@ Atanda do not lose hope. My sisters have said a lot but the question i want to ask is,is this the first time he is doing this tests? In all the time you have being TTC has he never done a test? If yes what has changed since then? To find a solution you need to trace the root cause of the problem. I blve that before you were referred for ivf you must have done some basic tests ko? Anyhow,the way forward,our sisters have come up with wonderful sugestions,key into them. God bless.
Back to chewing mustard seed and seeping ACV

@ AtandaatiAdisa, It's well with u. I know exactly how u feel but plssssss be courageous. Ur hubby needs u so dearly @ dz moment of his life. U are God'sent to his life, pls dnt give up now. The darkest part of d night, they say, is close to d morning. Winners neva quit and quiters neva win. It's not over, until you say it's over. I have neva seen any problem without a solution on earth except death. That means there still hope for ur hubby. U shall testify soon. @ Santagelo, God will see u through sir. U will be a father by God's grace.

@Atanda, stay strong by the grace of God u'll have ur own babies. No one can know exactly how u feel exactly how u feel except u. God the great healer will heal u and surprise u for good.
Just have faith and at the end u'll have a testimony.

[quote author=prettyrosefave@Molola, you can get mustard seed @ oyingbo, where they sell church things. I don't know how to describe that area, there is this place they see ugu plenty plenty, enter from there, or ask questions when you get to cornoil filling station. I did use the leave not the seed, but I also heard the seed is more helpful so you can try it, though I heard taking it had to do with courage, not too palatable. I guess u can ground it or blend it to powder, that way you can take it and flush it down with water. I usually blend the moringa leave, I got origina honey from shop right, so I mix it with it as sweetner, so I take it easily.

As for the mustard seed, I chew it raw, though not easy ooo, but I need result, you can take the moringa first thing in the morning as well as the mustard seed. You will see the cramps will stop. Mustard seed is very good for seedling fibroid, kill it fast.


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My dear that one will be hard ooo! as i am based in Zamfara state. I'll try to get it when next i go to kaduna. thanks.

Wow! Its been a while I posted. My apologies all. Though I read all posts often. I pray that the Lord will bless all our Sisters keeping this thread alive in very special ways.

@Atanda: It is well O! You will rejoice in your home and your children will surround your table. Just believe. Thank God, you're calmer now, thank God for the advices of our Moms and Dad here. Talking from experience, divorce is not a solution to marital issues. God bless you.

@Udoka and all Preggy Moms: Thanks for always making yourself and LO available (I believe the baby in the womb is consious of its Mom's activities. God bless you all.

@All: Have a BLESSED night rest.

WOW PREETYLEE N SLIMPHEMIE,CONGRATS.SO HAPPY FOR U.@PINKY,GODS NAME BE PRAISED.
@HAWTMUMMIE,FX FOR U.
@ ALL HOPE WE R ALL DOIN GUD. MISSED US ALL

heyyyyy see lovie lovie oooo,i thank una plenty,truely ur prayers n love has kept me strong through this exam period,i cant stop peepin in even in class to see hw una dey do.tnk u one by one for all yur goodwill messages,infact i dey wonder as plenty of yu got my number,received loads of voice mail from some you,am so sorry i wasnt there to take ur calls,exam no gree me cough.

I hope to be free this weekend,so i'd have time to respond to my mails.God bless you ALL abundantly.

Hmmm @atanda tk ur time oooo,this is a ttc forum nt divorce thread,for the mere fact u hv voiced it out my God will visit u soonest,prepare for triplet,2guys n a gal.u will quote me wen d time comes,we love u,pls dnt weary.

Am in bed,very tired,hope to chat wit u soon.

Honeypie dear, ow jacking? I trust u, u be efiko!
I sent u a mail, did u get it?

@bcholar yes sweerie,it should be dere,hvnt actually looked in,will do dat over d weekend,efiko ke?hahaha well God dey,we cant ask 4 more,sleep tight love.

Chi16: @dreamsinbic my love.... Is God's doing.. Wen my dh SA came out azoo. He was depressed and tired of life.thank God i stood by him to encouraged him with d word of God dt never fails. We went to diff.hospital for solution. Alot of test was carried on him both test.icular scan and hormonal assay. Everything came out fine except culture dt indicated staph. We treated staph and it goes and comes back but yet no improvement on count. One faithful day i was browsing tru my phone book and i saw a homopathy doctor number dt treated me of painful mens.trat.tion during my sch days. I caled him and told him my dh issue. He gave us herbs for boosting and infection and equally instructed us on what to eat and what not to eat. He eats more of organic foods,fruits and veggies,cut off sugery and cold things completely. My sisters,this jorney is not easy but one thing i kn for sure is that God is too faithful to fail. @all...sory for my long post

Hi chi,
your posts are very encouraging. My hubby and I have been battling with male infertility for 5yrs. We have done all medical interventions including 3 failed IVF with ICSI, IUI.

My hubby just started taking fertilaid for men to see if his boys will increase and behave themselves.
My sister this journey is not easy, but with God's strength and mercy we will overcome.

How do you handle questions from your in-laws? I have been isolating myself from them to avoid any questions. ofcourse all eyes are on me. Our culture still look at infertility as a woman's fault.

pls can I email you?

@Dreamsinbic and Faith...my email add : babyto16@yahoo.com and homopathy doc's no:
08 0 : 38 : 288:0:83; his name is dr. Ozondu. He resides in imo state.@faith...my dear...sorry abt d failed ivf. God wi beautify ur union with children. As per in-laws palava, I av bin isolating myself from relatives and in-laws. I even changed my phone number of recent because am always depressed wenever dey called me due to their negatives words. Dear...it is only d word of God dt strengthen me.i love my man very much and i can't stand hurting him or seeing him hurt and he loves me too. I kn is not easy but we sha overcome. @honiepie..hop u ar strong now? @all...we sha overcome.

Morning all, Please I need someone to help me out with the best natural way to cleanse/detox!!! Thanks

Good Moning beautiful Mom and Dad
Slimphemmie and preTtyLee, Congrats and I wish u a strressfree 9month pregs.
@AtandaatiAdisa, and all those whose hubby are going thru Azoo, pls follow Chi16 advice. She is d one dat advice me on the livestyle to live on and I knw dat there shall be testimonies.
@Chi16 I will soon give u d full details of hw far DH test and result are.
As touching d inlaw stuff, when my MIL wahala is too much on me (cos we stay in d same state capital) and dnt want 2suffer in silent, I had to tell dem wat is going on so as for dem to knw dat am nt d one having problem (as a matter of fact I am medically ok) and since then, they have been treating me like queen (scared f nt leavimg their son, lols).
I wish everyone BFPs

Good morning mummies n daddies of great generation. Hope we r all good. @ Atanda, sisters n brothers have said it all. Love they say conquers all. Pray, feed dh well make him not to stress or think too much. I always believe that a problem known is half solved. Kindly check bro sotum's posts. I think he went for deliverance. You n dh can go for mfm on sat. Start from there. God can do all things.

my schedule was postponed to tuesday,so am free today,missed y'all.

@enkay hi,i wonder wat ur choice might be,but i advice peepz to use edmark shake off,i used it n many oda ppl hv used it wit positive result.if this seems to b okay wit u,then i'd giv u direction on hw to use it,g'luck dear.

@bcholar n everyone else that mailed me,am workin on it,by evenin wil respond,jus trin to dig out d best i cn get 4 u.

4 vaginiosis get a good quantity of hot watter in basin,add salt to a point u cn taste the salt in the water,sit in (deep)for 20-30mins each time,do it for 3days.then wen symtoms clear,offcourse it will c.u.r.e it,maintain good hygiene wit acv(oral n douche)an wash ur underwears n dat of dh includin ur wash cloth nd towel also in acv dilluted water,n spread out under the sun to avoid yeast grouth n reinfection.another point we tend to over look is our beddings(bedsheet,bed cover etc)we sumtimes sit bare bum on it thereby transferin d kini on it,so include it in d acv wash.if possible wash n soak in dilluted acv water over night b4 spreadin strictly under d sun.

@ Honeypie24,

Hi dear, I was just about asking about the best way to detox when I saw your post this morning. I have used Edmark shake off twice. The first time, I felt so much pains after drinking it and didn't even go to toilet more than twice. I used it for about 10 days and didn't notice the experience I read that others had on the internet. I don't know whether I uded a fake one. On another occasion, I took two from a friend and drank it and I didn't have the pains as before. Pls what's the best way to use edmark to detox? Thanks a lot.

@ honeypie24, I'm ok with edmark shake off. Please give me directions on how to use it as I intend to buy it later today. Thanks alot. You're indeed a honeypie...

@safilicious u no go kill me hahaha,yu knw i ve bn preaching trevo as well.actually trevo contains over 172 essential fruits n anti oxidant that kips ur whole system on point,but darlyn hw can ur system be on point wit residues,toxins nd radical cloggin to ur organs,trevo is nt able to remove already accumulated toxins rather it kips d new ones dat r yet to build up away.U CAN NEVA HV A DELICIOUS SOUP FROM A DIRTY POT,nomata d amount of orishirishi u put.u need to wash it first b4 settin out 4 a new one,or else d sour soup left over will mess ur new prep up,jus as simple as that.its actually obvious that one is expected to lose a reasonable amount of weight after detox because the amount of toxic build up in our body over the yrs is quite massive so in average u r xpected to lose on average between 5 nd 14pounds after a properly done detox.so for u that dosnt nid weightloss,use acv instead n drink lots of water,though acv,trevo n shake off all hv potentials of weightloss.so do it wit care.mnuah

@Chi16, thank you. I've passed the info.

@uche yes actually sh.a.ke off has loads of fake,like u xperienced d one ur cousin gave u dint present stomach ache n constipation lik d one u bought,findout frm her where she got hers n maybe buy frm there.the secret to usin this product is drinkin lots of water.it helps to keep the organ(intestine open)for free flow of the toxins,so u can easily poop dem out,it also helps soften then to easily lose their grip frm ur organs(u know wen u hv a burnt pot,for bad cooks o,nt 4 ppl lik us,eyez rolling,haha,u add water to d pot to ease d burnt particles frm d pot)its same wit drinkin water durin detox,wen u dnt drink enough water after takin d detox it wil stil manage to ease itsself frm ur organ but it wil b in big lumps,forcin itself tru ur intestine,that is the reason for the stomach ache,n offcourse u cant pass it out,that will lead to constipation(that is inability to pass feaces naturally)hope u understood my japanese language,ask further if u nid more clarification.

@enkay tnk u darl.for detox wit shake off,get one sachet from the pack,open n pour content into a cup of room temperature water,stir briskly and drink immediately,dnt allow the foamin to settle,its that foam bubbles that is the catalyst that aids the detox,if u hv a shaker(that is a cup that has tight lid or cover,u can prepare ur shakeoff in it and shake vigourously then drink immediately b4 it settles)someone posted her experience after detoxin wit shake off,u can read bk 4 it,but everyone has a diffrent body response to med n supps.if urs isnt as wow as hers dosnt mean it dint work,move on to d nxt level as far as u knw u did everyfin correctly.it starts to work in 8hrs(thats d pooin bgins after 8hrs)u cn get a clean lil container lik custard bucket to monitor wat u poop.cheerz dear.

@honiepie, please i sent you a mail,abeg relpy ooooo

Honiepie24: @enkay tnk u darl.for detox wit shake off,get one sachet from the pack,open n pour content into a cup of room temperature water,stir briskly and drink immediately,dnt allow the foamin to settle,its that foam bubbles that is the catalyst that aids the detox,if u hv a shaker(that is a cup that has tight lid or cover,u can prepare ur shakeoff in it and shake vigourously then drink immediately b4 it settles)someone posted her experience after detoxin wit shake off,u can read bk 4 it,but everyone has a diffrent body response to med n supps.if urs isnt as wow as hers dosnt mean it dint work,move on to d nxt level as far as u knw u did everyfin correctly.it starts to work in 8hrs(thats d pooin bgins after 8hrs)u cn get a clean lil container lik custard bucket to monitor wat u poop.cheerz dear.

Response To A Few Mails I Received.

@Uche M,u asked about skin infection,bacteria,yeast nd staph(all topical)

if you use a bath tub(preferable),fill it
with hot water,add a large handful of mint leaves and allow it to steep untill the water is bearable for soakin the whole body.remove the leaves and add one teaspoon of baking soda then soak in the bath 4 as long as possible.use a soft cloth to gently rub the skin while soaking,(pls dnt use soap)dry wit clean towel n dress in clean sun dried cloth,change bedding.do this everyday 4 3days n skin infection shud clear up.

just to add to what honipie said, shake off is a product that high fibre content. it contains a high level oats which allows for easy movement of the bowels. You can look up the contents. I have also marketed this product to many pple and believe me they always come back to thank me. Yes you loose weight afterwards but that is becos waste products have left ur system. Also, it is impt dat you take it last thing in the night. Shake well as directd and drink immediately. pls take only after Af. pregnant women should never take it.
Shake off is a gud way to start off before medication. it creates a platform dat enables the medication to respond faster. I wish us all the best and may God bless all our efforts. Amen.

@uteh yes i got ur mail,lets nt go into details,1tblspn of acv n 1tblspn of bsm in 10oz of water 2 to 3times daily.tk vitex(chasteberry)n 1300mg of evenin prime rose,tk it 4 a while n let us knw hw u feel.

@biola for reoccurant yeast,drink 1tspn of bakin soda in 2ounce of cooled boiled water(that is boil the water,wen it cools off yu add the bakin soda)thats all,its a once of protocol.u cn continue wit trevo,its wards of infection n boosts immunity because it contains lots of vitamins frm fruits.u can also tk acv in dilluted water after about a wk of bn on trevo,then return to trevo for anoda one wk,continue alternatively lik this until ur trevo finishes then u stick to acv only,bt if u can afford to buy another bottle of trevor dat wil b fine,u never never hv too much of vitamins(as far as u remain within d stated prescribed dose)

Thank you @honeypie24.

I can now understand the reason for the pains. I wasn't taking water then but the second time, I was on a water routine takine as much as 5 litres daily. Also I used to mix it and then take time (to gather morale) before drinking it. This usually takes up to 30 mins. Would try again. God bless you for your selfless effort.

hai @ chinma nwannem,daalu,ur school fees where nt in vain.

Adaora,i dnt fink u got a problem,hv u heard the sayin that an apple a day kips d doctor away.u said u aint married to ur bobo yet,but u r scared u ve bn hvin unprotected bd wit him 4 about 6mnths nw yet no preggo,maybe God is regulatin it 4 u nd preparin it 4 d best time after ur wedding.stop bn anscious n ttc wen u aint married,ur dh to be is healthy n so is r u.check for organic apple juice(san cruz)and baby n me multivitamin,since u liv abroad(its all over in preconception dept.of big drug stalls) this two in combo boosts fertility nd relaxes ur hormones in prep 4 conception.b4 d D-day u wil hv a full blown pregnancy if u dnt tk time.dnt cry lik prettylee abeg,get bk to me once u get d products.lets watch finz togeda,u hear?

@Chi16,
Thank you so much for the info. I sent you an email yesterday from ujunwa89@yahoo.com I'm glad your MIL treats you well which is the most important thing. As for me, both my MIL and FIL are late not that it makes any difference. I get along with everyone, just that I try to avoid any conversation that may lead to family discussion. Due to time difference, I may not be able to reply immediately. We reside in Canada.

Nne stay strong for this too shall pass. Jesus is Lord.

loldar2000: As touching d inlaw stuff, when my MIL wahala is too much on me (cos we stay in d same state capital) and dnt want 2suffer in silent, I had to tell dem wat is going on so as for dem to knw dat am nt d one having problem (as a matter of fact I am medically ok) and since then, they have been treating me like queen (scared f nt leavimg their son, lols).

hahaha u r so funny. It's well.

@atanda&adisa,the lord is your strength. Dont make the mistake of divorcing ur DH,pls remember the vow. l pray that the lord in his mercy is going to see u through. Pls follow the advices of our mothers and fathers here.

@honiepie,welldone my sister.

@all, Hope you are good.

@honeypie, how are ur exams? Keep up the good work. I also want to detox so how long should one do it at a stretch and that will be how many satchets.

@chidinma, Most of those that sell edmark shake off sell the whole pack so pls do u sell in satchets?