loleeta199:

married ,what can u do if blackmailed by lover with sex films and fotos?

loleeta199:

married ,what can u do if blackmailed by lover with sex films and fotos?

agathamari:

what would piss off your hubby more. you telling himhonestly what happend or you ling about it when he sees the tapes. if you love your husband tell him or are you only sorry about the fact you got caught?

ifyalways:

where are u from,where do u stay and where is the loverboy from

THE AMAKA:

seriously, hold up!!
im really starting to think why people get married anymore.
is it pressure from aging, pressure from parents/family, pressure from your spouse?
if you cant trust him, WHY ARE YOU MARRIED?
some people are always doubting their lover after marriage, even after the marriage has JUST taken place.
i mean, are you serious?

there was another thread of a girl saying that her husband was sleeping with his ex and that he still texts her and such, and he doesnt want to cut off contact with her. and he is STILL SLEEPING WITH HER.
the female knew about this ongoing relationship with the ex PRIOR to the marriage. and she STILL MARRIED HIM.


well ,i never have the time or never care if my husband was cheating on me , it was pressure from parents to marry coz we r 4 girls in the house and as usual one after another and hurridly, my bf ws a great boy and lot of girls was chasing him and i taught i was lucky till i fall. even a lot of married ladies and by jokes some time they passs news of going out with bf and u know there is a lot of them ,some are seriously responsible ladies. only lucky ones survives, till now no body answer me what to do rather than telling my hubby.

loleeta199:

am not nigerian but west african not far from u , one hour flight , the so called lover is my country man.

loleeta199:

married ,what can u do if blackmailed by lover with sex films and fotos?

sexyLeamon:

pls explain in depth

loleeta199:

my bf and i were neighbours we started our relation 6 years back , now am 24 n he is 26. i gave him all the love and he too show that he is to be trusted .i got married 2007 , under family pressure to a man 10 years older than me, surly he is not my dream man even my bf blessed this marriage for his unability to open house and marry me, for the past 2 years i shared my sex life with my bf mostly till just recently when he sent this bad news to me through a text.i couldnt beleive it first but it was a reality, he never asked for any thing in compansation again jut threating me to send fotos and clips to my husband .once he told me that he wants all my jewelery and money ,i can give my jewelery but where is the money coming from , my husband is a business man but give a little every day to care for the house , there is no saving at all and this is what i told him, after that he never asked me ,he might be waiting for my offer.

loleeta199:

thanks to all ,is there any one who experienced this situation?

wisecutie:

I cant say here.Will tell you how exactly to get out of this shit by email or phone.try create a new 'fake' email if u like.Your problem is solved(not as easy as it sounds though).That's all