This proud new dad, Shamora Collins, in the
photo above, has become a Facebook
sensation currently after he shared photos of
himself taking care of his baby girl while at
work. (His wife works too).

Shamora, who is an IT manager from
Uganda shared his amazing decision on
Facebook – the post which has now
garnered over 75 thousand likes and 8
thousand shares reads:


When my wife wife’s maternity
was done she wondered what we
would do for baby Christabel
since she had to resume work.. I
thought of hiring a maid but after
seeing brutal maids actions I told
my wife I will be going to work
with her….. She laughed I told
her I couldn’t risk my child with a
maid . my work being flexible and
my wife couldn’t go with her….. I
took up the role….so I asked my
wife how to bathe her,feed her,
dress her and how to hold her
which she gladly taught me…… Its
a month now since I started
working with my daughter…. Iam
happy and enjoying every
moment ,she no longer cries for
the mum anymore……..
Baby Christabel thanks for being
cooperative she sits well in her
car seat and listens to music and
we drive too and from work as
she laughs.
Thanks my boss for letting me
bring my daughter along . and to
all my colleagues thanks for the
support
Fellow men Dont get ashamed of
your children play your role…..


see pics below

Source : http://www.praizeblog.com/2016/10/meet-this-man-who-takes-his-child-to.html?m=0


cc lalasticlala fynestboi ishilove ijebabe missyb3

the position of that baby's head in the last picture is not advisable when feeding a baby. anyway he tried sha.

He must own the business that's why. And where is the baby's Mama?

The wife should take this up naa

speedyconnect3:
The wife should take this up naa

looking after the child is not only the wife responsibility.

Nice one. The baby is well taken care of.

He's lucky his employers allow him bring the baby to work.

rokiatu:
looking after the child is not only the wife responsibility.

lol abi? They both had sex...

rokiatu:
looking after the child is not only the wife responsibility.

The responsibilities are done in different ways. Not to the point of the father taking his infant child to his place of work when the child needed the mother most. Just like it is in the picture, a mother can't feed her daughter in such posture. They both have the child, it is their responsibilities but the responsibilities would be carried out in different ways...

Oga please hold the baby's head well while feeding her before she chokes. Thank God for men like this. .

busar:
The responsibilities are done in different ways. Not to the point of the father taking his infant child to his place of work when the child needed the mother most. Just like it is in the picture, a mother can't feed her daughter in such posture. They both have the child, it is their responsibilities but the responsibilities would be carried out in different ways...

That's why he needs to learn how to do it before taking up the responsibility. No woman was born with such Knowledge, we all had to learn it too. I don't see why men shouldn't as well.

Nigerian men think it's beneath them to attend antenatal with their wives or reserch on how to take care of babies. Meanwhile these are things every father should know ordinarily.

Take this man for instance, he only started learning how to bathe, feed, cloth, etc the baby when his wife'said maternity leave was due. But he had 9 months of pregnancy to research and 3months of maternity to practice. Yet he chose not to until the last minute. Now he's doing things wrongly and if something happens to the baby, people will blame the wife for passing her 'responsibility' to the man.

Come to think of it, isn't the woman working to support the family too? Why should she then have to bear the responsibility of childcare alone?

It just doesn't sound fair!

Ujoan:


That's why he needs to learn how to do it before taking up the responsibility. No woman was born with such Knowledge, we all had to learn it too. I don't see why men shouldn't as well.

Nigerian men think it's beneath them to attend antenatal with their wives or reserch on how to take care of babies. Meanwhile these are things every father should know ordinarily.

Take this man for instance, he only started learning how to bathe, feed, cloth, etc the baby when his wife'said maternity leave was due. But he had 9 months of pregnancy to research and 3months of maternity to practice. Yet he chose not to until the last minute. Now he's doing things wrongly and if something happens to the baby, people will blame the wife for passing her 'responsibility' to the man.

Come to think of it, isn't the woman working to support the family too? Why should she then have to bear the responsibility of childcare alone?

It just doesn't sound fair!

The husband can only assist but not taking the sole responsibility of child caring entirely. Likewise the wife too, it's not her duty to assist the hubby financial. It is her money, she can assist her hubby financially (which is commendable) but it's not her responsibility to do so. Just like nobody can say it's the wife duty to provide for the family financially. Child upbringing is not about just showering the baby with money but the motherly care. The husband and the wife have different role to play entirely. We were even taught this in Social Studies back in those days

Note: I'm not saying the husband can't feed, bath and cloth the baby. This act promotes love in the Union BUT it is the wife's duty..... We shouldn't Westernize everything that comes in our way please

busar:
The husband can only assist but not taking the sole responsibility of child caring entirely. Likewise the wife too, it's not her duty to assist the hubby financial. It is her money, she can assist her hubby financially (which is commendable) but it's not her responsibility to do so. Just like nobody can say it's the wife duty to provide for the family financially. Child upbringing is not about just showering the baby with money but the motherly care. The husband and the wife have different role to play entirely. We were even taught this in Social Studies back in those days

So what if (God forbid ) the wife dies during childbirth? Is the baby doomed to complete lack of parental care?

busar:
Note: I'm not saying the husband can't feed, bath and cloth the baby. This act promotes love in the Union BUT it is the wife's duty..... We shouldn't Westernize everything that comes in our way please

Nobody is asking him to do it all the time. He only does it while the wife is at work. I'm sure he promptly passes her on once she returns.

Ujoan:


So what if (God forbid ) the wife dies during childbirth? Is the baby doomed to complete lack of parental care?

But the wife is not dead yet

busar:
But the wife is not dead yet

So he should wait till his wife dies before he start taking care of his child?

Ujoan:


So he should wait till his wife dies before he start taking care of his child?

No one said he shouldn't take care of the child

cc lalasticlala

The fear of househelp is the beginning of wisdom,thumps up to the man,caring for babies is not beans.if more men can be as helpful as this man(not saying men should start taking their babies to work), there will be less stories of house help and their wahala .

Cool dad

Ujoan:


That's why he needs to learn how to do it before taking up the responsibility. No woman was born with such Knowledge, we all had to learn it too. I don't see why men shouldn't as well.

Nigerian men think it's beneath them to attend antenatal with their wives or reserch on how to take care of babies. Meanwhile these are things every father should know ordinarily.

Take this man for instance, he only started learning how to bathe, feed, cloth, etc the baby when his wife'said maternity leave was due. But he had 9 months of pregnancy to research and 3months of maternity to practice. Yet he chose not to until the last minute. Now he's doing things wrongly and if something happens to the baby, people will blame the wife for passing her 'responsibility' to the man.

Come to think of it, isn't the woman working to support the family too? Why should she then have to bear the responsibility of childcare alone?

It just doesn't sound fair!

Thank you so much my sister for this post. Well said.

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Cute...but one of them could resign. I would resign and do it till the kids could start school or till I could do my thing.

Wonderful! If only many men can be this helpful in childcare.

With the responses on here it is clear that African culture is nothing but a set of uncoordinated rules made by egotistical men with hardly any human feelings.

When it comes to your child's upkeep there should not be competition if love exists. This man deserves a big thumbs up!

rokiatu:
looking after the child is not only the wife responsibility.

Ugba gi akaria

So impressive... Keep it up...
She is gonna love you even than her future husband.

Rabbish