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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by sexxydiva(f): 12:24pm On Aug 13, 2016

misspicy:

Lol

I didn't ask for story of your life naw,
just pointed the fact that I no send as you send incase you forgot

You send, that is why you uploaded your pictures to prove you are not ugly.

You are not even comfortable in your own skin. Huh! cheesy

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 12:26pm On Aug 13, 2016

sexxydiva:
I thought you have shiit to pour on me reason why you called me out.

Btw, are you looking for husband? Which one u no wan allow oya Toks rest because he don marry?

Lmao

afi shiits.
babe,when did you become a shiit packer

And you don become Toks spokesperson? Toks no go pay you o,him no dey do women wey get man body and yam legs.

Joy leave me ojae,I won't reply your mentions again okay
Now crawl back to the hole you came from

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by sexxydiva(f): 12:26pm On Aug 13, 2016

misspicy:

My dear go and eat
this response shows you are hungry
please what's the corrolation with this and what I typed?

pheww,all this masculine looking gehz sef

I am not masculine noa, compare to your pix cheesy

Your eyes fear me kwa, you smoke? cheesy

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by sexxydiva(f): 12:29pm On Aug 13, 2016

misspicy:

Lmao

afi shiits.
babe,when did you become a shiit packer

And you don become Toks spokesperson? Toks no go pay you o,him no dey do women wey get man body and yam legs.

Joy leave me ojae,I won't reply your mentions again okay
Now crawl back to the hole you came from

Seems you are blind, man body

Are you a learner

I wonder why you are going all calm though, are you planning to troll me with an alternate

try am first, lets see who wins cheesy

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by sexxydiva(f): 12:34pm On Aug 13, 2016

This place don dey full, person no go fit play small again. angry

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 12:39pm On Aug 13, 2016

sexxydiva:
You send, that is why you uploaded your pictures to prove you are not ugly.
You are not even comfortable in your own skin. Huh!

sexxydiva:
Seems you are blind, man body Are you a learner

I wonder why you are going all calm though, are you planning to troll me with an alternate

try am first, lets see who wins

sexxydiva:
I am not masculine noa, compare to your pix
Your eyes fear me kwa, you smoke?

Okay you win

can you now go and eat.
shoo shoo crawl back there

All these cat fighters sef
I cannot log in on nairaland peacefully now,one b!tch or the other will want to settle scores

God help me o

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by dollyjoy(f): 12:40pm On Aug 13, 2016

misspicy:

Okay you win
can you now go and eat. shoo shoo crawl back there

All these cat fighters sef

Misspicy my very good friend, how are you cheesy

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Donpoker9(m): 12:42pm On Aug 13, 2016

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Kaldrogo(m): 1:39pm On Aug 13, 2016

sexxydiva:
You send, that is why you uploaded your pictures to prove you are not ugly.You are not even comfortable in your own skin. Huh!

Just went through your posts, you sure look like one mischievious being, sorry to say.

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 2:12pm On Aug 13, 2016

misspicy:

Hian

Grandpa leave me o,don't bully me o

How is your new wife coping with your chauvinism?
husband kuku scarce,she no get choice

Were girl..na you be granma...I'm younger than your boyfriend and shey na you marry wife for me?

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 2:26pm On Aug 13, 2016

Seems lalasticlala is no longer a mod on nland cos this thread is good enough to pull traffic on frontage and for people to contribute..cc:mynd44

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Aug 13, 2016

Knowing what I do now the one thing I would want on a partner is true loyalty and reciprocation

We are all raised differently love speaks many different languages seasons change but loyal people are consistent with everything and are content to stick by your side in troubled times

I'd rather have loyal guy than a handsome guy anyday

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 10:43pm On Aug 13, 2016

darkenedrebel:
Men are visual creatures and women are what? auditory creatures? Hogwash!

So you're saying we should forfeit character and personal qualities in a woman and get into wedlock based on how sexually appealing she is?

You lack wisdom and haven't had a slice of life yet.

I think what the op is tryn to say is that the physical will first attract you to someone first before what's inside does-----while the physical attracts first, the inner beauty is what ll make a person stay.

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Roon9(m): 10:46pm On Aug 13, 2016

BeeBeeOoh:
Padi mi leave matter for mathais, I fall for the inner beauty yakata presently..

She's gat a heart of gold, she ain't gat the prettiest face but her heart is like a mirrow. She's so real, reads my face like meter, nice melons & my perfect size of ass.

As a guy just pray for God to give a woman with a beautiful heart...

Bros leave dem jor! Nothing beats a loyal girl ni.abi will the sexy features last forever? Jayz married probably the hottest woman alive n he still cheated. Wat are we not sayinh

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:50pm On Aug 13, 2016

So you're basically advising women to go for men that care.
And men to go for sexy.

I'd say diff strokes for different folks. You can't possibly dictate priorities for genders jx like that. Going for sexy probably works for you but the truth is that people are DIFFERENT.
You can't pretend to not know that people fancy diverse things (beauty,character,brains,manners) its a matter of choice so I disagree with your write- up.

BTW you are weird tho..what makes you think women don't care about men's sexiness? You best believe they do cheesy

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by BeeBeeOoh(m): 10:51pm On Aug 13, 2016

Roon9:

Bros leave dem jor! Nothing beats a loyal girl ni.abi will the sexy features last forever? Jayz married probably the hottest woman alive n he still cheated. Wat are we not sayinh

am telling bro, nothing beats a loyal woman/girlfriend because it guarantees rest of mind mehn..

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 10:52pm On Aug 13, 2016

darkenedrebel:

I am aware of no such norm, and that's because it's nonexistent.

Nobody gets married to someone they do not find sexually attractive—physical attraction and emotional attraction are like lightening and thunder: the former is bound to happen before the latter, but the former should not take precedence over the latter i.e her physical beauty should not override the emotional connection you have with her, or the other pertinent qualities like her character, intelligence etcetera.

Unless you are not looking for a long-term relationship, or what would you do when stress, pregnancy and the other things that tend put the years on women makes her lose her sexiness, would you then take to extramarital affairs?

Taking a woman to the altar based solely on how sexy she looks or how skilled she in on bed is shallow and foolhardy.

have gone through all your comments-----such wisdom you display.

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by julioralph(m): 11:02pm On Aug 13, 2016

its about the inner beauty & character 1st...

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Danfuster(m): 11:02pm On Aug 13, 2016

I will not discourage men from seeking the so called wifely qualities in any lady they want to marry but [b]the truth is that men are visual creatures and whatever pleases our eyes will most likely please our soul(FACT)

the emboldened: the brain thinks much more visually and intuitively

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by nonjebose(m): 11:07pm On Aug 13, 2016

Jobia:
So you're basically advising women to go for men that care.
And men to go for sexy.

I'd say diff strokes for different folks. You can't possibly dictate priorities for genders jx like that. Going for sexy probably works for you but the truth is that people are DIFFERENT.
You can't pretend to not know that people fancy diverse things (beauty,character,brains,manners) its a matter of choice so I disagree with your write- up.

BTW you are weird tho..what makes you think women don't care about men's sexiness? You best believe they do cos I am living proof

I support your view but wait o, living proof!!! See chomtin!

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Aug 13, 2016

ifeomaekol:
I think what the op is tryn to say is that the physical will first attract you to someone first before what's inside does-----while the physical attracts first, the inner beauty is what ll make a person stay.

But OP is saying 'inner beauty', as you put it, means nothing to him. He says the yardstick for a man to plight the troth should be hinged solely on how sexy and sexually appealing a woman is.

I'm sure OP was just trolling.

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by pippimp(m): 11:09pm On Aug 13, 2016

BeeBeeOoh:
Padi mi leave matter for mathais, I fall for the inner beauty yakata presently..

She's gat a heart of gold, she ain't gat the prettiest face but her heart is like a mirrow. She's so real, reads my face like meter, nice melons & my perfect size of ass.

As a guy just pray for God to give a woman with a beautiful heart...

I don't think you understand what he's saying. I am always the first person to crush Toks2008's posts, but on this one, he has somewhat of a point. Men are very visual in nature which is why our gender are most likely to cheat. If you end up with a woman who does not fit your physical and sexual fantasies, you will eventually land yourself in trouble. I am not saying beauty is everything and one should disregard good character, but it has to be balanced.

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:12pm On Aug 13, 2016

ifeomaekol:
have gone through all your comments-----such wisdom you display.

And I have gone through your profile 9.9 seconds ago, and lo and behold, I saw a face with pouted, lush lips that I wouldn't mind straining 34 facial muscles and 112 postural muscles in kissing it.

Thank you.

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by dhardline(m): 11:14pm On Aug 13, 2016

Well you are kinda right.

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:15pm On Aug 13, 2016

nonjebose:
I support your view but wait o, living proof!!! See chomtin!

yes o

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:19pm On Aug 13, 2016

darkenedrebel:

And I have gone through your profile 9.9 seconds ago, and lo and behold, I saw a face with pouted, lush lips that I wouldn't mind straining 34 facial muscles and 112 postural muscles in kissing it.

Thank you.

You for feel like kissing her character ...

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Aug 13, 2016

Toks2008:

You for feel like kissing her character ...

Your point?

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by joyspringacad(m): 11:30pm On Aug 13, 2016

Next time pls use points. Some of us don't have all the time for detailed explanations. Key points will do. Nice piece though

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by jojosweet(f): 11:32pm On Aug 13, 2016

IamLEGEND1:
Toks Baba.......thread idi on point.
aesthetics are as important as anything to a guy when picking a mate.....i just pity the guys wey dey fall for the "inner beauty" punchline ugly girls dey sell these days.

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:33pm On Aug 13, 2016

darkenedrebel:

Your point?

Is it not glaring?

How many guys see a lady at first and falls for her because she has a good character?

My point is that many guys fail yo realize this until its too late.

Have you been around married guys discussing their side chics?

You will hear words like "omo you need to see this babe the girl set bla bla bla"

Every guy has his own definition of a "set" lady so my point is that it makes no sense going for less to avoid fantasy which I see as bondage.

Some guys love them big and some love them moderate so go for your specs..Simple

We always talk about behaviour as if you can't get your spec who will also have a fairly good nature...its all about tolerance.

A man who marries a lady that is sexually appealing to him will most likely tolerate her excesses to a level but if a lady that does not appeal to your sexual spec bleeps up then I pity that lady...

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Coldfeets: 11:33pm On Aug 13, 2016

This article is hugely biased

And as such

It is returned null and void

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