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Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by UuzbaGuuzba: 9:44pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
ghostmist: Control yourself small na. I bet you if a typical Nigerian man is overseas and 20 or more white females smile at him and greet, he will go bonkers on 20 of them. It takes a while for a Nigerian man to adjust to the new environment. We ALL know that Nigerian girls do not smile at men AT ALL freely or out of professional courtesy. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
boboLIL:Spot on. The same way cutesexy1 smiled at me in her profile picture. It's been 3 years now and she hasn't said a word, and she's still smiling. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by nellaluv(f): 10:05pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
imohrol: Yes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by AhmadMind: 10:10pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Correct but I have seen those who inch closer. However BEWARE because Harassment suits are a BIG MONEY SPINNER and you might be SET UP... If you need a woman in USA its too simple...Use google.com and you will see models! babeface3: |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by SAMBARRY: 10:32pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
DICKtator:there are women and there are women. The mere fact that a woman is being courteous while doing her job doesn't mean she's stylishly making advances at him and if you need sex it's not where a woman is doing her job that you will be flirting with 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by andyanders: 10:37pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
Op, you got it right. Some people can mistake their warm smile to mean she is ready for you.That is their marketing strategy in order to make their customers have a relaxed time. If one is not used to their life style, you will be tempted to think negatively. Nigerians act otherwise hoping that the way ladies here act, is the way it is over there. When you ask a lady her name, age and state, she will gladly tell you. Ask her if she is married , single or separated, she will answer you.If you now try to go to any area outside the above state and she say 'Nope' back off. 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by obowunmi(m): 11:56pm On Jun 24, 2016 |
It's normal to despoil women in Nigeria. Very normal. It's normal to sexually harass a woman. What is not okay? Is to do it outside Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 12:02am On Jun 25, 2016 |
HurricaneMIMZY: OK.. No wahala. Will surely do that. But what's the fuss about this miss Nairaland that you guys are draining your energy about. Isn't 50k that will be given to the 1st position. Tell her that I will double that amount for her if she will date me (: 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by HurricaneMIMZY: 12:06am On Jun 25, 2016 |
papiforreal: It's not about the money, sir. It's about believing in a cause and the showcasing of what people can achieve even though they are separated by space. Thanks for joining the Mimzy train. I'd endeavor to mention you when it's time. Convince your friends to. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cosade(m): 12:48am On Jun 25, 2016 |
ghostmist: You got it wrong it. You can ask for a date but if she says no, then take it as no. Don't assume she's playing the difficult to get type. No is No, your further push becomes harassment. Same thing with your wife, she's not in the mood for legitimate pleasure and you forcefully have your way, she can actually get you charged for rape. Do you get it? 3 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by sisisioge: 1:46am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Hmmmm babeface3, you didn't score in Vegas abi? Don't worry, you are about to score big time here on Nland. Now that you have dropped the relevant info: you could afford to go to Vegas and stay in a hotel, you didn't stay in a cheap b&d but in the one with cleaning service and cute waiters...hmmm. No one will really care if you are short and stumpy, just flash the card. The rest is history mehn By the way, fear no litigation...the jamboree will be legal 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 1:58am On Jun 25, 2016 |
InvertedHammer: 99.9% of the time, people would be the lady making the allegation. And if the service providers, here, are rude or constantly frown at customers, that hotel could receive lots of complaints from the guests. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by sethken: 3:08am On Jun 25, 2016 |
babeface3: In the US, when ladies in the hospitality or retail industry smile at you, do no misunderstand them. They do so out of courtesy/training. They want to make sure you are enjoying your stay, especially in the Five Hotels. After all, you are paying top dollars to be there. Also, they want to make sure you are a repeat customer. The hotel wants your business, of course it is only appropriate they threat you nice, and are courteous to you. A smile from any of the housekeepers does not denote interest. Remember they see tons of men who pass through the hotels. What makes you special? You are spot on. 5 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cococandy(f): 3:23am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Randy folks. If you smile at them out of politeness or professional etiquette, they take it as green light to come have sex. 4 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 3:45am On Jun 25, 2016 |
cococandy: I knew you would show up. Seriously though, I guess that's the reason why Nigerian women, who work in the hospitality industry, barely crack a smile at guests of both genders. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cococandy(f): 4:01am On Jun 25, 2016 |
CFCman:lol. This topic is an interesting one to me walahi. I want those senators or whatever they are made an example of if they are truly guilty. Their impunity is too much. 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by ghostmist: 5:20am On Jun 25, 2016 |
cosade:we are both saying the same thing... the men are being demonized for asking?? like as if it's some kinda crime or pervert behavior for them to ask in the first place. I don't know why nature gave men a higher sexx drive; cos I know if the roles were reversed we would be seeing worse from the females. it's almost as if they are subtly trying to emasculate our sexxuality. most men even here in 9ja would stop pestering a woman once she turns them down....except in the rare occasions. see how they've started calling the OP "hegoat " and "pervert" just because he asked a lady her number. The hypocrisy is sickening. 3 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Laredojohn(m): 6:47am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Op I grab ur point, unlike naija, where some hotel cleaners are ready to jump on customers, especially when they see politicians, the white hotel workers are trained to have courtesy irrespective of who the customer is, those rep members must have tried something funny for an allegation to crop up, this isn't the first time Nigerian law makers lodge in hotels in US, for the embassy to come up with their decision they must have had some reasonably source of evidence, sexual assault does not necessarily mean sex or romance, a mere guy, making himself naked purposefully to seduce a lady because they alone or because she is cleaning his hotel room can also b an assault, and for just three of them of a lot, there must have been something they see normal here that's not normal there they must have done...anyways let's wait till the investigation is concluded...and we will all know the truth. 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 8:12am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Naija mentality,salutation is not love. Oyinbo people are very civilised and friendly people by nature,because they smiled at you doesn't mean they want to sex you. Na so I carry my wife go one African restaurant like that,some mins later I decided to use the rest room,before I came back from the rest room,some silly Nigerian has started asking her for her number even though he saw both of us arriving there together. I shake my head for Nigerians,many of them are in jail over here for rape. 2 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by TRAVEL101(m): 8:19am On Jun 25, 2016 |
adewumiopeyemi: Just enjoying the moral of the story....and forget if it is true or not. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cosade(m): 8:57am On Jun 25, 2016 |
ghostmist: My brother, the bolded shows we are not on the same page on this. I didn't agree it's a crime to ask a lady out, but it becomes one when you can't hear the word "No" the moment she says it. They probably called the OP "hegoat" because he did not respect the lady's office. His hotel room is the lady's office, an office should be a respectful work place. When you go to Rome, they say you do as the Romans. Oyinbos no dey joke with sexual harassment and abuse. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by kolomax(m): 11:15am On Jun 25, 2016 |
miqos02:do you have mini laptop at hand ? how much is it |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by JohnRulzel: 12:02pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
It is a big disgrace to our law makers but come to think about it, those oyibo men the come naija do same thing, ask some security men to call ashawo for them 2 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cosade(m): 2:37pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
JohnRulzel: Every human being has criminal tendencies no matter how little, it is the fear of being caught and punished that deter many. There are high chances that crimes committed in advanced countries would be detected and prosecuted, unlike the impunity that goes on in the third world. That is the difference. 1 Like |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by cosade(m): 2:42pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
papiforreal: As a Papi you don't have to date her to give the 50k, just send it to Seun to add to the prize money. |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by miqos02(m): 3:55pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
kolomax:mini laptop is my ministry new stock Hp 5103 160gb hdd, 2gb ram,webcam,wifi, touchscreen @26k |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by InvertedHammer: 8:25am On Jun 26, 2016 |
CFCman:/ It would have been cheaper if the lawmakers relaxed, showered and took a taxi to a strip club. $20 to get in, $100 VIP lap dance and no soul will be reading any epistle about sexual harrassment. \ |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by MOBBDEEP: 10:41am On Jun 26, 2016 |
sethken:God bless you Brother. A brother deemed it wise to share a non-too-pleasant highly confidential experience for us to learn immensely about transcultural variations, but what did we get!? Lots of jabs, tantrums & curses thrown at him by people who are most likely worse off than him!! Have they learnt the intended lesson!? I doubt so. Am I holding brief for him or making an excuse on his behalf? Not at all. But, then, we need to be considerate & show some measure of understanding. After all, he was still able to decipher when not to push it further. I don't think it's anyone's prerogative to judge or question his libido level or sexual activeness! 2 Likes |
Re: lessons from the lawmakers sex scandal and A personal experience! by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jun 26, 2016 |
InvertedHammer: Exactly. I guess this was either the first or 2nd time they had come to the US. I guess they are more used to some European cities where one could solicit for prostitutes openly. With $100, each one could have got 4 or 5 VIP lap-dances with ease. In fact, they would have been the biggest tippers at the strip club, lol. 1 Like |
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