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Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 11:52pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
countess times, I have seen, heard and listened to people, especially ladies say they were used and dumped. but what they wouldn't tell is what preceded the breakup. it was either after the two partner had knowledge of each other, sometimes almost immediately, other times sharp guys will give the breakup sometime, looking for the perfect excuse. I once met a lady and she said it's a no sex relationship or nothing( I am sure naysayers will say she is getting it elsewhere, forget that, we still have sincere ladies that will be ok with one guy and not be promiscuous), I enjoyed the relationship why it lasted, though I travelled very far from where she stayed and the long distance relationship wasn't working. She has greater qualities that far outweigh sex - that made her self-worth soar. When you can't tell a guy same, it's either you can't do without sex or you have nothing to offer in the relationship. A guy will stay with you if he has seen far greater attribute that will stand the test of time and he will surely want to grow old with you (though it's hard to find one that would be sincere about a no sex relationship - good things don't come easy and it's worth waiting for). I hardly hear a lady talk of a guy that dumped her when she has not had sex with him. So why can't sex be left out in relationship, so that no one will cry out that she has been used and dumped, though, I am yet to see a guy say he was used and dumped by a lady. The only thing that was used and dumped is the sex offered. i think that anyone that sees a future with you wouldn't back out when no sex is your condition. Any day, any time, i believe in the power of a no sex relationship, no one will cry foul, and hardly is anyone hurt. 4 Likes |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Thanos(m): 12:25am On Dec 07, 2016 |
all lies |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by mannobi(m): 12:31am On Dec 07, 2016 |
I have got nothing to say than to smile cos today na ma baiday 1 Like |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by DaWNigerian: 4:37am On Dec 07, 2016 |
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Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Tajbol4splend(m): 7:37am On Dec 07, 2016 |
I was scanning your post but I could not skim a damn thing |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 10:39am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Tajbol4splend: that's very possible, it's not new, when what has been touched contradict your morals or beliefs |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 10:41am On Dec 07, 2016 |
DaWNigerian: you don't mean it. but what's so interesting about the topic |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 10:41am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Thanos: reveal the lies in this unbriddled truth, i will be waiting |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:56am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Medley: Or perhaps you don't know how to convey your message |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 11:35am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Tajbol4splend: oh my apologies, i just got a clue from your signature - you are that guy whose instinct works faster than computer and who reads minds. Sequel to this, i have discontinued quoting you |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Tajbol4splend(m): 1:14pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
Medley: Good |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by ndcide(m): 2:02pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
Medley: You are absolutely right. Those who don't agree, do so because it doesn't justify their weakness. I mean weakness in sexual discipline. |
Re: Solution To Heartbreaks In Relationships That People Know But Resist by Medley(m): 6:26pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
ndcide:you nailed it 1 Like |
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