The best way to ruin a perfectly good sexy time is to keep enquiring whether your woman orgasmed. At the end of the day it will do more harm than good to your sex life.

Due to the desire for men to make their partners achieve orgasm, most have taken to asking this question after, or even during sex; Did you cum? You might think you are asking out of concern and this is supposed to show how passionate you are about pleasing her, but here are 5 big reasons why this is a terrible idea, and what you should do instead.

Read more at: http://www.wegist.com/2016/07/5-big-reasons-never-to-ask-her-if-she.html

Jhordan:

Op, did you say orgasm? please forget it., this is Nigeria a large percentage (about 70%) of Nigerian women have never and can never achieve/experience orgasm because they have been genitally mutilated while young.

I don't know what even makes Nigerian guys think women like/want sex. At times I have seen some guys make erroneous claims on this forum that women even want it as much as men do but just pretending. This is a Blatant lie as its not biologically correct. (except for very rare cases of nymphomaniacs)

Considering the fact that women have low androgen thus low libido, the circumcision(genital mutilation) further kills the libido and makes sex a painful experience especially for those that were grossly circumcised amongst them.

So, op you have just read the fact, i want you and other guys to stop having the mentality that women (Nigerian) enjoy sex or crave for it.

The only reason they are doing it is because of the money/material things they derive from it. And the responsible ones amongst them(married) do it primarily for child bearing. And for their husband's sake. (because he his disturbing them for it).