Guys, what happened to treasure?

What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!!

What happened to spoiling her to get her on you side?

Please, someone tell me what has gone wrong?

ECONOMIC MELT DOWN

she goes after d highest bidder

biola44:

she goes after d highest bidder

So you just give up when the competition is high?

daduke2k:

ECONOMIC MELT DOWN

Meaning you got broke ?

something like that. its lnow the other way round.

Some of us don't crave for such attention. We are capable of making up our minds without such frivolities attached.

There are also interesting means of treasuring me than doing all the above and that is by giving me your time instead of substituting with material goods and your utmost respect.

Why do I need to be spoiled to know that I like you and I would like to spend my life with you?

Ujujoan:

Guys, what happened to treasure?

What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!!

What happened to spoiling her to get her on you side?

Please, someone tell me what has gone wrong?

Who does all that?

Emperoh:

Nope. . . . lets say we got wiser!!!

Is that the new word for stingy?

stillwater:

Some of us don't crave for such attention. We are capable of making up our minds without such frivolities attached.

There are also interesting means of treasuring me than doing all the above and that is by giving me your time instead of substituting with material goods and your utmost respect.

Why do I need to be spoiled to know that I like you and I would like to spend my life with you?

Oh c'mon enof with such hypocrisy. Even the bible says 'Your heart lies where your treasure lies' _{or sth like that}

Its called 'financial committment'

Nice Thread,am beginning to wonder what it will look like in years to come.Guys this days just believe girls are not worth it.I guess that's why they don't do that no more.I always say to myself , why do all the nonsense when am not so sure of the future of the relationship.Why not buy one of this Lands in Mowe and start paying instalmentally instead of spending the money on a girl am not sure of.

There's this thing about girls,whenever they meet a guy,some of them always have the believe of "I don catch Mugu" at heart.Most guys really don't wanna be called that.
Another thing wey dey vex me na when na me wan spend my money and the babe go still wan dey form for me.Dey wan dey Boss me around all the name of Ladies are meant to be respected.Bleep I don't respect that.

badboym:

Nice Thread,am beginning to wonder what it will look like in years to come.Guys this days just believe girls are not worth it.I guess that's why they don't do that no more.I always say to myself , why do all the nonsense when am not so sure of the future of the relationship.Why not buy one of this Lands in Mowe and start paying instalmentally instead of spending the money on a girl am not sure of.

There's this thing about girls,whenever they meet a guy,some of them always have the believe of "I don catch Mugu" at heart.Most guys really don't wanna be called that.
[b]Another thing wey dey vex me na when na me wan spend my money and the babe go still wan dey form for me.[/b]Dey wan dey Boss me around all the name of Ladies are meant to be respected.Bleep I don't respect that.

Okay so you want to have sex when you spend on a girl, meaning you want sex in exchange for money? You feel she dosent deserve respect cos you spent money on her? Meaning her respect is for sale?

So I'll be right to say you expect a girl to be your mugu once you spend on her!! So what's wrong with a girl making you her own mugu once in a while??

chamotex:

Who does all that?

That's the problem, nobody does that anymore. But they used to!!

Ujujoan:

Oh c'mon enof with such hypocrisy. Even the bible says 'Your heart lies where your treasure lies' _{or sth like that}

Its called 'financial committment'

I could turn this thread into something else just for insinuating that, for the record I don't take such words lightly. You don't know me neither do you know my lifestyle whether it veers on flamboyance or the solitary.
I knew my words would be interpreted as such anyway, oh well . . .

Ujujoan:

So you just give up when the competition is high?

is she meant 2 be a priced commodity?

Those were the 'fairytale' days. . . . . . . I would sincerely prefer a man's 'time' to know that he wants me . . . .that for me is a better way of wooing. . .  

@UJUJOAN

Never make such generalisations. Guys still spend. If i dont know anyone, at least i know myself. In my recent relationship i spent so much to make her feel happy. at the end, i still did not get the attention i wanted/deserved. will that make me not to spend in another relationship? maybe yes for some guys due to the experience. but for me, it doesnt change a thing. as a matter of fact, i enjoy spending on my girl cos it makes me feel responsible and happy to see she is happy too.

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Ujujoan:

Okay so you want to have sex when you spend on a girl, meaning you want sex in exchange for money? You feel she dosent deserve respect cos you spent money on her? Meaning her respect is for sale?

So I'll be right to say you expect a girl to be your mugu once you spend on her!! So what's wrong with a girl making you her own mugu once in a while??

Well let me explain a little more.I believe the wooing thing is outdated and if I wanna woo anyone , it should be the gurl I wanna spend the rest of my life with.If I want sex,it's been one of the easiest for me ever since I elevated.I got booty calls.I also believe booty calls are cheaper.I don't have to spend the world to get em to bed.I also don't want a girl that's B@tch oriented.I mean one lazy girl that will expect me to be everything and extend to her family members.This year have dashed a guy about half a million but haven't given a girl more than a percent of that.

I gba treasure gbakwa oku.

stillwater:

I could turn this thread into something else just for insinuating that, for the record I don't take such words lightly. You don't know me neither do you know my lifestyle whether it veers on flamboyance or the solitary.
I knew my words would be interpreted as such anyway, oh well . . .

Dint mean it to be personal, but I guess u were expecting the remank anyway!! I really dont know you, but I assume every woman appreciates a little spoiling!!

badboym:

Well let me explain a little more.I believe the wooing thing is outdated and if I wanna woo anyone , it should be the gurl I wanna spend the rest of my life with.If I want sex,it's been one of the easiest for me ever since I elevated.I got booty calls.I also believe booty calls are cheaper.I don't have to spend the world to get em to bed.I also don't want a girl that's B@tch oriented.I mean one lazy girl that will expect me to be everything and extend to her family members.This year have dashed a guy about half a million but haven't given a girl more than a percent of that.

Booty call!! Hmmn!! Last time I checked, dose 'booty calls' turned out to be somebody's wives. How can you differentiate a 'booty call' from a wife at first glance.

So the lesser you spend to get them to bed, the more 'booty call-ish' they are?

You are a generous guy, obviosuly, so what's wrong with extending that generosity to a girl?

biola44:

is she meant 2 be a priced commodity?

Every good thing is appreciated by everybody!! What you see in her attracts a lot of other men. So dont expect to be the only one in the race!!

then i guess i shouldnt put ma money at stake either

Can I call you chicken-hearted then?

Dividend of women liberation.Paying of bills? .Not for me.

Ujujoan:

Can I call you chicken-hearted then?

no, i'm "smart-hearted"
if i want 2 dash money 2 charity i know ow 2 find em.
we both know no romance without finance,
so wats d point on spraying all d cash wen its not worth it?

Some women can be very funny. When we try to take care of them they get all feminist and independent on us,and when we use our money to do better things they say we're stingy,or we dont woo them,etc. I thank God my own isnt like that,sha.

Ujujoan:

Guys, what happened to treasure?

What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!!

What happened to spoiling her to get her on you side?

Please, someone tell me what has gone wrong?

Times have changed. . . . . . .
There seems to be a stiff competition these days.
The ratio of men to women is about 1:15 so the supply has reduced the market value of today's women.
Why spoil a woman with gifts when 10 other women can't be bovvered about gifts but just wanna get jiggy.

Sometimes I wonder if my head was screwed up wrong when I was in my early twenties. I could not stand guys that wanted to spend. I just could not respect them. In my mind they had nothing to offer so their checkbook was always on hand to convince me. Maybe I just had a low opinion of men. My husband was not a spender and his humility (so I thought) turned me on. Now I wish I had spent all his money before it became our money LOL

follypimpi:


Trust u to come up with an explaination,MR Hitler !!!!

What other explanation is there?
Today's women don't waste time again and can't be bovvered about gifts.
The sex equality shiznit is also a factor.

. . . . and along comes the Beijing conference.