Adeevah:
Who knows what she has done in the past too




#with other people's men
God have mercy on us all



To other men commenting
Tell us you are clean too

Thank you jare. Dont mind these hypocrites

Thought marriage is the latest trophy in town! Let em enjoy it... at least while it lasts.
People just keep getting married, probably to feel among?

Abel202:
All these immature newly weds and the silly advisers who knows no better.
Look O.P just tell the lady to confront her husband. He loves her and will of course moderate his ways. As for her girlfriends, those are not good to have as friends. But thinking of divorce already within 3 months of marriage because her husband is doing what almost every married Nigerian man is doing is so so ridiculous that am almost falling off my chair laughing. Just because her husband is doing some side chick and some people are saying divorce, so amusing. The husband should have some bounderies and be more discreet. His wife's friends are a no no. The relationships were on before he got married, but he should end it henceforth.

In Nigeria almost every married woman knows that her husband cheats or is bound to cheat at one point in time or another. It doesn't mean the man doesn't love his wife, its just part of the game. ''Responsible'' married men only find a way to be more discreet. But if the woman tries it, fiam you are sent off your husband's home, no apologies. This is Nigeria and Africa. You either accept things as they are or you go pay the bride price of a man, marry him, feed him, house him, clothe him, take care of his kids etc, then and only then you can expect him not to try some side chick even though you always complain of being tired instead of giving him the egusi to chop when ever he wants it. Accept that this is Nigeria, Men are bound to be men, and everyone shall live happily ever after.

If you like divorce your husband now - but be rest assured that you will keep marrying and divorcing Nigerian men till you go to the moon and find yourself a faultless extra terrestrial. Or you just stay single without forming any relationship with any man till the rest of your life.
Oya let the attack begin..

Its sad that you're putting the blame on her husband's infidelity on her, and justifying his randiness.

The fact that the man is an African or Nigerian doesn't give him any special privilege to cheat on his wife. For crying out loud, the marriage is only 3 months old. What did his wife do to him to warrant such heartless acts of infidelity from him?

If I were in the woman's shoes, I would seriously consider filing for divorce. Or alternatively, she could forgive him but cut off her relationship with the two whores she thought were her friends.

U didn't notice it when courting or U thought he will change now U are .complain. good luck to u

My sister, take this advise. Confront him immediately and. let him know you 're really disappointed. If he is sober and ready to repent, accept him. Otherwise, you know what to do. As paryour friends, do nothing. God bless you marriage.

Deux:
A friend is going thru a rough patch with her marriage, the marriage is barely three months, and it's about to b torn apart due to perceived cheating and infidelity from her husband with her two closest pals

In her own words... "I just discovered that my husband is cheating on me. I went through his phone and saw his chats with two different girls. The most painful thing is that the two girls are my closest friends. They were both part of my bridal train three months ago and we already have plans to go for a relative burial again this month, that shows how close we are. Surprisingly, one of the girls that exchange nudes with my husband has it all planned to get married this September after her fiance proposed to her couple of months to my wedding, but here she is sleeping with my husband. I'm confused "

Pls note that she's currently left the house.

I will post the screen shots of their chats except the ones with the nude pictures.



http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/07/read-this-embarassing-conversation.html?m=1

What I think is this..
1. From the look of things OP, ur friends husband is a sex addict.
Have she tried to please him sexualy most of the time, because if she isn't, really that's a more reason why he'll cheat.
Let her just try to give him more attention relating to sex and see if he turns a new leaf, but if he doesn't then I guess he need serious prayers

threads like this make me miss Kanwuliajara

Why her friends? That makes it worse.

Mor0n

Abel202:
All these immature newly weds and the silly advisers who knows no better.
Look O.P just tell the lady to confront her husband. He loves her and will of course moderate his ways. As for her girlfriends, those are not good to have as friends. But thinking of divorce already within 3 months of marriage because her husband is doing what almost every married Nigerian man is doing is so so ridiculous that am almost falling off my chair laughing. Just because her husband is doing some side chick and some people are saying divorce, so amusing. The husband should have some bounderies and be more discreet. His wife's friends are a no no. The relationships were on before he got married, but he should end it henceforth.

In Nigeria almost every married woman knows that her husband cheats or is bound to cheat at one point in time or another. It doesn't mean the man doesn't love his wife, its just part of the game. ''Responsible'' married men only find a way to be more discreet. But if the woman tries it, fiam you are sent off your husband's home, no apologies. This is Nigeria and Africa. You either accept things as they are or you go pay the bride price of a man, marry him, feed him, house him, clothe him, take care of his kids etc, then and only then you can expect him not to try some side chick even though you always complain of being tired instead of giving him the egusi to chop when ever he wants it. Accept that this is Nigeria, Men are bound to be men, and everyone shall live happily ever after.

If you like divorce your husband now - but be rest assured that you will keep marrying and divorcing Nigerian men till you go to the moon and find yourself a faultless extra terrestrial. Or you just stay single without forming any relationship with any man till the rest of your life.
Oya let the attack begin..

MizMyColi:
Are you a cheat as well?

I mean, do you do other women's men/husbands?

My reason for asking is that you are mostly what you attract to yourself.

Now, don't get me wrong, I understand that no matter how good a person is, there will always be bad eggs in their lives.
But for these bad eggs to be people from whom you share same meal, bed and body?
This is serious!

If you truly know that you have done absolutely nothing to deserve the kind of people who are in your life, please cut all ties.

I know it hurts. It's okay to grieve.
But while at it, please remember that where there is life, hope abounds.
Grieve, be sad, feel as you want to.
But try to be happy again. Truly happy.
You
If I were you, I will not allow that man touch me without going for HIV testing.

It's understandable if he shags just one of your close friends, but TWO simultaneously?

His case is Spiritual.

Good one ....
You said it all with Maturity ....

kai...some girls n peeps have gone insane just by d story...they've taken d matter so meanly n deeply serious dat some dont even know wat they are typing again......lol....some has gone berseck...wat they deduce, notting

just three months? afraid is catching me

Chaiiii.
This is a real
Endtime husband.

How help me not to be like him.




I'll




Advice you
Divorce
The
Cheating
Bastard.

Rubbish..stop boring us with this screenshot bullshit

I cant stay lailai,hope she find peace and stay strong to leave,the guy does not worth it

Juxtified:


No, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying its her bad. The guy definitely misbehaved and doesn't seem like someone who'll repent on being caught or confronted. What I'm trying to say is, if you don't know what to do next or are not prepared to face the hard truth, why bother to go through your partner's phone?
From the way I see it - and that is the bitter truth for any realistic person - that marriage is already over. But is the woman ready to leave the marriage? Now that she has gone through the phone and confirmed her fear, will she sit on her butt crying for help or do the smart thing and get a divorce?

Omo dis ur snap shot dey make my working stick underneath me dey wake up oo.,bt anyways jst apply wisdom in anyting u do concerning dis

girl4rmspace:


speechless that's how you make me feel when am with you i am lost for words and nothing is for real. I love those mj lyrics

#Legend

the society is just too corrupt...everything is now a normal thing....shameless married man. a cheating bf...will become a cheating husband...thats the fact!

Even if he begs you and you settle this issue, your husband is still going to continue phucking different girls. That's just what he probably enjoys. Most of the girls making noise here don't know what thier husbands or boyfriends are doing out there.

E no easy for man to just dey browse one website every time. Like it or not, men will always cheat, especially when they are money.

Lol...just by reading the chat,u know exactly the kind of person Nike is..a no good idiot, that can't complete a correct sentence.. how that village reject take dey write exam for the school make she dey self..

Mehn...just look at at height of irresponsibility from Mr. Lanre O...a whole married man.

Also, from my expi, some female names are unrepentantly and haplessly promiscuous...names like - Bukky (aka Bukola), Bose (especially), Nike, Dayo, Tope and 'most' names ending in "-at" (e.g. Seliat, Kafayat, Ganiyat, sadiat, abbl) SMH

[b]the way and manner most of you use the word divorce en, it baffles me because majority of you know nothing about the institution called marriage. He committed a sin(obviously) and you asking for his head? Does this mean we should all be purnished for every and any sin we have committed(past n present? C'mon guys, we should be preaching forgiveness and the importance of communication in any love-relationship.

My dear, its a painful seeing someone u love betray u in such manner.

My advice is take some time off, a day or two, relax. It hurts but u have to forgive and hopefully forget with time. Talk to him, be honest and open up, let him know his actions has created a hole in the trust you have for him.

My worry is this, for him to be flirting with 2 of ur friends, it raises question on ur person(show me ur friend and I'll tell u who u are). U should have created some little space and give out less info about ur marriage/hubby to ur frnds(esp if u actually know the kind of man u r married to. [/b]

Despite the fact that your still fresh from the oven he cheats on you with your so called friend. Well, confront him about it and if he doesn't feel remorse, walk away from the marriage. Just 3months after your wedding this is happening, imagine when its 3years

All this edible catering will not leave other people's husband alone.

denko:
IF THIS OP WAS A VIRGIN BEFORE GETTING MARRIED THEN THE MAN IS GONNA PAY FOR THIS ATROCITIES IF NOT SHE SHOULD NOT CAST STONE SETTLE WITH YOUR HUSBAND AMICABLY

Most sensible post on this thread. People do a lot of atrocities but seek pity and claim righteous when payback comes.

HaneefahRN:


How can just one person have 2 Oloshos as friend? People are wicked sha

It says a lot about the kind of being the lady is. Undoubtedly, she chose her supposedly best friends and assumedly made the choice of who to marry. One attracts what he/she deserves..

My advice: She should take a break and think through how she has found this kind of people as her destiny influencers.. The result of that search process will be crucial to her life..
How've you been?

wizflower:
Despite the fact that your still fresh from the oven he cheats on you with your so called friend. Well, confront him about it and if he doesn't feel remorse, walk away from the marriage. Just 3months after your wedding this is happening, imagine when its 3years

She's not fresh from oven. She had previously had 17 sex mates

elipheleh:

She's not fresh from oven. She had previously had 17 sex mates

But their marriage is fresh. Understand where am going owk

lemme cum beofre i go out hahahaha, conji.

Which home?foolishness on increase.

Inspectahdeck:
There is a saying "show me your friend and..."

Also, I blame the ladies for chatting with her husband and even sending a picture.

Please tell her to go back to her home before one of these ladies enter. Too early to walk out of her home.

We all need to accommodate our excesses, not only the fun and enjoyment.

Finally, the guy needs serious words, he should get a mentor. I learnt a lot from my mentor.

you playing with what is making a fellow woman cry.

kayalla:
lemme cum beofre i go out hahahaha, conji.

Most LADIES are just objects of mere satisfaction to the MEN.
That's why I always advice Guys to go for YOUNG LADIES since the BRAIN OF LADIES never Mature.

She has already started sending Pictures.
Women fall in LOVE, foolishly.
For the man, he is a disgrace to DICKSON