playing of course ...but it worked!

KingCheezyPuff:
...*No. I really used pickup lines on a guy on NL.
I was playing of course ...but it worked!

hibiscus76:
Yeah true, most of us mistake generosity for f00lishness from the guys..but it's the same with guys naa haba.... imagine a lady that offers her body to you to handle anyway you want all free of charge, bros truth is most guys who kiss and tell will tag her osho free..that word is more painful than tagging a lady prosti.tute

I concur (and I won't defend the guys on that)
I know I won't be happy if am at the receiving end of such treatment, hence I learnt a long time ago to never kiss and tell
#"BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORD" Gandi

hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!![/b]

hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!![/b]

hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!![/b]

BeastAmbition:
MOE! Bills over any fu*cken sh!t! f*uck the p*ussies! f*uck the bi*tches! fu*ck the p*ussy assniggaz!


You exist only for men sexual gratifications and procreation, all other things is secondary.

Venzal:
Hello, I found a lot of fault with what you've written, even though I get the whole gist you are trying to pass out.

However, I am very concerned with this part of your post which I have 'quoted'. FYI, guys didn't just jump to the conclusion that all a girl has to offer is sex. It is what they've experienced that begot such notions.

These days you'd be hard pressed it to find a girl who can engage in meaningful conversation on a wide variety of topics. All most of 'em know about is Telemundo. They can tell you the name of every Korean actor. They can tell you the year those actors were born, they can even tell you who the great grand fathers of those actors are.

They know every shawarma spot in the neighborhood. They know the latest clothes, shoes, bags and all sorts of materialistic things. And they are ready to offer their bodies for sex so they can acquire these things and show off to their equally slow-witted friends. This is a typical 21st century lady. And the truth is all they have to offer is sex!

So stop saying some guys are shallow minded in calling a spade a spade.

NB: I am open to corrections and criticisms.

vicky6855:
I understand your point... But you seem inexperienced... (I am sorry to say that)....

Now lets start...

Guys have a description of girls they will know can only provide sex... Like the ones who are used to leggings, so much makeup, bumshots and all that..
then think of girl who wear mostly skirts and blouse and never allow an inch of their bodies to be opened.... Men see this girls as marriage materials...

Other than blaming guys that they made girls gold-diggers... Blame us ladies, that got no self - control and no say...
We depend on men since our bodies can make them go wild... We do so much to please them so that they can give us money to buy irrelevant things (big phones that we can barely operate, plait hair styles that we remove in the next how many weeks)...

All this things presents that picture in front of men... There is this guy that was dating a lady I know and he was spending on her without asking for sex... Until his friends brought him back to his senses.. (He had already spent more than #100,000 on the girl and for what.... buying bags, shoes, makeup, cream, recharge cards and subscriptions)... are those not irrelevant..

So sissy, instead of blaming men.. Blame yourselve and try to build youselve...

Men now know how to play the game.... So you can blame them for playing smart
A huge shame to womanhood-you are!
The same way we attract guys for sex with our dressing is the same way they attract us with their lavish lifestyle. Stop being myiopic . there should be gender equality in this 21st century.
So cream, make up et all aren't necessary for a woman? Take care of your body in moderation. I hope to see a picture of how haggard you may look denying yourself of basic needs a girl should get.
I am not promoting frivolities or lasciviousness, but saying the truth.
My mantra in life is too Enjoy life and fear God

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Momoney77:





Honestly am a little late here, but just to be clear, is the OP trying to say that Women don't have sexual urges or is she trying tell us all that women don't ever initiate sex when in a relationship with their boyfriends.

Laveda:
Nice one, but then I don't totally agree with you..

Why should a girl feel cause she had sex with a certain dude he's supposed to take care of her every need? I mean they both enjoyed it..

A relationship should be a two way thing and not the girl solely depending on the dude for her every need, no way!!! I don't support that.. In as much as I don't like some guys seeing females as sex objects I wouldn't Also want us to make it a must that a guy should Care for our every need cause of sex.

hibiscus76:
[b]Wonder why guys keep hammering on ladies being gold-diggers or being over demanding. This trend has been on for so long and I mean majority of ladies have always been parasitic to the male folks and the guys know about this.
But what can be expected of us when all you want from us is sex, sex and more sex? Some shallow minded guys have already made conclusions that all a girl can offer is sex and nothing else.
When guys patronize who.res, they pay for pleasure and the fun is limited to when your time expires with them..it isn't like that when you have a girlfriend(for.most guys that can't do without sex though) she doesn't give you limits even though you're not married to her yet and you want it for free? Nah..youll definitely pay for damages naa.
You want a relationship devoid of asking and spending? Try a NO SEX relationship and you'll both be happy..its mutual..no sex, no money.

Some guys will start relating this post to my personal life, I'll be pleased to tell you that I have strong principles..NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. ##Teamvirginitymatters#...was just saying or erring my view to the issue of guys calling us girls gold diggers and parasites..and we depending on them for everything..a guy who spends so much on a lady that does nothing in return for him feels very insecure and on the other hand a girl that let's a guy take advantage of her(that's how I view sex before marriage) has the feeling that the guy should pay her bills and give her the maintenance she needs, this,many guys see as too demanding. So, the solution is simple..stay away from her body and you'll not be indebted to her financially, emotionally and otherwise and we'll move forward in our lives..guys can be able to save for rainy days and after all the hustle ,settle down with a woman(brand new pvssy, totally unused) and the issue of distrust and infidelity will be far from relationships...if you can't do this as a guy, sleeping around with women in your youthful days, where then would you find the morally inclined women to marry? Think about it!!![/b]

hibiscus76:
nope didn't say that.. we're cleared right?