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11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by hyman9ja(m): 12:45pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
So you have gotten past the initial dating stage and are now in a “relationship.” This can be the best or worst part of your life depending on how you proceed. I am coming at this topic with a five year (and counting) relationship with many highs and lows. Learn from my mistakes and triumphs and do not fall into these common relationship mistakes. 1. Losing the romance in the relationship is one of the key reasons why relationships fail. It is easy to become complacent and slack on making an effort for romance. The truth is, relationships are work. Not that you won’t have any fun along the way, but you need to remember it takes a focused effort to be romantic with your partner. 2. Trying to control our significant other. Many of us either have control issues or things that the other person does that drive us crazy. Both of these scenarios can lead to us wanting to control or comment on every move the other person makes. Think about it though, would you like someone telling you what to do every waking minute? You are not this person’s parent. If he/she is a grown adult, treat them like one 3. Expecting perfection. We are all human. We all make mistakes. Do not hold your significant other to some unrealistically high expectation. This is especially hard for those of us who hold unrealistically high expectations for ourselves, but that’s another topic altogether. 4. Avoiding confrontation. Fighting is not the way most of us want to spend our time, so it can be tempting to just brush all of the problems under the rug. The flaw with that plan is that the problems collect and multiply. This will ultimately end up in an explosive argument, or a parting of ways with the other person baffled as to what went wrong. Communication is huge in any relationship and should not be avoided. 5. Fighting about everything. On the opposite end of the spectrum, do not make everything an argument. Think about all of the problems you have with your partner and really consider whether these are deal breakers or if you can build a bridge and get over them...Read More Here>>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/11-common-mistakes-in-relationships.html Related Article >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/2016/06/things-to-avoid-when-you-are-in-serious.html#more More here >>> http://lovefac3..com.ng/ Follow us and Like Our Page Facebook.com/LoveFactory Twitter: @lovefac3 Whatsapp +234806684350 |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
* Asking for too much in a relationship * Being overly possessive *Cold treatment And lots more.... Nice write up op 1 Like |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by donbenedict(m): 2:09pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Always thinkin there are perfect people out thr |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by hyman9ja(m): 2:18pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: Tanx, "Nice Additions u have der" ![]() |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
hyman9ja:you are welcome . ![]() |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:diva can i ask u 4 a favour? |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Julietcutie(f): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
comparing other relationships with yours is one big relationship mistake to avoid |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by hyman9ja(m): 4:04pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Julietcutie: Good one u have der... ![]() |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:What's the favour saint |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
SAINTSAMURAII:no one. Waiting for the guys edition ![]() |
Re: 11 Common Mistakes In Relationships That You Can Avoid by Nobody: 8:48am On Jun 16, 2016 |
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