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| Advise Me by yusuf231: 3:38pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
hello,please i need you to advise me on this, i used to be a friend of a girl when i was in school[university]trying to ask her out but unfortunately for she went for another guy and now they are no more, she has also been giulted by some other guys also and i am trying to let be mine[for 2 weeks]but she wouldnt just give an answer,  |
| Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
She probably is still hurting. Give her time to heal also you dont want to be the rebound guy now do you? |
| Re: Advise Me by Godmother(f): 3:54pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
Ebonyeyes: Well said. 2 weeks is too little a time for her to jump into another relationship. We women take longer to get over a break-up than men |
| Re: Advise Me by natashi: 11:12pm On Sep 22, 2009 |
becareful you could be safe guy, that is the guy that a girl wont go for but can get used to make ya feel better in time of need. |
| Re: Advise Me by Ben13: 2:06pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
let the K-leg girl be jor |
| Re: Advise Me by LordReed(m): 5:13pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
It's too soon for her to seriously consider you if she just broke up. On the other hand ur persistence and patience mayb wat she needs to get over it. Just don't bring undue pressure to bear on her. |
| Re: Advise Me by mikesleek(m): 5:35pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Godmother: 2 weeks and you want her to jump at you? I'm sure you love to be rebound. |
| Re: Advise Me by TheSeeker(m): 5:59pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
I don't understand the "I was trying to ask her out" part. Did you ask her out or were you in the process? I want to assume you never asked her out but you wanted to. In this case, I think it's better you switch back to your friendship mode as it was back in the day and retrospectively introduce all that had been lost and more. What she needs right now is getting over her hurt, however, if you know your way around you could make her feel better but believe me, that's so tricky and without patience it's going to be a hard task for you to undertake. If you don't know where to start from, just start being friends all over again and when the time is right for the both of you, you'll understand how to go about it, of course, it's going to be a lot easier then. Again, while you are at it, ensure you make your intention known by your actions not necessarily verbally and that's to make her not fall for another man. I feel you didn't execute your decisions so well along with your wishes and that's why she left you for another man in the first place. Make sure you don't make the same mistake, and as well, with much more maturity and respect, let her know you want her by your actions. I think if you're saying it to her you want her, she might not want to take you seriously and that'll make her feel a little more distant from you, which on the long run will upset or displease you; so it's much better she sees it all in your actions. Remember, it's often said that talk is cheap; and action speaks louder than words. |
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