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@Goldenbaby, my dear pls calm down, i dnt knw if its normal but it usually happen to me even dis morning after many hrs of lying down, though i felt bad but i strongly believe Ãήϑ trust God, i knw he can perform wonders even without the sperm cells.
Baby dust τ̲̅ȍ us

@zeezey,thanks a lot oh... Yea I did for 4hrs cos I slept off,
@kaynee,nope no itching,don't av infection cos I went for scan on monday,
@Safe06, am not tinking abt anytin, I even forgot that I had sex, was if discuss wit friends wen I felt that sumtin was cuming out,
@Shiloh,thanks,why I was worried is becos it was since morning dat I had sex and they stuff started coming out in d evening,upon I slept for almost 4hrs after sex, bt lik wat Zeezey said dat some can still come out after a day, so am nt worried again, puting all my trust in God.

@Igabe, my dear,I tire oh, I knw aw u feel..d stuff is still lickin out even nw, I pray dat d one dat will fertilise d egg will be there, my dear God will c us tru Amen. My ovulation day is 2moro.

Goldenbaby: @zeezey,thanks a lot oh... Yea I did for 4hrs cos I slept off,
@kaynee,nope no itching,don't av infection cos I went for scan on monday,
@Safe06, am not tinking abt anytin, I even forgot that I had sex, was if discuss wit friends wen I felt that sumtin was cuming out,
@Shiloh,thanks,why I was worried is becos it was since morning dat I had sex and they stuff started coming out in d evening,upon I slept for almost 4hrs after sex, bt lik wat Zeezey said dat some can still come out after a day, so am nt worried again, puting all my trust in God.

Goldenbabe...e be like ur hubby vex pour am plenty ni o *tihihihi*
you only need few drops of sper.m to meet ur egg. the rest will definitely flow out.

it happened to meet sometime back when hubby came back from a trip and we were intimate. after 2days i got this heavy watery stuff dripping out of my thingy and it was smelling, had to run to my doctor for test. he told me it was dead sperm dat dripped out and dat i would be fine, ofcos it was true.
my dear, nothing to worry abt jare, keeping the knackson going.

Sperm is supposed to come out nah...abi U wan make all of them go build house stay for ur uterus? :-) It will come out. Law of gravity says so!

goodmorning lovely mums. @goldenbaby. watin dey worry u. maybe u need bulala to calm down. oya take am . gbom, gbom, gbom, Abi e pain u well well.oya take ice water cool m heeeem. u wan kill urself wit worry for just 7months ttc? u sleep for 4hrs. for watin na?. my love, try and engage ur mind, soul, spirit and hand with something doing outside ttc.
Thank God you are in this forum. ur head go cool down soon.

@flakeey, correct, dat's how mine came out oh...All iz well..
@Chokl8y, I wan make them stay so dat they will build three storey building. Lollllll
@Cynone,Hahahahahahahah. Laugh wan kill me for here oh, I don collect the gbom,gbom,gbom and d ice water. I don cool dwn nw.. God will c us tru.

Good morning fruitful mums.Cjnone u three much o. How u go flog person finish come pour am water on top.@golden queen, don't worry dis month will not pass u as d sperm wey be d oga at d top don already swim to go do I'm job. @all wats happening o. Mamat ,pinky ,alwaystrue,flakeey,2 chi's n all d prayer warriors we have in dis forum.WAT DID WE do last year that we ve stopped doing.by now we r suopossed to ave atleast 2 confirmed bfp.or do we need to add more.maybe we should be having a mid wk group prayer just a suggestion.this way we mightbe having Double testimonies every month. God is able, he has done it before n he ll do it again.

[color=#990000][/color]I don laff tire,cjnonzy,na u biko,goldenbaby realy needed d flogging,her own don dey too much for diz class,heheeheee.
@chokl8y,na mansion she want make oga on top go build for her womb,lolz,na all d 8 babies she wan born for diz lyf she wan born at once.
@golden baby,ope d cane pain u wella?d nxt tym u complain too much again,I wee personaly come and flog u.
@skimpychic,we shall have plenty testimonies thiz year,nothing has changed. We still have our prayer warriors,our knackson advicers,our health advicers,so let's keep our faith strong.
@all,weekend e af arove ooo,let's put on our smiling and happy faces on,its well with us.

[color=#990000][/color]@napa,wats happening na?
@mamatriplets,for Ʊя̩̥̊ mind U̶̲̅ dey form MIA(missing in action) abi?we no kuku miss u,remain where u dey,*tongue out*.
@alwaystrue,u sef go hide abi?
@wonyizzle,lizzyslawlau,nictoliscious nicky,greenfruitsisty,I dey hail oooo

Hello Babes, how una d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥? ℓ̊ am always here in the spirit . ℓ̊ have made up my mind to interceed for every woman here daily and let God speak to me about our situations. Am planning to travel to Ghana next month on a one week leisure and knacking trip . ℓ̊ need to unwind ojare . @SafeO6, shebi Ɣ☺ΰ d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ smart? No worry all this Your over sabi G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ soon end, Belle tinz . @Alwaysbaby, how bori? ℓ̊ hope Pyguru did not succeed to ban you as usual. Abeg ©º♏Є exhalt us as always. . @Udoka, ℓ̊ got a word for Ɣ☺ΰ. What the Lord will do, he will do and no man can Stop. To all our preggy sisters, seanbell, prettymomma, kemidebbie, Golden777, champs, Hebrew woman, Zenoj et al: here's praying for a safe delivery for you. And ℓ̊ sincerely hope pregnancy no d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ ♍åkє̲ person mouth kpom!!! We Miss Ɣ☺ΰ guys. @All, Faithful is he who has promised and He will Perform same!!! Don't Give Up!!!

@Skimpychic, Amen oh, I believe so..
@safe, 8 children ke? Na only 4 I claim oh, don't worry I won't complain again, d bulala cjnone flogged me enter my body, am into positive thinking nw and the next complain u u will hear is bfp..let's kip thanking God for granting us d blessing of the fruit of d womb.

hello friends.i think we should each write a book on our journey to motherhood. i began writing my in 2009, putting down my various experiences and i believe God that my book would soon be done and would open up another chapter of testimonies. Am considering topics like
a. Journey to motherhood
b. tales of a travailing mother
c. the anguish of a waiting mother
e. here comes my Isaac
f. MY samuel is here

kindly give me more titles for my book.

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@lizzyslaw,did u say "but y" in igbo assent?lolz,no mind м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊. Good things don't come easy,ur babies are going to be great,so be patient enof to receive them when God says its time.

@all,we cannot afford to loose faith now,let's shame the devil. Sparkling baby dust on us all.

Igbo accent INDEED! Thanks jore!AMEN!!! How is DH? Hope u r taking it easy on him? I know he has his hands full! Thanks 4 being there for us.

kikeladea: hello friends.i think we should each write a book on our journey to motherhood. i began writing my in 2009, putting down my various experiences and i believe God that my book would soon be done and would open up another chapter of testimonies. Am considering topics like
a. Journey to motherhood
b. tales of a travailing mother
c. the anguish of a waiting mother
e. here comes my Isaac
f. MY samuel is here

kindly give me more titles for my book.

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good idea but hope u know say no be all of us be authours Oº°˚˚°ºh! Make e no be say publisher wey I go give my own read go come scatter laugh. Truth be told sha! Our experiences all merit recording for posterity sake! Chai! I don suffer! No be hin my doc say make I go do hsg come direct me to d clinic. On d said day I reach there finish, dm give me one blue robe wt rope for d back. I tie am finish I come dey back wall say "whc kind stupid robe be dis, if d lab attendant pass my back e go see my yansh finish". Time reach na.. Dm say make I lie down open d abunna for public yeepa! I encourage my self say " its a sacrifice u must make for d kids jor. Endure it! See he is an older mature doctor same as one dt could deliver ur babies" I finish d pep talk to myself for my mind come open abunna wide. D next thing I see d old man requested sumtin and d young boy wey I dey do sisi for since make e nor see my backside stroll come help d man hold sometin to put inside my abunna!!!! YEEPA! YEEPA!! YEEPA !!!! Shakara don end Oº°˚˚°ºh! Sisters when dem finish. Shame nor let me look up! All this while some sisters have been talking of d pain of hsg....hmmmm shame no let me feel single pain Oº°˚˚°ºh! No pain just acute, sheer and excrutiating shame!

Goldenbaby... Leave matter for mathias jor!

Baby dust Y'll!

Mummys and Daddy Santangelo,
How una all dey do? Una dooo o. Ah, Greenfruits, Safe and Able Mama3, na so u miss me? I dey I dey, I don read all this posts and laff.

@Lizzyslaw, flakeey, Kike, golden, skimpychick, cjone et all, I dey greet o.
I have been fine jare. Been busy here and there though I have been reading up.
All the testimonies are A-Amazing!
God is faithful sha.

I was thinking back concerning a friend who aborted because the bobo wey she wan marry no gree perform on time, na im I hear say she terminate the pregnancy come marry someone else though e tey small before she born but she don born. I just dey say God, you are great o, u get plan for everybody sha and our righteousness are indeed like filthy rags but still you reward everyone accordingly for their actions, remember all those waiting on you for their Samuels and reward them speedily.

For everyone here, God will do what He says He will do, even if it seems the wicked are prospering, wait on the Lord and He will surely show up beyond your expectations. Also have a positive attitude, think on whatever is pure, good, honorable and of good report and watch your life transform positively and this will help you be a better wife and mother.

@Mamatriplets, thanks for the prayers. As in eh! sometimes the burden gets so strong for others that you forget yourself and interceed for them. Your triplets will be world changers for good in Jesus name. Enjoy your Ghana nothing do you, it is needed.

@safetorious safe, you don remix the monikers of our mumnys here Abi? Weldone o.

@greenfruits, thanks for checking on me.

@Kikeade, that is a productive idea. It will be nice to have an acknowledgedment for the mamas and Papi on this forum.


I pray for all you mamas that you will receive those great blessings of children that the Lord God Almighty has released this season into your homes and marriages. You men and women are strong!

Yesterday I got very bad appraisals at work. A "D'. I have never gotten even a C in my 7 years of work so I felt enraged like my boss was picking on me. However, on getting home my hubs said he believes I deserve a 'D' that iv become a different,distracted, distant and unrecognizable person in recent times and went on to list a whole list of my wrongdoings

I was angry with him for not suppporting me but the more I think about it the more I realize they are all right

Ttc has changed me, for the first time in my life I'm failing,and I can't seem to help myself. I'm failing at concieving, I'm failing at my marriage, I'm failing at my job. I can't seem to get anything right anymore.
I don't know how to handle failure.

I'm so tired, I'm unmotivated, I'm frustrated, I think I'm tending towards depression. You know, like an out of body moment, I see myself spiralling down a dangerous path and I feel helpless to help myself or even pray or even encourage myself

favored gal: Yesterday I got very bad appraisals at work. A "'. I have never gotten even a C in my 7 years of work so I felt enraged like my boss was picking on me. However, on getting home my hubs said he believes I deserve a 'D' that iv become a different,distracted, distant and unrecognizable person in recent times and went on to list a whole list of my wrongdoings

I was angry with him for not suppporting me but the more I think about it the more I realize they are all right

Ttc has changed me, for the first time in my life I'm failing,and I can't seem to help myself. I'm failing at concieving, I'm failing at my marriage, I'm failing at my job. I can't seem to get anything right anymore.
I don't know how to handle failure.

I'm so tired, I'm unmotivated, I'm frustrated, I think I'm tending towards depression. You know, like an out of body moment, I see myself spiralling down a dangerous path and I feel helpless to help myself or even pray or even encourage myself

Favoured gal, favoured gal, favoured gal! How many times did I call u? This is ur year of completeness! I did this spiral some yrs back. Life bcame 2 tedious but u can do sometin about it. D way I see it, I can afford 2 put in my best now so dt when I bcome round wt my twins and I start to form dy will say, she deserves it. Decide today to put ds aspect of ur life in Gods hands totally cos we all know dt it will happen when we least expect it and by HIS grace. Those other parts dt u hv control over, seize back control girl. Safe teaches us to spice up our bedrooms, in d same way we can set other career related goals. We hv 2 achieve these goals now cos when d kids come we will be busy.

By d way, if ur boss noticed dt u were changing y did he not call u and find out if sometin was wrong?

God forbid dt u r a failure. An adage says u can't fall farther than d ground. Pick up urself girl and rebuke d word failure in ur life. U r a shinning star and dt makes u distinct and different. To stand out, u hv to chart a course different from dt of the general. Show them what u r made of! You go girl!

Lots of love!

@favoure gal, sweethie pls take it easy, calm down, just calm down. Hv u eva experienced an unimagineable joy Ãήϑ success? Dat is wat is coming ur way soon, all these are the signs, Ãήϑ with this joy on the way, everything will get back to normal. But what you have to do now is to look deep into your ways, calm down Ãήϑ try to correct the ones you can correct esp @ home because once your home is filled with joy Ãήϑ peace, it spread to other angles of your life. My husband told me 2 months ago that all the good qualities he saw in me b4 we got married Ãήϑ earlier in our marriage are diminishing every day, i cried to God in prayer because i knw its true, ttc can scatter one's life Ãήϑ make you not to think straight, i asked him to restore my family to what it used to be, he answered me within few days, everything got back to normal.
So my dear, cry to God in prayer, he never fails, he promised to fight 4 us, when the road seems so rough that is when he is so close us, pls calm down dear, i really understand hw u feel, inshort i can feel your pains, pls be strong, God is with u. **hugs** Everything will be fine.

Hey favoured gal hang on you are approaching the curve at the road, its just a curve it doesn't mean the road end at this point, but you have to continue because in the shortest time the bend/curve will finish. I am seeing your testimony very close but trust the devil with his tactics he wants you to be distracted so dat your blessing will elude you. God forbid. Reject that grading and mentor yourself by yourself back to the top. Which one be D'? Is dat God's grading or man's? Lots of love see ya at d top

@Favoured girl, common dear, don't say you are failing, let the weak say I am strong cos the joy of the Lord is your strength, let the poor say I am rich cos He was poor so that we can be rich, let the barren rejoice cos non shall be barren in the land and He who made you has commanded, be fruitful and multiply. Are you a child of God? Then dear, you can't fail if your answer is yes, cos He is not a failure, if He carry the sins of the whole world, He will carry you, I know for sure you are a success. Pls be strong, read about God's promises and claim them.

Concerning your job,don't let TTC affect it pls, you know why? When these kids come you will need money to take care of them, you need to keep supporting your hubby too, so, pls don't take ttc matter reach office at all.

Sebi you said you don buy maternity gowns? Don't you do that cos your know you will get preggy soon? Where is your faith mummy? Pls pls pls, be strong and keep on with your faith and trust in God.

Your faith is a working tool in the hands of God, don't withdraw it. Above all, don't forget He cares for you sooooooo much and knows all your needs. Nourish your faith more love. It is well.

favored gal: Yesterday I got very bad appraisals at work. A "'. I have never gotten even a C in my 7 years of work so I felt enraged like my boss was picking on me. However, on getting home my hubs said he believes I deserve a 'D' that iv become a different,distracted, distant and unrecognizable person in recent times and went on to list a whole list of my wrongdoings

I was angry with him for not suppporting me but the more I think about it the more I realize they are all right

Ttc has changed me, for the first time in my life I'm failing,and I can't seem to help myself. I'm failing at concieving, I'm failing at my marriage, I'm failing at my job. I can't seem to get anything right anymore.
I don't know how to handle failure.

I'm so tired, I'm unmotivated, I'm frustrated, I think I'm tending towards depression. You know, like an out of body moment, I see myself spiralling down a dangerous path and I feel helpless to help myself or even pray or even encourage myself

. Am not in d best position to be advising u o, because I feel exactly d way u feel....but lets encourage ourselves noni! I guess its d best solution to dis very issue of ttc, I ve decided to surround myself with wonderful things and people dat make me happy, spice up my marriage life like @safe said and pray at every chance I get anywhere at anytime, I won't let him"GOD" rest o until he answers me, haba wetin I do! If at all I do bad make he forgive me o, e don do, I no go do am again.... Am sure we all want our bfp dis year. And so shall it be in sha Allah!

@Favoredgal, pls all iz well... My fellow mummies in d huz ave said it all,jst calm dwn and bear it in mind that bfp is our portion dis month and next.. God is in control.

@ favouredgal, they ve all said it all just ve faith and believe u are expecting a special child not just any child. So b courageous

House I beg make una help me pray o, though my cycle was imbalance so last month I took clomid and then my cd was 22 but now am on cd25 and still bf never show face. Am feeling pain in my lower abdomen but don't kw which pain is it whether for bfp or bf

@Opelistic,I pray it will turn out to be bfp. Did d clomid dry up ur cervical mucus? Cos a friend of mine that took it said it dried hers and witout cervical mucus,sperm can't swin to it destination..though some people don't notice any mucus at tall if they r ovulating.

No it doesn't , it was even after I started ovulating. I saw a slippery cm which I tested and it was it

Hello fruitful mamas. Wow a lot has been going on in the house.@ favouredgal i know exactly how you feel. We all pass tru dese feeling once in a while but i want to tell you something. The darkest part of the nite is in the morning so rejoice cos you are already victorious.Secondly i would want to advice that you take sometime and mind off ttc for a while so you can live your life. though its not easy its possible. focus on the good things that God has done and is doing for you.Tell him you know he can do it if he wants to and that he should take over cos you are tired.My dear its well with your soul. You need to brighten up so you can encourage your hubby. @all lets keep on keeping on God definately will see us tru.Shalom

@ Favoured Girl, you are not alone.

Babe, I feel exactly that way too. When AF showed up yesterday, I felt like ripping my tommy out. You know what, I came here today to tell our ladies that I am taking a break from ttc and this thread before I saw ur post. I am taking a big break o!!! E don do! Month after month, it is sucking my soul away and replacing it with a depressed monster. Mba! I was listening to a msg by my Pastor today and he specifically talked about ttc.

He said, ppl ttc should be careful not to put themselves in trouble because they want children. He said most ppl ttc are doing it to prove a point to themselves and the world that they are not failures, not because they really need children to survive. Many have put their lives and God's purpose for their lives on hold just because they want children. We were put on earth for several special purposes and having children is not it. Children are just an added gift and responsibility but not our sole purpose of living.

So after listening to it, I went and removed all my maternity clothes and put them in a bag, I will be away from this thread and all things ttc. Lemme give my soul some time to heal. I have become something that is not me. I know that at the right time, my babies will come. It is a fact that I dnt doubt for one bit so lemme stop 'helping God' and give myself peace. I want to genuinly smile and not smile cos it is expected at a particular time. I want to laugh without ttc reminding me that I am not happy. I want to relate with people's kids genuinely cos I naturally love kids, not becos I want God to see my efforts and reward me with mine.

Pls, this is my personal revelation. It doesnt apply to any other person here. I love you all and I'll definitely be back to read all our testimonies. God bless you.

@ Favoured Girl, you are not alone.

Babe, I feel exactly that way too. When AF showed up yesterday, I felt like ripping my tommy out. You know what, I came here today to tell our ladies that I am taking a break from ttc and this thread before I saw ur post. I am taking a big break o!!! E don do! Month after month, it is sucking my soul away and replacing it with a depressed monster. Mba! I was listening to a msg by my Pastor today and he specifically talked about ttc.

He said, ppl ttc should be careful not to put themselves in trouble because they want children. He said most ppl ttc are doing it to prove a point to themselves and the world that they are not failures, not because they really need children to survive. Many have put their lives and God's purpose for their lives on hold just because they want children. We were put on earth for several special purposes and having children is not it. Children are just an added gift and responsibility but not our sole purpose of living.

So after listening to it, I went and removed all my maternity clothes and put them in a bag, I will be away from this thread and all things ttc. Lemme give my soul some time to heal. I have become something that is not me. I know that at the right time, my babies will come. It is a fact that I dnt doubt for one bit so lemme stop 'helping God' and give myself peace. I want to genuinly smile and not smile cos it is expected at a particular time. I want to laugh without ttc reminding me that I am not happy. I want to relate with people's kids genuinely cos I naturally love kids, not becos I want God to see my efforts and reward me with mine.

Pls, this is my personal revelation. It doesnt apply to any other person here. I love you all and I'll definitely be back to read all our testimonies. God bless you.

Hello everyone, Favored girl it is well with you, I can so feel you right now, I am one to encourage myself and others around me, but now everything seems to be falling apart for me right now, I will be 4 years in marriage in two weeks time still no baby the worst part DH has changed drastically towards me, he doesn't talk about TTC he pretends to be supportive but has no patience with me, before I say anything the shout I hear it's just too much, am beginning to loose myself I don't even know what I am living for if not God, that's all I can do hold on to this God no matter what happens let his will be done in my life. Will never give up on him, just expect everyone to hold on to him also no matter your situation.

I just remembered. He also said that our tears dnt move God. If God was moved by tears, so many people in this world will not be suffering. The bible says, without FAITH it is IMPOSSIBLE to please God. Whether you cry from today till Jesus comes, you will only give yourselves swollen eyes, puffy faces and headache. All we need is to keep declaring God's words concerning our lives without doubting for a second. The bible says in Rom 4 vs 17

 17  (As it is written, I have made thee a father of many nations,) before him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were. note

 18  Who against hope believed in hope, that he might become the father of many nations; according to that which was spoken, So shall thy seed be.

NOTE! 19  And being not weak in faith, he considered not his own body now dead, when he was about an hundred years old, neither yet the deadness of Sarah's womb:

NOTE THIS PART! 20  He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strong in faith, giving glory to God;

 21  And being fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform.

 22  And therefore it was imputed to him for righteousness.

Read the whole of Rom 4 and you'll see that we might be the ones standing in the way of our miracles. Just believe and doubt not, whatever we see. Do you know that praying for something over and over again is a big sign of unbelief? It means we dnt believe God heard us and did it the first time. Before we were even born, Jesus said It is finished! It means God has finished doing everything for us, it is left for us to make those things come to us through faith and confession.

So my dear Ladies, I have decided not to pray or ask God for children again. I'll pray for everyone else in the world and the challenges facing Nations and the Church (body of Christ). As for my babies, I am only thanking God for they are here already and I'll keep confessing that!