Sphinx02:
I recently told my lady this but she felt it wz harsh.Is it? Anyways d mssg has been received loud and clear.

Was that how your father divorced your mother or did you think your mum never disrespected your fathers mum. Well, get ready cos your sis will come back home very soon if she's married for disrespecting her MIL. Some men re just chicken

doveda:
Maybe I want to be noticed, maybe I am not so dvmb to expect others to revere my mum the way I do hence the reason why she must respect others if she wants them to respect her and vice versa

You should thank me for making you think instead of following others with their blind sentiments


cc koldkash

Not in the mood.

okesgift:
for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife and the two shall become one flesh(ephesians 5:31) the same bible went futher to say in (mark 10:9) what God has joined together let no man put assunder!!! if ur mother is bigger than God then go ahead to divorce ur wive becos of ur mother... and prove to God that u love ur mother more than him who created u becos the bible says if u love me u wod keep my commandment and God says i hate divorce (malachi 2:16) but its obvious ur mother is bigger than God and remember God doesnt share his glory with anybody so stop all this ranting abt divorcing ur wife cos of ur mother.... and follow the word of God

On point! It takes a real man and some level of maturity to really understand these godly instructions. Every marriage should be modeled after that which God intended, so whenever any confusion arises, resort to the Word of God. That should be the STANDARD!

Joavid:


your lady? cos last I checked, you can only divorce your wife.

I doubt you're married.

I call my wife "my lady", the word "wife" makes me feel as if she old (my opinion)

i support u bros......nice quote

Muafrika2:


I've seen some unfriendly mother in laws. An aunt of mine told her son to get rid of his wife for flimsy reasons and the fool did, despite the fact that they had a small kid.

According to psychologists, mothers feel like they are losing their sons when they get married. Many react by fighting the wife.

Daughter in laws can be evil too. But this one has taken one side so he'll never belive his wife's side of the story.

GOD bless you really good.
You have said it all.

mclaaro:
Things you hear when kids get married. Unnecessary talks comes up

Please tell me about it.

charlesucheh:
What if your Mum uses that advantage to frustrate her life!!!! WOBI!!! You Never Jam!!! Shebi na only you like your mama KWANTINU!

Coming from a guy? Cooooooooooooooooooool!

Victorakats:
They say that when a child talks, you will know his age. Your message was insensitive, suppressive and intimidating for a lady who will spend the rest of her life with you.
She will accommodate your penis and your personality.
She will put her life on the line for your generation unborn.
And she will sacrifice her life to serve you and the best way to introduce your mother to her is by giving her orders that if she disrespects your mother, you will divorce her.
What happens if your mother abuses her?
How do you hope to protect her from the vicious abuse of some of your family members who doesn't like her for all the good reasons?
How do you hope to provide enabling environment to make sure that there's no room for disrespect?
Obviously you need to work on your perception of marriage and wife so that you will enjoy your marriage.
In conclusion, you don't even respect your partner, you need to learn how to communicate with your partner. You failed this!
Thanks!
www.amaraofficial.com

GOD bless you so much sir.
I salute your insightful and wise counsel.

Sphinx02:
I recently told my lady this but she felt it wz harsh.Is it? Anyways d mssg has been received loud and clear.

thats if ur mum is not nasty to her daughter inlaw... there are lots of yeye mums who cant stand sharing their sons with their so called daughter inlaws.

Sphinx02:

Trust my mum 100%

I hope u r not operating under her spell? how old are u?

Op you are not been harsh. For you to say this to her you might have found something amiss with her. It might be her actions or words.

And what happened to, "And the man shall leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh"
Una neva marry, u don dey give this kin order
Hia!!!!!!!! There are many ways to make a point, that statement sounds bossy. I hope u are not a wife beater

nathskib:
Op you are not been harsh. For you to say this to her you might have found something amiss with her. It might be her actions or words.

And what if there is nothing wrong with her
What if his mum is Mama G
He could as well pass the msg but not with such choice of words..... Haba!!!

Victorakats:
They say that when a child talks, you will know his age. Your message was insensitive, suppressive and intimidating for a lady who will spend the rest of her life with you.
She will accommodate your penis and your personality.
She will put her life on the line for your generation unborn.
And she will sacrifice her life to serve you and the best way to introduce your mother to her is by giving her orders that if she disrespects your mother, you will divorce her.
What happens if your mother abuses her?
How do you hope to protect her from the vicious abuse of some of your family members who doesn't like her for all the good reasons?
How do you hope to provide enabling environment to make sure that there's no room for disrespect?
Obviously you need to work on your perception of marriage and wife so that you will enjoy your marriage.
In conclusion, you don't even respect your partner, you need to learn how to communicate with your partner. You failed this!
Thanks!
www.amaraofficial.com

God bless you!!! If u are single, I pray u find the best life partner.
Imagine the op conditioning the young lady..... Chai

Then you should not have quoted me

Gassa007:

Not in the mood.

Shut up! You are just not a good liar

nathdim:
yeah she doesn't belong to me
I would treat her with dignity and love
I don't mind even if she insults me
But my mom a big NO

uare marryimg to baby husband. he only grows in age bit not matured. look b\4 u leap

doveda:
What does common sense have to do with being a woman. For me no one or anything can remove my mum from my life except death of course. She is why I am here today. She is the reason I thank God everyday. A man who is serious about me will respect my mum and I also expect my mum to respect a man I intend to live with for the rest of my life. Any sign of discomfort from either of them will get the culprit a serious reprimand.


Your mother is not human she can do no wrong to anyone. It is your wife that will act first and even if she doesn't, she must endure and act like a robot because she is not human and if she does, she must be a separatist. I hope your mum does not show sign of discomfort towards your wife. What will you do if your wife reacts?Throwout her out of your life regardless?

This thing is pretty simple.between my mother and my wife, you expect my mother to be older and that means the younger should respect the older and not dare stand toe to toe with her.my mum and I disagree on some matters but that doesn't pave way for me to talk back angrily at her(at most I keep mute and explain things later to her when she calms down).so since I don't talk back at my mother my wife has no biznez attempting it.

Even if she used to talk back at her mother (it's not my biznez,maybe that's how her mum raised her.for me I was raised to respect elders and I can't seize the opportunity to talk back at her mother because she does so).As such,I can't have her import that attitude to my home.

On my mother's part,I have watched closely the way she relates with my brother in-law.she gives him his respect even though he screws up badly at times.so,if I marry a good wife she will not pose any problem.

Queenoma:
And what happened to, "And the man shall leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh"
Una neva marry, u don dey give this kin order
Hia!!!!!!!! There are many ways to make a point, that statement sounds bossy. I hope u are not a wife beater

And the two shall become one flesh with license to disrespect the elders?

creepsyme:
I hope u r not operating under her spell? how old are u?

Why a spell?

forevermine:



On point! It takes a real man and some level of maturity to really understand these godly instructions. Every marriage should be modeled after that which God intended, so whenever any confusion arises, resort to the Word of God. That should be the STANDARD!

Scriptures are a little bit misquoted here.how about "children honour your father and your mother" not remembered probably. If the man was abusing his wife physically or cheating will you say the Lord hates divorce.

What happens to the scripture that says wives should submit to their husbands in all things,no body has read that yet,I guess.

And for all the women here who are anti mother in-law,don't stress.what goes around comes around, and that's for sure. Meaning,if Christ tarries to come you too will someday be a mother in-law and what you served will be served you.Jezebels.

doveda:
Shut up! You are just not a good liar

i think you women are the bigger liars if tomorrow things go bad for me the only person am 100 percent sure of being by my side is my mum

canDy4eva:
R u married?

Not yet.

KoldKash:


And the two shall become one flesh with license to disrespect the elders?

my last paragraph has answered ur question.

KoldKash:


Scriptures are a little bit misquoted here.how about "children honour your father and your mother" not remembered probably. If the man was abusing his wife physically or cheating will you say the Lord hates divorce.

What happens to the scripture that says wives should submit to their husbands in all things,no body has read that yet,I guess.

And where does the scripture permit husbands to threaten their wives with divorce even when she has done nothing wrong. No matter ur argument, I strongly oppose the op's choice of words..... Haba!!!

KoldKash:

Why a spell?

ooohh u have not heard? it happens...

Queenoma:

And where does the scripture permit husbands to threaten their wives with divorce even when she has done nothing wrong. No matter ur argument, I strongly oppose the op's choice of words..... Haba!!!

It's not a threat.it's a disciplinary line drawn to keep her in check.

creepsyme:
ooohh u have not heard? it happens...

Not in this case,apparently.

KoldKash:


It's not a threat.it's a disciplinary line drawn to keep her in check.

Keep baptising evil

Sphinx02:
I recently told my lady this but she felt it wz harsh.Is it? Anyways d mssg has been received loud and clear.

Smh
Your mother is not God.
Even we human disrespect God.
So ur spouse should always be doing "yes mama , " ohk mama" even if she is wrong.