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The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Naijasinglegirl: 1:48pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
A man who is older than you and pays the bills feels you owe him. He is entrenched in his life and you would have to conform to his way of living. If he’s used to storing milk in an old custard container, eating eba at 5am in the morning, not shaving his kini or sleeping naked, don’t expect him to stop just because you’ve arrived on the scene. He is not adventurous He will think you are mad if you tell him to wear the dog or coachfella filter on Snapchat. He thinks you spend too much time with your phone. He cannot spontaneously hop on a plane and travel with you because he has a board meeting in two days. Sometimes he look really old Especially when he does something you find really upsetting. You start to wonder if he is going through late life crisis. Conversations can be difficult Sometimes you just want to talk about Wizkid tweets and he just wants to talk about the tiny scar on his right arm he sustained during the Nigerian civil war. Family Tension It's possible that your family would have difficulty adjusting to and accepting your mate if he's close to your parents in age, or not far from it. Some things are permanent He is more likely to have a pot belly and a bit of wrinkle here and there. Also, if he is terrible in bed at his age, he will always be terrible since he refused to learn work when he was young. He might see you as a maternal figure During the courtship stage, he might expect you to do perform maternal rules. Certain things like take care of his laundry, cook, house keeping etc He might not be romantic His idea of a romantic evening might be taking you to a joint where smoked fish and small stout is sold. He sees little difference between May 27th and February 14th. You cannot buy him chocolates because his doctor warned it would trigger his arthritis. He is an upcoming ancestor If he's really old, his years on earth are numbered and this fact would give you sleepless night. Dealing with Stereotypes The most well-known negative stereotype associated with significant age differences between young women and older men is the "sugar daddy" stereotype, which suggests that an older man is financially generous with a younger woman in exchange for her company. Public reception of you and your older mate may reflect this stereotype, which could generate stares and whispers from passersby. www.naijasinglegirl.com/dating-an-older-man-the-cons/ 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by HungerBAD: 1:49pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Senseless post. Do you women even know what you want?okay list the advantages of dating a younger(mommy's boy)guy?this stereotyping of men should stop. Lost it when you added Wizkid tweets,how old is this poster?and sometimes he looks really old?Are you serious?why go into the relationship with him before if he is older? Life is about choices. There are people that prefer dating only older people,and there are those that will only date young people. Both have their reasons why,and no matter what the outside world sees or say,they in the relationship know why they are in it. Bianca and Ojukwu comes into mind. All relationships have both advantages and disadvantages,even if you date your age mates. 13 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Hunger is really bad 7 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by bigiyaro(m): 1:52pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Wats the moral of this post? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by IHATEPUZZY(m): 1:54pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by VampireeM(f): 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Myopic. Different Strokes for Different Folks |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Dotwillis1(m): 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
siddan there, they make big money rubbing an ugly rich man's bellie |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by onstelly(f): 2:00pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by mizzbouqui(f): 2:11pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Is the op referring to sugar daddy or real marriage because I don't understand, moreover why will I want to date an older man, young men don finish for earth? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by ireneony(f): 2:11pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Op i like older men 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by BoboFashion(m): 2:14pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
ireneony: Like 50 yrs up? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Nasri100(m): 2:18pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Like i had a stroke reading this. Makes no sense. Use ur talent for something else Op, like writing sport articles. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Firstlieutenant(m): 2:31pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
ireneony: Until u kill them with ya vibrant poocee. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by dannyben5: 2:36pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
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Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by KillerBeauty(f): 3:45pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Naijasinglegirl post is just getting drier and drier these days 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Debbywills(f): 3:54pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Those characters you listed are being exhibited by older men. Say sugar daddies Ordinarily, A lady is supposed to date or marry a man that is older than her, say 5-10 years gap maximum. Anything other than that is something else 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by ifymagik(m): 4:24pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
mizzbouqui: Why am I seeing u everywhere? Have u become Mtn? Why do I have to see you everywhere I go? Na Waoo 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by greatiyk4u(m): 4:31pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
VampireeM: Do you do "old men"? Why the pain? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by mizzbouqui(f): 4:38pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
ifymagik:Where and where have you seen me? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Debbywills: I get your point to the op but I disagree with the bolded. She isn't supposed to because there's no law stating that she should. 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by ifymagik(m): 4:51pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:Why u just dey block space upandan? Na u be Queeen of romanceland? Haba |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Gbemiie: 5:30pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Smh... Warishe saying |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
How e go learn work and why can't she learn too abi is it only the guy who enjoys sex? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by pedrilo: 6:28pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
VampireeM:e clear say na oldies u dey gbadun |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by titosantana(m): 6:36pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Na so, but young guys too take their babe to beer parlour joint. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by sainttwist1(m): 6:59pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
chai......op get experience gan, SA on sugar daddy or minister for sugar daddy......na joke ooo |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by hefelove(m): 7:43pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:no mind op jare meanwhile hello bae lemme be ur shege ur helper |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by ClassCaptain(m): 7:52pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by mizzbouqui(f): 8:12pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
hefelove:That won't be necessary |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by MissRike(f): 8:18pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Op, I think everything you said has to do with the older guys you've met. Personally, I prefer older guys (like 6-10 years older than I am) coz most of them are more matured and I think they know how to treat a lady better than these small boys based on their experiences.......not all though 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Dating An Older Man by rittyben(f): 8:09pm On Jul 19, 2016 |
This is so very true and real. Ok you are point |
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