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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 6:15pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
mikolo80: LynnPetra: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Please I am not the cause of your pains. Why me? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by cashreport: 6:17pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
yommysure:Still laughing ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 6:19pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
LynnPetra:because I like breast na And na you de comment pass for the thread Can't stand the heat stay out the kitchen |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 6:20pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
LynnPetra:and I say again If I am allowed to suck direct not from bottle and if your husband gree Abi you deaf? |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Flashh: 8:03pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Lynnpetra, you have lost the battle already. Go take a rest for your hot brain. We have seen how banal your offline life is, not liven at all. Turning this thread to a chat room. Eyah! 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 8:08pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
[s] Flashh:[/s] |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Flashh: 8:11pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
LynnPetra:Not as boring as your life. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 8:15pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
[s] Flashh:[/s] |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Flashh: 8:20pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
LynnPetra:Loser! ![]() |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by crackhaus: 8:53pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 9:01pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
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Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 9:33pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
mikolo80: Dude really? I'm not even going to grant someone so vindictive an audience. 1 Like |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 9:35pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
mikolo80: When you can't argue your wait out of a situation next thing is throwing insults or flexing muscles. Men sha. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 9:37pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
mikolo80: It's like saying since I can make money myself, why do I need a man? Why do you guys apply double standards this topic arises? Is my only use as a woman to cook? 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
mikolo80: Like I said, when you can't argue your way out you resort to insults. Very typical |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 9:40pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
JuanDeDios: Most women work these days, so how do you balance that out? I'm still waiting for someone to give me an answer to that 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 1:07am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:wia is the insult Abo you fail waec english How is menopause an insult Facts are not insults my dia |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 1:09am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:ezzatly If you don't need a man Others do No but that's what most men want If you don't want to It's your right Just so long as you don't complain later when it's too late Cannot eat your cake and have it |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 1:12am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:menopause os a fact Not an insult You're stoopid Your mad You're an idiot Those are insults Read more Feminist less |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by mikolo80: 1:14am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:how am I vindictive How is it my fault It's you you can't handle the truth I'm not ready to marry You don't hear me griping You're the o e grumbling Yet yourethe one with a bio clock |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 8:18am On Sep 14, 2016 |
mikolo80: Check yourself dude. You cursing is not a truth. Get rid of this attitude please. 3 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 8:20am On Sep 14, 2016 |
mikolo80: Menopause in itself is not an insult. How you used it is what is an insult. Why is that so hard to comprehend? And why are you after my comments? Let me guess, you hate feminists. OK #noted 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 8:23am On Sep 14, 2016 |
mikolo80: See who is dating cannot eat your cake and have it. That statement is not for the likes of you please. I'm guessing you don't want a liability as a wife yet you want someone who will wait on you day and night. Talk about eating your cake and having it. You'll have daughters then you'll understand. What you won't wish them, don't wish your wife, she's someone's daughter too. Enough said. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by zicoraads: 8:32am On Sep 14, 2016 |
LynnPetra:You...I remember you. You used to be very active here. Had one Lynpetra account, whatever happened... 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by JuanDeDios: 8:56am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:I thought I did that in my post. Read the first and second sentences again. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by JuanDeDios: 10:06am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:To continue my last post, that okadaman is right to expect food when he gets home. It's a different ballgame for the family where the man and woman both leave at dawn, return at 8pm and bring in similar incomes. In this case, the man must do his share of house chores and the woman must pick her share of the bills. What works for you is what works for you. The ideals of feminism will never apply universally. |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by Nobody: 10:23am On Sep 14, 2016 |
I still cannot understand why men start suffering convulsions whenever they hear a woman say she doesn't need marriage to be happy. Why does it hurt them so much? Why? Its baffling, the way some of them will even get personal and start throwing insults and trying their best to make you regret your stance. Abeg abeg abeg, just as there are women that need marriage to be happy, there are also women that don't need it to be happy so you guys should look for the ones that are dying to get married. No be by force for every woman to like the same thing. Such disgusting entitlement Nigerian men have. Because a woman isn't building her happiness around a man you feel you have the right to attack her. Who una be sef? What makes you people think you are so valuable that every woman should be dying to spend her life with you? Rubbish. Naijafeminist don't waste your time on fruitless causes abeg. Stick to your beliefs, you're entitled to them. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 10:53am On Sep 14, 2016 |
JuanDeDios: But what you just described is what feminists are fighting for. In this day and age, responsibilities have to be shared. Even if not equally, it has to be shared at one point or the other by BOTH parties. I don't expect feminism to be accepted universally but can the hate just stop. What women are demanding is not illogical from any angle I look at it. It's just common sense. No one wants to feel used. We are told to contribute financially because of the economy, yet we are told to bare the full burden on the home front too. Body dey tire na. Why won't women look older than their husbands years down the line? I have an uncle that can wake up 2am to ask his wife for pounded yam and she'll prepare it happily. I can never judge that arrangement. Why? Because she's a full housewife. However, a lot of women are not. Those are the ones I'm arguing for. 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by naijafeminist: 10:55am On Sep 14, 2016 |
fellis: Lol, thanks And I guess I don't owe anyone an explanation for my beliefs too 2 Likes |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by JuanDeDios: 11:12am On Sep 14, 2016 |
naijafeminist:I agree totally with the sentiments you have expressed. Responsibilities have to be shared as much as the prevailing circumstances allow - that's commonsensical. A man who provides little or no money and passes the burden to his wife and still expects her to do all the cleaning and cooking and child bathing is lazy or plain insensitive. It's as insensitive as the working woman who expects her husband to carry all the financial burden. The man should do housework, although how much he can do will vary from one family to another. When I said feminism will never gain universal workability, I was alluding to the fact that there are women who WANT to be kept - all their life aspiration is to become's someone's housewife or sugar baby. It's an arrangement that works. But are there really still men out there who expect their wife who works full time to do all the house work? |
Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by JuanDeDios: 11:18am On Sep 14, 2016 |
LynnPetra:Ok. Your writing and your thinking skills are both good. If you want something in the near or medium term, do get in touch. 1 Like |
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