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5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by julianH(m): 9:48am On Sep 24, 2009 |
Ladies – have you ever dated a man who you shared an incredible connection with, but then he suddenly wanted his "freedom" or said he wasn't ready when you started to get (REALLY) close? If you don't know the common mistakes to avoid that men see as unattractive, needy, and the sign of a woman who wouldn't make a great partner, then you're shooting yourself in the foot. If you've ever been in this situation, or known a woman who was, here are the 5 most common ways women respond that don't work and push men away or turn them off for good: 1) Pretending you don't want anything serious either and keep on sleeping with the man "casually" in hopes that things will grow from the "physical relationship" 2) Staying close to him by trying to become his "best friend" as you help him in his life and with his problems - all the while imagining the "payoff" of a real relationship for your good deeds once he recognizes how great you are 3) Trying to make him jealous by telling him you're seeing other guys, even if you're not. Or going out with other guys and doing things with them not because you like them, but because you want him to find out and want you back 4) Getting pissed off at him and telling him he's dumb, immature, and acting like a little BOY, and that he's just scared of a real relationship and a commitment - and then trying to get him to have a relationship with you to "fix" himself 5) Trying to make him interested in you by complimenting him, doing nice things for him, taking up things he's interested in to be around him, and being available to him at anytime he should show interest. This is kind of like trying to be his "best friend," but different since it's often still sexual. Now, I'm guessing that you recognized at least one of these responses as you were reading through them. keep hope alive |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by LordReed(m): 1:41pm On Sep 24, 2009 |
I don't agree entirely with ur post. Points 1,3 & 4 are on point but 2 & 5 in my book are exactly wat a woman should do aside the sex of course. |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by natashi: 2:14pm On Sep 24, 2009 |
yup thats about right, kinda have to side with lord on this one. Nothing wrong with being around a guy trying to be there friend, Just don't get stuck in the dreaded friend zone then its just a flat out waste of time. lol |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by McDoe(m): 4:28pm On Sep 24, 2009 |
Sometimes, making him jealous can make the guy to be more attractive to you. It all depends on how you understand the guy and doing those things that can help solidify the relationship. In all, some of your points raised are ok but certainly not all. |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by whiteroses(f): 2:15am On Sep 25, 2009 |
yes those 5 reasons are true if you have a dummy as a boyfriend, mine's only few months older than me but 3000 times smarter he always think ahead of me so whatever i intend or plan to do he already saved a reaction in his head, and no one should try number one, if he's not interested then hes not and he could be sleeping with you till eternity its your responsibility to run if he's taking you for granted, but i like the others tho |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by iice(f): 6:26pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
LMAO! Yea women do those things. . .in my case it's the men |
Re: 5 Reasons To Loose Your Man! by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
My poor friend does point number 5 in the hopes that the guy will suddenly take their relationship to the next level . Cooking, cleaning and slaving for a man will not make him love you. |
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