mmb:
Is it allowed in christianity?

no

martineinstein:
but some men are becoming something else.........it seems nigerian men are cursesd with sex

Stop being ridiculous and commenting like a blind fellow. Every man is a sexually sensitive being, be he a white or black man.

ladyF:

lol iz only Kenneth205 that I know has 6 packs o.

You know how it goes na....pishures or...

Lol. Hey dear! It has been a while!

I gat no worries.

Kenneth205:



Lol. Hey dear! It has been a while!

Hehe... how you dey na?

By the time a maid makes your bed nearly you will be tempted to ask her to lie on it.

Many wives have given their duties to the maid to handle so sleeping with the husband sef must add join.

Trutalk...

ladyF:

Hehe... how you dey na?

I'm doing well. hope u are good too?

Nice write up, pray men with such act cud read and learn from dis write up

nwakibe:
I don't need any house help in my home to avoid stories that touch.

Not as easy as you sound. Especially when you're a working mother with kids.How do you cope.They are just necessary evil.

coolviv:


I tell u solemnly, the driver and madam ish is realer than fiction. Una never know Nigerian women sha....u think say na by play or mistake dem win most unfaithful wives in d world. Only difference be say...They are eternally coded cuz society will finish dem while d man is more open cuz society will condone him.

You sabi.

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

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Women don't fall for what they see so 6 packs don't work there. I know what am saying... I think the pastor is only helping families to avoid getting into that trap so we shouldn't look @ it as him protecting the "men". I beleive he concentrated on that because the rate @ which that happens is weigh more that the case of a woman sleeping with the house boy.

Zedoo:


Its quite obvious you never see something...
Sex is one of the most mysterious things on earth....the intrigues and turn-ons are so vast and unexplainable....
Some people luv that husky smelling gurl walking past and the thought of "dominating" her makes their manhood ache....
That's just the truth....
Its the same reason why niiggas bleep food/ware hawkers who trek the whole day without a bath on the streets....that intruiges some people..

Forget say all of us dey wear cloth dey appear sane...
If you see wetin dey intrigue some people you go kno say man Na pure animal no difference.... Forget the porn idea of clean shaven sex, some niiggas prefer that place as unwashed as it can get.... That's why a full blooded man can start looking for 80yr old women to rape....
Some people dun tell me say if the babe dun pass 14 Dem no dry lash lyk wtf does a 13 yr old know about hygiene? And besides she is underage plus probably on her way to/back frm Skool when the guy go swoop on am carry am enta house make Dem do dia crap....
Omo forget fine boy Wey everybody dey form

Most people flaunt fine cultured gurls because of societal expectation....deep down, they wana go to one farm I their village and bleep a gurl who has been working frm morning till evening without a break to bath........

Much less househelps Wey jst dey accessible....

This is the truth.... you can never tell what in a woman can set a man on fire... bring out the beast in him. @topic...I don't usually agree with what these pastors sah... but this one I totally agree. It's not about laying blame but being vigilant to avoid temptation. The mind can know what to do and what not to do..... but the flesh is weak. Avoid temptations is all he is saying and advising us how to.

Konji nah Bastard

Towncrier247:
........ . I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see"[/i]

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html

Wordz on marble!

some preachings are meant for couples during counselling. just for the sake of those wey no go understand, there are people out there who are ready to always twist the words of God's men.

Man loves variety by nature.
There's no cure for it.
There's nothing you can do about it.

You see in Nigeria a man is never at fault. He is always entrapped, lured and led astray by the evil woman. He carries no responsibility for his actions. It is only now that househelps have been tempting their male employers. It is only now that Nigerian men are cheating on their wives.

Because maids are no longer those ugly dirty girls from the village or Togo. They may as well pass for your wife when she was younger.

If you think these topic is irrelevant try checking ROMANCE SECTION ......Even a DILD*O can post a topic there

Zedoo:


Its quite obvious you never see something...
Sex is one of the most mysterious things on earth....the intrigues and turn-ons are so vast and unexplainable....
Some people luv that husky smelling gurl walking past and the thought of "dominating" her makes their manhood ache....
That's just the truth....
Its the same reason why niiggas bleep food/ware hawkers who trek the whole day without a bath on the streets....that intruiges some people..

Forget say all of us dey wear cloth dey appear sane...
If you see wetin dey intrigue some people you go kno say man Na pure animal no difference.... Forget the porn idea of clean shaven sex, some niiggas prefer that place as unwashed as it can get.... That's why a full blooded man can start looking for 80yr old women to rape....
Some people dun tell me say if the babe dun pass 14 Dem no dry lash lyk wtf does a 13 yr old know about hygiene? And besides she is underage plus probably on her way to/back frm Skool when the guy go swoop on am carry am enta house make Dem do dia crap....
Omo forget fine boy Wey everybody dey form

Most people flaunt fine cultured gurls because of societal expectation....deep down, they wana go to one farm I their village and bleep a gurl who has been working frm morning till evening without a break to bath........

Much less househelps Wey jst dey accessible....

So that means men like dirty and smelling girls to Bleep?

And they will come out to complain pussy smell when all they have been going after are smelly girl with body odour.

Origin:
Man loves variety by nature.
There's no cure for it.
There's nothing you can do about it.

Hope same men will allow their wife variety too since they know how if feels, they will understand no cure.

Origin:
Man loves variety by nature.
There's no cure for it.
There's nothing you can do about it.

Hope same men will allow their wife variety too since they know how if feels, they will understand no cure.

What happen to descipline?

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

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What is dis one saying?

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size]

walahi, you go sweet for bed.

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

[size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size]

You responded from the perspective of a lady. What "looking" is for a man is different from what it is to a woman. We are wired differently. So, be careful of what your maid wears in the house or what she reveals

Nonsense. Men cheat out of choice.

Nigerian men or Kenyan men?

martineinstein:
but some men are becoming something else.........it seems nigerian men are cursesd with sex

Towncrier247:
General Superintendent of The Holy Spirit Mission Church (The Happy Family Chapel). Bishop Charles Ighile who together with his wife Rev. Caro Ighile head the church that has over sixty branches,through their syndicated marriage and relationship programme on television have touched many lives and restored thousands of relationships. In a recent interview, the couple spoke extensively on why many men sleep with their maids, why many marriages are daily crashing among other problems in relationships...

[b]"Men sleep with their househelps when the couple are not on their guards. We are talking about God-fearing men here, who would not ordinarily sleep with their househelps, but somehow find themselves doing it. There is always a division of labour in the home. As the Bible puts it, the man is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. She is the keeper at home. Therefore, according to the Bible, everything about the domestic affairs is for the woman. From what God Himself told Haggai in the Bible when her househelp ran away, God asked her, “why are you running away from your mistress…Go and submit yourself to her.” Therefore, the househelp is under the woman. She submits to the woman. When a maid needs to buy things such as undies, body cream,make her hair or she has to report to the man when she is seeing her period, then there is going to be problem. When it is the man now asking the girl, ‘what’s wrong with you?’, why are you sad? Do you have tummy ache? Ok, come and see me in the room’ etc. There is fire on the mountain. There are certain boundaries that must be set in the home. When the woman fails to take charge of her responsibilities and passes them to the house help and the husband takes them up. She is setting up the husband for temptation."[/b]


The pastors also insist that inappropriate dressing plays a major role in men having sex with their maids. According to them..

[b] "Appropriate must be enforced in the home. A man is enticed by what he sees, therefore, the woman must not allow the househelp to dress indecently in such a way that all her contours are revealed and everything is dangling around the house because the man may be tempted even when he didn’t plan it. So the couple must have rules in the house, as you cannot just come into the kitchen or sitting room with only your nighties on or tie a towel or wrapper around your waist moving around the house. Those are troubles for the man. He should not say, “oh, she is only 14, there is nothing she can do”.

“No, she is a woman and the man seeing her unclothedness could be thrown off balance. Sometimes, the househelp themselves could be cunning. She wants to seduce the man. So, a man must be very careful. Then, the man must show his wife love all the time. The housegirl must not be allowed to see cracks in their marriage. The husband must not disrespect his wife anytime, especially in the presence of the girl, such as shouting on the wife and so on. Doing that will make the girl lose respect for the woman. These are just a few of the very many reasons men sleep with their househelps. If you as the man begins to find yourself attracted to the househelp, just send her away. If you are a man who wants to save your marriage and wants to honour your marriage and God, let your househelp go. I know that when a man begins to have feelings towards a woman, his defenses weaken, so the strength to even send her away is no where to be found. But struggle with your weakness to send her away. I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see."[/b]

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html

Just like a typical Nigerian. Making excuses for your lapses. How is it that it is everyone's fault but the man's? Also typical of pastors. Nigerian pastors as a matter of fact. I wonder why people listen to them?

PASTOR PLEASE ALSO TALK ABOUT THIS

"WHY WOMEN ARE BUTCHERING MEN THAT ENGAGE IN EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS THESE DAYS"

OR
"WHY WOMEN ARE SLEEPING WITH THEIR DRIVERS THESE DAYS"
Guys please THINK!
.The reason women these days get house helps is cos a lot of men feel that getting married is retiring from doing house chores.
Guys a simple question , when u were living as bachelors ,did u always do house chores or cook for yourself after getting back from work everyday ? If no... Why was it not easy for you to do? So it wasn't easy for you as strong as u are yet you expect a weaker vessel to do it? Don't you think that is unfair?
Most marriages where men and women partake in house chores theres usually no need for house helps ..
If they beg you to do ,u would say what rubbish is this, it is a womans job, okay now ,she gets a help again and the next topic would be "why men sleep with their maids ".
You guys should fear God. I pity for women who work as hard as men and still come back to resume working again.. GOD HElp u . super woman!