Big mamas I hail unah.. Longest time.. Godspeed too every one. I Want to ask something plz don't see it like am been sarcastic or so..
But y will a woman give birth after 9 months u fling the child to suffer and die. And Years later u marry and start praying for a child.

Am crying and typing see how a woman saved that baby that was shown on front page..

Does God answer that kind of prayer?

I think both men/ women have to realistic in life that you reap what you sow.

Feel so depressed ryt now. Please mamas don't be offended by this. But please the mamas should talk too young girls around them and tell them the implication of such things.

Have a lovely evening every one.. God bless

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smithsydny:
Big mamas I hail unah.. Longest time.. Godspeed too every one. I Want to ask something plz don't see it like am been sarcastic or so..
But y will a woman give birth after 9 months u fling the child to suffer and die. And Years later u marry and start praying for a child.

Am crying and typing see how a woman saved that baby that was shown on front page..

Does God answer that kind of prayer?

I think both men/ women have to realistic in life that you reap what you sow.

Feel so depressed ryt now. Please mamas don't be offended by this. But please the mamas should talk too young girls around them and tell them the implication of such things.

Have a lovely evening every one.. God bless

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I saw it too and was petrified. May God help us all

MummyBryan:
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I saw it too and was petrified. May God help us all

just imagine ... And 2mro u will see the same pwrosn saying God give me a child village people are after me.. I can't describe this.. Lord have mercy

Dear lovely mamas, has anyone ever gone for thyroid test? If yes, pls what symptoms were u having?

MummyBryan:
Thank you lovely mamas @FruitfulRay and @goldenheart002 thank your for responding maturely to my questions. As for the breast, it's heavy but it's like the normal heaviness I feel when AF is approaching .

Uwc
PMS symptoms is almost same as preggy own until u miss ur period and carry out d necessary test
I started having heavy breasts and cramps immediately after ovulation and it didn't stop till AF decided to go on vacation.
I suggest u wait till d day after u miss AF, then do hpt
Congrats in addy

MummyBryan:
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Please dear, I still believe it's the Almighty God that gives babies. In all, still have faith and never stop giving him thanks . I will share a story of my mum's colleague who had issues with her womb at age 16 and they had to do full evacuation of the whole womb because of an infection she had. She had no womb, but she is a proud mum of twins today. Those boys are 19 years today as we speak. All grown . This isn't a make believe story. She confided in my mum and told my mum when her husband was approaching her for marriage. She told the guy she has no womb but God still made the doctors understand that he is the greatest doctor of all. BFPs will be flowing through out this week and next month. Pls don't be sad or depressed. God has not left u, HE wouldn't ignite u. Your big news is coming and you will leap for joy soon.

amen ma. thanks so much for this.

The music of God never ends. Only the dancers get tired. As you open your eyes to see the light of today so also your eyes will be opened to riches and favour of God. As you step out today, I pray you March into your victories, blessings and favour. The hand of the Lord will always be on you. You shall be like a tree being planted by the river side that brings forth it's fruits in its season. Your heart desires will be granted by God. Doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you and you shall be favoured by people. Good morning

MummyBryan:
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You were quite harsh. But no worries though . My my cycle could be 31 this month and 30 the next. 35 the next month and 32 the next. I'm not stressed out. I'm extremely happy and in a very happy place. I only asked a simple question to mature women and I got my answer from them. I guess now u see the need for the fertilaid and u really do not need to have hormonal issues to use fertilaid. It's a blend of natural supplements that act as prenatal vitamins and it aids ovulation too. It's advisable that women take prenatal vitamins 4 months before trying to conceive. So I ain't getting myself worked up ok

Sorry if my post came across as harsh. I am glad u r very happy. I said what I said based on experience from mamas here. You may need to read the thread and learn from success stories here; it was on this premise I gave you a supposedly immature advise. Do you research properly even from this thread you will read alot of Mama's experiences with fertilaid and their warnings. Most pcos sufferers use it cos of the active ingredient which is vitex not as a prenatal vitamin . I never read anywhere u mentioned pcos or annovulation hence my advise.Has a Dr confirmed u as having annovulation cycles?? I repeat again it is meant for hormonal imbalance not as prenatal vitamins. If u had used ovaboost instead that's more inline with being used as a prenatal vitamin. From what you described as cycle days btw 30 to 35 is infact regular. I have absolutely nothing to gain or loose cos this thread is a faceless forum. It's ur body , it's ur life do as u pls.

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Ranting time
So yesterday I started feeling cramp after I had missed my period cycle got to 25 this month as against 22-24, one of my friends at work commented that I looked tired I told her its stress. I had to leave work, found a place to cry and sleep. Now I knew AF was on her way.
I managed to wait and then went to church though I was "feeling strong". After church I was playing with a baby and talking with one of the children then the question came bam "aunty when will you give birth to your own baby" I said soon, then she said "but I will be in school" she's in boarding school JSS1 and then said se you will come home on holiday. She didn't seem happy cause she wants to carry my own baby.

Hmmmm this phase is not an easy one and I don't wish it even on my enemy. I am tired 17cycles but am not giving up.

Lord, let people don't begin to ask where is my God. Let your name not be mocked in my life.

TTC is a bad I even remember what CD am in before the day's date.

Lord am depending on Your strength because each month seems harder as my expectation builds.

God sent encouragement to me via email from mummy Faith Oyedepo. I sent an email almost a month ago but got the reply yesterday when my heart was down and I needed help. I will post the message below so it can also encourage you too. Remain bless. Remember this journey can be tiring but DON'T GIVE UP

Dear Mummy JJ,

It is well with you in Jesus' name!
What are you expecting, baby or blood?  Like God's servant will always say, when your faith and trust is in God for your miracle baby(ies), when you see blood, tell yourself that it is the excess blood that is coming out.  Please read this testimony and let your faith be fired up: 

“I joined the Winners’ Family inNovember 1989 at Angwua-Rimi, Kaduna. Since then, I have had no cause to doubt the living God of Bishop David Oyedepo.
I have been coming to Shiloh and attending Mothers and Fathers of Nations specialised session since inception in 1999.

In 2013, I was tired and ashamed of attending without result. However, since I already invited my cousin and other people to come to Shiloh to attend Mothers and Fathers of Nations class, I reluctantly came by encouraging myself. 
At Shiloh 2013 Mothers of Nations class, my own word came when Pastor David Oyedepo (Jnr.) was preaching and asked, ‘If missing children in town are found in Shiloh and you are looking for your child, how will you identify your own child?’ He said, ‘By calling your child’s name.’ He admonished us to start calling the name of our child/children as we wished. That word hit me and that was all I picked in the service.

Immediately after Shiloh, as he advised us, I brought out my baby’s bathing bowl and I would say, ‘Flourish come and bath; don’t cry o.’ I was doing it in faith. I kept on doing that until one day, while I brought out the bathing bowl and water, my menstrual flow came again and I was discouraged. I said to myself, ‘If I’m pregnant, this wouldn’t have happened. Meanwhile, I was already pregnant and I never knew; because God knows better than man that I don’t need menses to get pregnant.  The menses flowed all through the nine months. I went for scan and they didn’t see the baby but the baby was growing in my body; my husband said I should not go to hospital again. So, there was no ante-natal.

On the delivery day, I still served in the choir and after service that Wednesday, labour started in the night and early morning on Thursday, my husband took me to the clinic. When I got to clinic, labour stopped and I was helping other pregnant women in labour to carry their baby things. The matron asked me if I was truly in labour and I told her that it had stopped. Thereafter, I drank Hebron water and immediately after, I started stooling and vomiting.

The Matron asked me the number of times I had been to the toilet and how many times I vomited. I told her five times. Then, she told me to lie down and so she could examine me. Immediately she said, ‘I have touched the baby’s head; can you push?’ I pushed and the third time, I heard the baby crying. This is me that the medical report stated that I had fallopian blockage in both tubes and my husband had low sperm count. However, today, the God of Bishop David Oyedepo Who is too faithful to fail proved them wrong. Now I have my baby− FLOURISH, OLUWASETEMI, DIEUDONNE, AYOMIDE, ESONIKISOMO OBANDO  to the glory of God. Furthermore, cousin that I invited also had a baby girl, Oluwashindara, Loaded-Favour, Bello, after nine years of waiting. I give God all the glory!” ---Florence Obando

Once again, I join my faith with you that as you have confessed and believed, your testimony shall be full; not minding the blood because it's the excess that you are seeing. Your twins shall be delivered to you in Jesus' name.


Do not faint but continue to expect your desired miracle testimony by the power of God, and that expectation shall not be cut off in Jesus' name (Proverbs 23:18).

I urge you to continue to meditate on the testimonies of others as seen in these books until your testimony is in your hands: You Shall Not Be Barren & Signs and Wonders Today, both authored by God’s servant, Dr. David Oyedepo. 


Your Case is Different!
Yours in Christ,
Faith A. Oyedepo

It seems there is no cure fór candida .... I have read and read stuffs so tey my head don full. Mamas please is there no way out?? I am tired of sore sex.

mamaTB:


Sorry if my post came across as harsh. I am glad u r very happy. I said what I said based on experience from mamas here. You may need to read the thread and learn from success stories here; it was on this premise I gave you a supposedly immature advise. Do you research properly even from this thread you will read alot of Mama's experiences with fertilaid and their warnings. Most pcos sufferers use it cos of the active ingredient which is vitex not as a prenata[color=#990000][/color]l vitamin . I never read anywhere u mentioned pcos or annovulation hence my advise.Has a Dr confirmed u as having annovulation cycles?? I repeat again it is meant for hormonal imbalance not as prenatal vitamins. If u had used ovaboost instead that's more inline with being used as a prenatal vitamin. From what you described as cycle days btw 30 to 35 is infact regular. I have absolutely nothing to gain or loose cos this thread is a faceless forum. It's ur body , it's ur life do as u pls.

I think you are hard on yourself. You sound like like a very unhappy person and it tells in your reactions to issues. Why do u sound like you now me from a place before now and you are venting your anger and pain on me. I am sorry you feel this way. FYI. Reviews from the fair haven reps online shows it is also a prenatal vitamin. Well, as you said . It's my body and by God's grace I have a mouth to declare what u want for my body and I have done that. I have had private chats with some mamas here and it worked for them so it will work for me. Declare it and HE will make it manifest. I really do not reply people who are obviously angry at something but I hope that one day you will understand that life has a lot to offer and humans can either choose to be happy or sad. I don't hate u and I will live my life just as you have said. I love u and wish you well. God bless u

I had to attach this. That is fertilaid website and it is a prenatal vitamin. My girl had triplets. Her cycle was normal and she took it 3 months before getting married last year. She welcomed her triplets this February. This is just to clear the air. God will give us all our heart desires. Amen . Have a fruitful eeek mamas

*holding up a fire extinguisher*
Okay ladies... deep breath..
Breathe in..........
Breathe out.........

Again
Breathe in....
Breathe out...

*sprinkling baby dust*

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babylove01:
The music of God never ends. Only the dancers get tired. As you open your eyes to see the light of today so also your eyes will be opened to riches and favour of God. As you step out today, I pray you March into your victories, blessings and favour. The hand of the Lord will always be on you. You shall be like a tree being planted by the river side that brings forth it's fruits in its season. Your heart desires will be granted by God. Doors of opportunities shall be opened unto you and you shall be favoured by people. Good morning

Amen and amen

Be fruitful and multiply. Amen

MummyBryan , its Ok pls. I actually shed tears at the way you reprimanded mamatb up there. Its Ok. She was only actually trying to help. We know her here. She is one of us.
We are all trying our best to cope with TTC and we don't need to bring one another down with statements like ...

MummyBryan:


I think you are hard on yourself. You sound like like a very unhappy person and it tells in your reactions to issues. Why do u sound like you now me from a place before now and you are venting your anger and pain on me. I am sorry you feel this way...

You did well too by clearing the air on fertilaid cos I am planning to use it soon and I have a regular cycle. Its Ok dear.
Mamatb , its ok pls. God will answer us all soon.

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Loisemm:

MummyBryan , its Ok pls. I actually shed tears at the way you reprimanded mamatb up there. Its Ok. She was only actually trying to help. We know her here. She is one of us.
We are all trying our best to cope with TTC and we don't need to bring one another down with statements like ...

You did well too by clearing the air on fertilaid cos I am planning to use it soon and I have a regular cycle. Its Ok dear.
Mamatb , its ok pls. God will answer us all soon.

She was very harsh and made me feel terrible. I was only asking questions to back up my claims and I'm glad I had responded from some mamas here and had hats with others. Her response was mean and because I just got married doesn't mean I shouldn't be in the KNOW when it concerns issues like this. I am sorry if my response to her was also harsh. I just feel we are here to help each other and not to bring the other person down. I read ally and I've read alot of reviews online.it worked for many people and didn't work for some cos their issues varied and their bodies are different. It was this morning my friend who is a mum of triplets confirmed to me that she used it regardless of the fact she has a Normal and regular AF. I only felt hurt with her responses to me. *babydust to you and every other mama here* @mamatb, big hugs to u. (No more argument *smiles*)

MummyBrian, if I respond the way I feel this thread go scatter but I won't join issues with a baby like u. I can tell you nothing yet , u have just started life. U went and read my previous posts and concluded I am unhappy. No wahala
It's the advise I gave that's resulting in this insult, thank you very much. Did u also read this part of hormonal balance My concern is why stress out when nothing might be wrong.

Hannaspirit I see you how are you?

Please sisters it yaf do. Make we no block our blessings with our own hand. God is on this thread make we no pursue am with contention.

MummyBryan:


I think you are hard on yourself. You sound like like a very unhappy person and it tells in your reactions to issues. Why do u sound like you now me from a place before now and you are venting your anger and pain on me. I am sorry you feel this way. FYI. Reviews from the fair haven reps online shows it is also a prenatal vitamin. Well, as you said . It's my body and by God's grace I have a mouth to declare what u want for my body and I have done that. I have had private chats with some mamas here and it worked for them so it will work for me. Declare it and HE will make it manifest. I really do not reply people who are obviously angry at something but I hope that one day you will understand that life has a lot to offer and humans can either choose to be happy or sad. I don't hate u and I will live my life just as you have said. I love u and wish you well. God bless u

Haba see pregnancy hormones in action in here o, but seriously ma'am I think u are abit hard on Mamatb she was only trying to tell u is too early to get worked up.....Instead of Pain, unhappiness and anger all I see in her is happiness and celebration cos dis time next year we all will be commenting on how beautiful her own bundle of joy is.

Yes @mamatb I agree I am a baby when it involves issues like this and I really pray and want to remain a baby in issues like this. Pls I have read it and I am not counter phrasing you in anyway. It worked for some and didn't work for some. Just the same way IVF works for some and doesn't for some. I got it cos it's a prenatal vitamin. You didn't need to insult me. I've been using it for 3 weeks and I even stopped 3 days ago cos I'm feeling weird ( abdominal pains and nausea etc) I will continue if AF comes in few days but if AF doesn't come I will end it there. As I said earlier, you don't need to be insultive, I'm a newly wed yes but age isn't on my side so much.well I will still say God bless u and I pray I remain a baby as long as issues concerning infertility are raised. It's not an easy road for women and no woman wishes to be a mature infertile woman. Thanks for the attachment though I already read all that and read reviews too.

heheheheeh pweetiebabe no be me ooo na mamaTB. Anyway thanks for having me in mind.

MummyJJ:
heheheheeh pweetiebabe no be me ooo na mamaTB. Anyway thanks for having me in mind.

Thanks sis and ve corrected myself jawe....It is well with us all

Abeg month go soon end oo, we don't need this here. Make una carry all ds una plenty grammar keep one side before person go miss ovulation signs. Mummy Bryan, its a pity you perceived her reply to your question as being harsh but I think she gave it based on her experience in the group. I am sure what got you pissed was because she mentioned that you just got married and was already eager to conceive. But its not enough to describe her as unhappy? On top TTC wahala! and later say you love her..thats just sarcastic! Even doctors would tell you that you shouldnt worry that early. I suspect its your pregnancy hormones spiking. Please let the matter rest. Mama Tb, please this should not deter you from sharing your experiences or opinions when other mamas ask. On a lighter note, this your moniker sef..mama TB . Okbye! #runsout#

Fertility blessings!

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MummyJJ:
Please sisters it yaf do. Make we no block our blessings with our own hand. God is on this thread make we no pursue am with contention.

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Thank you mamajj.

Pweetiebabe:
Haba see pregnancy hormones in action in here o, but seriously ma'am I think u are abit hard on Mamatb she was only trying to tell u is too early to get worked up.....Instead of Pain, unhappiness and anger all I see in her is happiness and celebration cos dis time next year we all will be commenting on how beautiful her own bundle of joy is.

Thanks darling

CravingChic:
Abeg month go soon end oo, we don't need this here. Make una carry all ds una plenty grammar keep one side before person go miss ovulation signs. Mummy Bryan, its a pity you perceived her reply to your question as being harsh but I think she gave it based on her experience in the group. I am sure what got you pissed was because she mentioned that you just got married and was already eager to conceive. But its not enough to describe her as unhappy? On top TTC wahala! and later say you love her..thats just sarcastic! Even doctors would tell you that you shouldnt worry that early. I suspect its your pregnancy hormones spiking. Please let the matter rest. Mama Tb, please this should not deter you from sharing your experiences or opinions when other mamas ask. On a lighter note, this your moniker sef..mama TB . Okbye! #runsout#

Fertility blessings!

Lol. Thanks dear.

MummyJJ:
heheheheeh pweetiebabe no be me ooo na mamaTB. Anyway thanks for having me in mind.

No mind that pregnant round woman, you sure say she dey see road sef?

Pweetiebabe am in my house, coman beat me

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CravingChic:
Abeg month go soon end oo, we don't need this here. Make una carry all ds una plenty grammar keep one side before person go miss ovulation signs. Mummy Bryan, its a pity you perceived her reply to your question as being harsh but I think she gave it based on her experience in the group. I am sure what got you pissed was because she mentioned that you just got married and was already eager to conceive. But its not enough to describe her as unhappy? On top TTC wahala! and later say you love her..thats just sarcastic! Even doctors would tell you that you shouldnt worry that early. I suspect its your pregnancy hormones spiking. Please let the matter rest. Mama Tb, please this should not deter you from sharing your experiences or opinions when other mamas ask. On a lighter note, this your moniker sef..mama TB . Okbye! #runsout#

Fertility blessings!

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Ok. It wasnt sarcasm at all. But thank you. No arguments again