hmmmmmn oh lord save us from temptation. anyone can be tempted. the devil just knows how to lure people into things . Thank God for God.

i think the pastor should also tlak about wives who lays with their house boys, and gateman.
its inportant.

nwakibe:
I don't need any house help in my home to avoid stories that touch.

Stories that touch


Wait guy so u fit bang house help? Those dirty tins, wen they work morning till night wear nonsense clothes wen no brush mouth ?? Choi.

bettercreature:
Try to read it and i bet you will love it,everybody dislike househelp but sadly we can not survive without having them at home

.OK toh

In short,its not advisble for couples to have a maid..

if i catch u hen,,, but i get 6 pack oo

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size]

If a man should sleep with his househelp it is the woman of the home that gave the room for that to happen...women should endevour to guard their homes jelosuosly.

adewumiopeyemi:
if i catch u hen,,, but i get 6 pack oo

lol iz only Kenneth205 that I know has 6 packs o.

You know how it goes na....pishures or...

Typical trash there is always an excuse as ro why the man would do what ever he decides to do and as usual, our society blames the woman for it. Make una well done. Na una daughters go surffer am.

mekonglobal:
If a man should sleep with his househelp it is the woman of the home that gave the room for that to happen...women should endevour to guard their homes jelosuosly.

Ermmm...and if the woman sleeps with the houseboy, who is to blame Sir?

kenneth205 can i stand with me.. should i show u ,,,

ladyF:

lol iz only Kenneth205 that I know has 6 packs o.

You know how it goes na....pishures or...

Ajusshi:
U no need Skrill fund again abi u don tire to dey screem?. No go seduce ur madam husband cos u want him to epp you get screwwed...

lol I still need o.

inspiring article!

adewumiopeyemi:
kenneth205 can i stand with me.. should i show u ,,,

hehehe show me sharply. I love masculine guys uno...

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size]

its very rare to hear the case of "housewife sleeps with their gateman or cleaner(male) unlike men sleeping with their maids..i wunt advise couple to get a maid for themselves because as soon as the maid step into the house,i already consider her a SECOND WIFE

ok leme show u

ladyF:


hehehe show me sharply. I love masculine guys uno...

TooNoisy:
Men should not sleep with their housemaids simple.

No reason is good enough. A God fearing man should have some measure of self control and if he notices that he is being enticed by the girl, then he should send her away. Some of these girls are even underage and can do little to resist the man, both physically and emotionally. Some of these cases may be rape.

On the other hand, married women should also watch the kind of maid they employ. I would not advice a woman employ a 19 year old maid if her husband is still in his thirties or forties. That is recipe for disaster. And even if you employ one, then she should have minimal contact with the husband.

Even women who bring their ripe younger sisters to stay with them in their husband's home run the same risk.....even more because there is really no telling the construction of the man's mind..... From helping out to cook, she go begin help out do one or two other things in secrecy....na one day e dey start.

adewumiopeyemi:
ok leme show u

lol no be you be dis na

ladyF:


Ermmm...and if the woman sleeps with the houseboy, who is to blame Sir?

lol.i know the question aint directed at me,but we blame the woman provided she employed him....se fi ni!

you dont need fasting and night vigil for you to reign in unbelievable power of real JESUS CHRIST AND BECAUSE OF THE THOMASES OF THIS GENERATION,WE HAVE AUTHORIZED HUMANS TO INVESTIGATE OUR TRUTH AND REVELATION NEVER HEARD BEFORE ABOUT JESUS but who has believed our truth and publicized it WHICH WE ARE CAPABLE TO PROVE BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT? No wonder people perish for not accepting good information and knowledge since JESUS CHRIST came before and the chameleons continue to decieve humans

ladyF:


Ermmm...and if the woman sleeps with the houseboy, who is to blame Sir?

The man ofcourse! The both share an equal responsibilities in protecting their union, but we both know that the case u stated is not as prevalent as that of men and their househelp.

na me jare...

ladyF:

lol no be you be dis na

All I see are excuses.



Any man that cheats on his wife is an irresponsible individual. The same bible the pastor quotes from, states that, "Do unto the others as you want them to do unto you". If you cheat on your partner, will you like same done to you?

Towncrier247:
General Superintendent of The Holy Spirit Mission Church (The Happy Family Chapel). Bishop Charles Ighile who together with his wife Rev. Caro Ighile head the church that has over sixty branches,through their syndicated marriage and relationship programme on television have touched many lives and restored thousands of relationships. In a recent interview, the couple spoke extensively on why many men sleep with their maids, why many marriages are daily crashing among other problems in relationships...

[b]"Men sleep with their househelps when the couple are not on their guards. We are talking about God-fearing men here, who would not ordinarily sleep with their househelps, but somehow find themselves doing it. There is always a division of labour in the home. As the Bible puts it, the man is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. She is the keeper at home. Therefore, according to the Bible, everything about the domestic affairs is for the woman. From what God Himself told Haggai in the Bible when her househelp ran away, God asked her, “why are you running away from your mistress…Go and submit yourself to her.” Therefore, the househelp is under the woman. She submits to the woman. When a maid needs to buy things such as undies, body cream,make her hair or she has to report to the man when she is seeing her period, then there is going to be problem. When it is the man now asking the girl, ‘what’s wrong with you?’, why are you sad? Do you have tummy ache? Ok, come and see me in the room’ etc. There is fire on the mountain. There are certain boundaries that must be set in the home. When the woman fails to take charge of her responsibilities and passes them to the house help and the husband takes them up. She is setting up the husband for temptation."[/b]


The pastors also insist that inappropriate dressing plays a major role in men having sex with their maids. According to them..

[b] "Appropriate must be enforced in the home. A man is enticed by what he sees, therefore, the woman must not allow the househelp to dress indecently in such a way that all her contours are revealed and everything is dangling around the house because the man may be tempted even when he didn’t plan it. So the couple must have rules in the house, as you cannot just come into the kitchen or sitting room with only your nighties on or tie a towel or wrapper around your waist moving around the house. Those are troubles for the man. He should not say, “oh, she is only 14, there is nothing she can do”.

“No, she is a woman and the man seeing her unclothedness could be thrown off balance. Sometimes, the househelp themselves could be cunning. She wants to seduce the man. So, a man must be very careful. Then, the man must show his wife love all the time. The housegirl must not be allowed to see cracks in their marriage. The husband must not disrespect his wife anytime, especially in the presence of the girl, such as shouting on the wife and so on. Doing that will make the girl lose respect for the woman. These are just a few of the very many reasons men sleep with their househelps. If you as the man begins to find yourself attracted to the househelp, just send her away. If you are a man who wants to save your marriage and wants to honour your marriage and God, let your househelp go. I know that when a man begins to have feelings towards a woman, his defenses weaken, so the strength to even send her away is no where to be found. But struggle with your weakness to send her away. I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see."[/b]

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html

you want me to read this thing?

Hmmmm!

This thread comes to mind.


https://www.nairaland.com/2521393/when-maid-becomes-madam

classicB:
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pls what did he mean by SEX Humh

Drew0:



Stories that touch


Wait guy so u fit bang house help? Those dirty tins, wen they work morning till night wear nonsense clothes wen no brush mouth ?? Choi.

Its quite obvious you never see something...
Sex is one of the most mysterious things on earth....the intrigues and turn-ons are so vast and unexplainable....
Some people luv that husky smelling gurl walking past and the thought of "dominating" her makes their manhood ache....
That's just the truth....
Its the same reason why niiggas bleep food/ware hawkers who trek the whole day without a bath on the streets....that intruiges some people..

Forget say all of us dey wear cloth dey appear sane...
If you see wetin dey intrigue some people you go know say man Na pure animal no difference.... Forget the porn idea of clean shaven sex, some niiggas prefer that place as unwashed as it can get.... That's why a full blooded man can start looking for 80yr old women to rape....
Some people dun tell me say if the babe dun pass 14 Dem no dey lash; lyk wtf does a 13 yr old know about hygiene? And besides she is underage plus probably on her way to/back frm Skool when the guy go swoop on am carry am enta house make Dem do dia crap....
Omo forget fine boy Wey everybody dey form

Most people flaunt fine cultured gurls because of societal expectation....deep down, they wana go to one farm in their village and bleep a gurl who has been working frm morning till evening without a break to bath........

Much less househelps Wey jst dey accessible....

mekonglobal:

The man ofcourse! The both share an equal responsibilities in protecting their union, but we both know that the case u stated is not as prevalent as that of men and their househelp.

I tell u solemnly, the driver and madam ish is realer than fiction. Una never know Nigerian women sha....u think say na by play or mistake dem win most unfaithful wives in d world. Only difference be say...They are eternally coded cuz society will finish dem while d man is more open cuz society will condone him.

Blame APC and Buhari

Don't nid any maid,jus me ,hubby and my 3 kids.I can't fit shout biko

coolviv:


I tell u solemnly, the driver and madam ish is realer than fiction. Una never know Nigerian women sha....u think say na by play or mistake dem win most unfaithful wives in d world. Only difference be say...They are eternally coded cuz society will finish dem while d man is more open cuz society will condone him.

I no kn ooo na u talk am ooo

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size]

hmmmm. See wetin where de hungry you! Uwa afid..

The last paragraph though might just be true