While I am not suggesting a guy become a bad boy (or that women date them), nice guys could learn a thing or two from bad boys—minus the jerk behavior, of course.

1. Bad boys will talk to any woman they meet.
While a “nice guy” is quietly building up the courage to talk to the woman from work he has stared
at for months, thirty bad boys have already hit on her. The odds are pretty good she has begun dating one of them, while the nice guy is still mentally preparing to talk to her.
The narcissistic bad boy has no problem using a lame pickup line on a hundred girls a month. And even if 99 girls reject him, that one success a month will put him ahead of the nice guy who is too afraid to talk to any girls.


2. Bad boys are confident.
Most people don’t like cocky guys. However, most of us like whiny, needy, and pathetic guys even less. A bad boy may be bad news in many ways, but his cocky “Who cares what anybody thinks of me?” demeanor is more attractive than the “Woe is me, I can’t get a date” attitude of some nice guys. In terms of attracting women, narcissistic overconfidence beats crippling insecurity any day.


3. Bad boys are charming.
Psychopaths aren’t all criminals. In fact, there are more psychopaths in business leadership positions than in prisons. Psychopaths are often well-liked and manipulative charmers, and they know how to use humor, charm, and compliments to make a girl feel good, even if they don’t mean any of it. The bad boy has already won a girl over with his charm before most nice guys can get an awkward “I kind of like you” out of their mouths.


4. Bad boys will talk to even the most guarded women.
Every guy who has ever gone to a club is familiar with women who get dragged there with their friends, hating every second of it. They glare at any guy who so much as looks like he is going to approach them. This scares off most guys, except those men who are so self-centered that a woman’s hostile body language doesn’t even affect them.
The bad boy approaches these “difficult” women, turns on his charm, and occasionally connects with them. It is not just the case at clubs. Bad boys will approach girls that other guys are afraid to approach, including those women that other men have determined are “out of their league.” Why is that really pretty girl with a bad boy? Likely it is because a “nice guy” was too afraid to talk to her but a bad boy wasn’t.
I am not saying we need more bad boys in the world, but we do need more confident guys who are willing to approach all types of women, talk to them, and get to know them. So long as this process is left only to bad boys, they will get the most dates.

RUBBish!!!! Mttchhheww!

Kenzico:
RUBBish!!!! Mttchhheww!

that's why you are still were you are?

learn there skill and go for it

mehn

tatz y I really don't like these "bad boys" ...

TrapQueen77:
tatz y I really don't like these "bad boys" ...

pls do u av a job or re u a student? cos I can see u on almost evri thread

#no offence

no thanks

IHATEPUZZY:


pls do u av a job or re u a student? cos I can see u on almost evri thread

#no offence

So what?? It's not ur damn biznez if I'm almost everywhere....


Mind ur thing and stop quoting me ....I don't need ur attention.

TrapQueen77:



So what?? It's not ur damn biznez if I'm almost everywhere....


Mind ur thing and stop quoting me ....I don't need ur attention.

See as I just dey look.

Lexxyburg:
See as I just dey look.

I don't get it...

TrapQueen77:




I don't get it...

Some people won't mind their biz.

TrapQueen77:
tatz y I really don't like these "bad boys" ...

its not really the badness

but

the CONFIDENCE in them


2. Bad boys are confident.
Most people don’t like cocky guys. However, most of us like whiny, needy, and pathetic guys even less. A bad boy may be bad news in many ways, but his cocky “Who cares what anybody thinks of me?” demeanor is more attractive than the “Woe is me, I can’t get a date” attitude of some nice guys. In terms of attracting women, narcissistic overconfidence beats crippling insecurity any day.

TrapQueen77:



So what?? It's not ur damn biznez if I'm almost everywhere....


Mind ur thing and stop quoting me ....I don't need ur attention.

never meant dat as an insult

Lexxyburg:
Some people won't mind their biz.

They said they see me everywhere....


I think I'm tat loud again..

Sexxkillz:
If you see her on almost every thread, it simply means you visit almost every thread. Invariably, you're also jobless, or a student.

Common sense.

is that all u ve gat?

If you need a sugar mummy or sugar daddy . you could call me on this number 09055970378 . Agent fee #2500. Legally authorized. 100% pure.

KingCheezyPuff:
Bad boy= TOO MUCH DRAMA
......I want a gentle man

gentle man ke

that one way go take 6 month admire you, talk e no go talk

by the way
bad boy is not as you think rather in the sense of "going all out" I mean

Sexxkillz:
Depends on the capability of your brain, which is on a low ebb so far.

yes u can do beta!!


more stupidity wia dat came from?

agentsegun:
If you need a sugar mummy or sugar daddy . you could call me on this number 09055970378 . Agent fee #2500. Legally authorized. 100% pure.

come just carry your 2 left leg commot here oh

KingCheezyPuff:
I prefer the 6 month slow burn into a relationship
....Gives you time 2 really build something.
........•°•°
Then you men a extroverted man. Not bad boy.

just to say

I love you 6 month go pass na waoo


go the other way

IHATEPUZZY:


pls do u av a job or re u a student? cos I can see u on almost evri thread

#no offence

Ya..its almost as if you chat on nairaland 24/7. Do u even sleep at all? Me too no offecne meant o

charijee:
Who's a bad boy

a boy that makes you do bad things.

charijee:
Interesting......example

e.g bqlekan

*disappears like smoke*

Bluehawk:

Ya..its almost as if you chat on nairaland 24/7. Do u even sleep at all? Me too no offecne meant o

ofcourze ido slip, am free cos ama grad waiting for nysc mob, so I spend most time online cos I do e-bisiness


satisfied bro?

IHATEPUZZY:


ofcourze ido slip, am free cos ama grad waiting for nysc mob, so I spend most time online cos I do e-bisiness


satisfied bro?

e-business?

sleamzy06:
e-business?

wahefa